Friday, April 30, 2010

Ok.... I really need some advice from women..... Guys are whatever if you know what your talking about..?

Ok, im 15, and I got my first period in august ( a friday the 13th... I know I know..) then skipped until Oct. The didnt get it until the end of december, early january, like the 28 of dec. and then the end of jan, early feb, and havent gotton it since. i know its normal, but am I TOO normal?





Im just concerned, is it ok to skip a few months?


If this means anything, my mom g9ot hers at 18 and never skipped, and my aunts got it at 11-13.


Whats going on? Im Fully figured, and I have everything im suppost to. Why am I doing this? Is it okay?Ok.... I really need some advice from women..... Guys are whatever if you know what your talking about..?
you are fine, it is totally common to have irregular periods in your teenage years. If it bothers you, ask the doctor for some low dose birth control pills to regulate you.Ok.... I really need some advice from women..... Guys are whatever if you know what your talking about..?
I know that in the first year of having your period that it can be quite spontaneous (ex skipping afew months here and there). I believe if it lasts longer than that, you should tlak to your doctor about getting on an OTC to help regulate it.
my cousin's period does the same thing hers is because she only has one ovary. you should tell your mom but if you don't feel comfortable telling her you should make yourself an appt. at the clinic or doctor and talk to him about it.
When my periods started at age 13 it took a while for them to regulate and average out to 27-35 days (which is the normal range). So don't worry at all. If this keeps up past a year you might call and chat with an OB or nurse about it.





Do NOT take birth control for irregular periods. It may make you bleed less but it will actually make things worse because it will supress ovulation, which is a normal, natural and healthy thing for a women in her reproductive years to do.





Birth control is absolutely unecessary and over-prescribed for teen girls. Just be patient with your body. It's all good.





Best of luck!
I believe it is important for you to see a female gynecologist for an exam. Nothing to be shy or scared about.
CHRISTINA,





WHEN YOUU'RE FIRST GETTING YOUR PERIOD THERE ARE MANY CHANGES INSIDE YOUR BODY ON THE BIOCHEMICAL LEVEL.


SO IT'S NOT UNUSAL TO HAVE IRREGULAR CYCLES UNTIL YOU GET OLDER.
There is no reason to be nervous. I was the same way but if this doesn't help you could always go see a doctor to put your mind at ease.
ur irregular, its not a big deal just dont wear white pants and keep a pad w/ u all the time...
it might be ,but wouldn't hurt to get it looked into
Paxico is right...it is completely normal to be irregular when you first start...let it regulate naturally...birth control is not the answer

Good to Bad Terms breakup. Will she ever miss me and come back? Do ex's gf miss good guys like me? ADVICE?

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. WhyGood to Bad Terms breakup. Will she ever miss me and come back? Do ex's gf miss good guys like me? ADVICE?
Depends on how you treated her when you were together. If you were great with her she would had never broke up so time will only tell. Don't wait go on with your life.Good to Bad Terms breakup. Will she ever miss me and come back? Do ex's gf miss good guys like me? ADVICE?
women don't like the one that is so in love with them, you have to cute it loose at least for know try hard to not call or say anything, play hard to get, and with time she will comeback but even if she did don't lose control again try always to show that you are not really desperate and you choose to be with here because she want you to ,trust me it work every time.
Dude, I know it's hard, and it's obvious that you're pretty smitten with this girl. . .but in this situation, it sounds like it's best to just move on. I am a girl, and I can tell when other girls are playing mind games. . .and it sounds like that's what she's doing. NOBODY should put up with someone who says they're ';out of your league.'; That's complete disrespect.





It's best just to move on and find someone who you mesh better with. Leave this girl alone, because 1.) she sounds pretty mean and 2.) you are NOT going to get her to take you back by being persistent, you're just going to drive her further away.





Good luck. I know it's hard.
just nail her!!!!!!!!!!
It's high time you stop wasting time for her!





Life has so much on offer. Keep moving.

Does he like me?? guys please answer, need advice!?

this guy (my friend) accidentally found out i liked him. the next day him and his girlfriend didn't talk and didn't touch or anything (kiss) and he was kinda quiet today in the class we have together. he didn't walk her to the car, or talk to her by their lockers (there right next to each other)





do you think he could like me? when he found out he smiled at me





i make him laugh all the time, and he tells me im the coolest freshman he knows, and he also tells me im really funnyDoes he like me?? guys please answer, need advice!?
ok so there is no way to tell if he actually likes you yet


try and find out from his friends


ask around.


see how he acts around you?


if he is extreemly nice, then there is a possibility he likes you


but if he is kinda of a jerk he could like you too.


most guys dont like girls if they barely know them so get close to him...


thats all i can think of for now...
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  • Advice please girls and guys?

    ok so hes not the best looking guy. but he likes me. and i might like him. i havent even had my first kiss and i feel like kissing him so bad. but hes rlly ugly. im not saying looks matter but just be hygenic. he showers but get a haircut here and there. first impressions r the whole package so i think some1 should look fresh and clean. i mean am i a bad person for thinking so? should i kiss him or what?Advice please girls and guys?
    Ok, not the best looking but really ugly. Is this because of his hair or clothing style. Or is it the so ugly he would make a train take a dirt road, mom had to tie a pork chop around his neck to get the dog to play with him ugly.





    Then look in the mirror. What do you look like? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some beholders need glasses.





    If you like him and he's not a total troll, talk to him, maybe discuss cleaning him up. Never judge a book by it's cover. You never know what might be under the dust jacket and inside.





    Mind you everyone has standards, just make sure yours aren't so high. Or low.





    We also can be shallow. Even when drinking, I know ugly. Yes, I can be shallow..Advice please girls and guys?
    Well if you like him, ask him out. In today's society it is okay for the woman to ask out the man. I wouldn't suggest kissing him so abruptly, but if he isn't that good looking, you could probably ask him out on a date, it may give him a motive to look a little bit sharper. Love isn't always about looks, and if this guy has a personality you can see yourself relating to, then you definitely should give it a shot, especially if you're eager enough to go right in for the kiss.
    My honest answer is if you like him then go ahead and kiss him. But if his looks are really just not what you are looking for, then move on. I think you want your first kiss to be special, not just some desperate kiss just so you can experience it. So I would say you should wait for someone you really like instead of settling.
    My boyfriend's not the hottest guy but i love him. Take that into consideration. Follow your heart and not what other people think. Once you figure out if you really like him you could always ask him to cut his hair or whatever...But go for it! Kiss Him!
    If you really like him, then you'll be willing to help him get better hygenic habits first. It doesn't take much. Besides, it couldn't hurt, could it? Better hygiene would be better for everyone.
    like him for who he is not whta he looks like.


    or if you're that worried ask him out and dont tell anyone you're going out with him
    your not a bad girl... well at least i think your not





    do what you think is best for the relationship
    go for it



    hmmmmmmm,go for it

    Is this love or a nightmare? Girlz and guys i need your advice!!!?

    Ok I'm an Italian girl in love with this guy who he lives in South America. I spent the whole summer with him but because of the distance we decided to remain just friends. I felt really miserable anyway decided to go on and live my life, since I'm coming to UK to attend a postgraduate course, I was thinking of all the new things that were ready for me to live and to discover.





    Today the guy I'm in love with wrote me an email saying he's coming to Italy next month with his family, and that he's planning to find a part time job in Rome!!!





    Isn't that cruel?!?! I mean as soon as I'm coming to England he manages to come to Italy! I wrote him it's fine if he wants to visit Italy with his family, but if he wants to get a job and visit Europe then it would be better to do that in England so he wouldn't be alone in a foreign country..





    I dunno what to think. This story is obsessing me so much! The harder I try to get over him the harder it gets !Is this love or a nightmare? Girlz and guys i need your advice!!!?
    You did the right thing by suggesting him to come to England.. who knows?, maybe he will come and you can then have a great time


    If he doesn't well.. lets try harder to move forward with you life and live happily... I know you will !

    How can you tell?[best advice prob.from guys]?

    how can you tell if a guy likes you?


    like,what are def. signs that he does?


    is there something that most guys do to leave a hint?


    a certain way he might act?


    im totally lost.


    help me out(:How can you tell?[best advice prob.from guys]?
    Well, there are so many signs, but it depends on the guy's personality.


    If he's outgoing, he may be annoying to you and be highly flirtacious.


    If he's a bad boy, he may be rude to you or he may be sweet to you and rude to everyone else.


    If he's shy, you can find him glancing at you during class, or looking your way, and turning around as soon as your eyes lock.


    There are many different signs. Good luck!How can you tell?[best advice prob.from guys]?
    wow this is waay too general ...no age, race, place where the guy is living.. all of these facts and more have a BIG effect on how a guy acts when he likes someone.. is he shy/outgoing ? is he well mannered/rude? is he active/quiet? is he the geek/the hot guy in the class? I can go on and on the same way with girls some girls they would come to your face and tell you that they like you other drop hints..... all depending but not limited to ...... the details above.
    if he is alittle clumsy and tries talk to you more...and etc.





    they have freudian slips, try to be smarter..or impress





    like an idiot..i should know
    smile smile smile


    and few artificial coincidences to smile smile smile
    there is one sign i always show to alot of girls..the stare

    I can't move the cage but i can call a vet about my guinea pig thanks you guys but i still need advice

    if you can't move the cage and your guinea pig is still bleeding, i would say call the vet right away. wrap your guinea pig in a blanket ((unless the vet says something else)) and drive her to the vet. it would be helpful if another person could hold your guinea pig ((in the blanket)) and keep it calm. i hope everything turns out okay.I can't move the cage but i can call a vet about my guinea pig thanks you guys but i still need advice
    if after all this time she is still bleeding at there are no babies to show for it you need to make a move before you lose her. if the labor is proceeding in a normal fashion then just stand by. if the babies are coming too close together then you should help remove them from their sacs so they don't sufficate. otherwise i wouldn't touch them or her too much.

    GUYS!!!! NAKED GIRL? NEED ADVICE!?

    I was just wondering if guys prefer that their girlfriend/wives sleep naked with them or in a cute lingerie/panties, etc? If naked? Do guys ever get tired of seeing them naked?GUYS!!!! NAKED GIRL? NEED ADVICE!?
    I have been enjoying the company of a naked lady for over 15 years and am still not tired of it.


    Cuddling nude is quite AWESOME!!!!


    so sleep sans clothes and enjoy.





    NiFGUYS!!!! NAKED GIRL? NEED ADVICE!?
    I think that depends on the couple. My boyfriend and I usually both sleep nude. But when I'm home I usually have a shirt and my underwear on but he somehow finds a way to get them off me at some point to get me nude whevever possible when he's around.

    Guys I need your advice girls can answer too?

    I met a guy on the internet and we decided to met each other. We went to a local pool hall/Bar. We played pool and drank a few beers and talked a lot. I think things went well. It was only for about an hour and a half because I got called into work, but for that whole time I think we had fun. He bought me a beer and everything and when it was time to leave and we walked outside he put his arm around my shoulder and gave me a slight hug and I forgot what he said but it was good night or something like that. I sent him an email the next day telling him thanks for the evening I had fun hope we do it again. It's been 3 days and I haven't heard anything from him. What I want to know is did I miss something and he's not interested or am I expecting something to soon? Should I give it up as a lost cause or wait a little longer?Guys I need your advice girls can answer too?
    i would at least give him a week...if he dont contact you, shoot him an email and if he dont respond, then i think it wont happen.Guys I need your advice girls can answer too?
    Depends on what you do for a living. Leaving a first meeting after 90 minutes seems like bad form on your part, unless you are a surgeon or on a SWAT team. If you spent a bit of that time on the phone, you are probably dismissed.
    Sometime at first date, guy usually speak alot and there is bulk of meaning behind it which I think you has miss what he want. So recall those things that both of you has chat maybe the answer is in it. Good Luck.
    first off, did you tell him you were called into work(i know it sounds liek a silly qyuestion, but bear with me)if youjust said you had to go, he proboly assumed that you didnt think the date went all that well. or, he could just be nervous, us guys we get teh jitters, so you might want to send hima reassuring email, tell him that youd liek to go out again, then youll knwo for sure.
    Maybe he went out of town or something happened to his Pc, give it a couple days, then email again, just checking in on him, making sure he received your first email, if no response, let it go.
    just wait. Something might of been caused from not getting his email. Just wait a lil bit longer
    wait a bit longer, he might have gotten busy...if you ahven't heard from him in say, five days, then give hima call
    A little of both: expecting something to soon, and he's not crazy about you. You were probably ok to him, but if he really liked you he would have either called or repsonded to your email. So you met a guy and had a fun time -- that could be all it amounts to. No big deal.
    Follow Irishthun's advice.
    Give up and move on.
    You hang in there Happy-Cut. Give it a little time, if it is meant to be then it will be.
    no he's waiting on you to call or send an email not to say he's controlling you but remember you were the one that had to leave and at time we want to feel like your interested too so go ahead and give him a call
    I'd try e-mailing him one more time if he doesn't answer in a timely manner i'd write him off.he probably isn't interested.but from how you described the date it sounded like a good first date.maybe he felt the getting called in to work was preplanned on your part to get you out of the date early.and maybe he is a superficial jerk who could't appreciate the niceness of having a gal who's fun to hang with.
    It was one date for an hour and a half. Don't take it so personal.


    He may be interested and has been busy. But he may not be interested at all and you will never know ';why';. Don't let something like this make you second guess yourself or agonize over every detail of the night. If he doesn't write back...No point in calling him. You aren't desperate. Just have another date with someone else. sometimes a date is just a date. Don't read into it too much. Relax and enjoy going out.
    wait a litlle bit longer and see if he does anything....
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  • Need advice from the guys PLEASE?

    When you take a girl to dinner and a movie with your parents does that mean things are seroiusNeed advice from the guys PLEASE?
    or he isn't allowed to go on a date alone.Need advice from the guys PLEASE?
    It means he likes her and so do the parents.
    It means good things.
    Most likely, or at the very least they're headed in that direction.
    That's a very good thing. Be happy that you can all get along so well.
    no that means he's young and broke
    Usually does.
    sorry to not give a stright answer but it depends on the guy. some guys think its no big deal some guys do.


    but its a good thing cuz if it was his parents that means he wants to show you off.. if it was your parents that means he thinks your parent are nice and don't mind spending time with them.
    i would say no...depends on how long you have been dating..if its you first date ...you would just be a dork
    OFF COURSE otherwise he wont introduce you to his parents .


    But it doesnt mean that he's gonna marry you!
    Holy cow yes. I've never... well, we've had dinner together but I didn't take her out and bring my parents along... I would say it's getting serious.
    It means he like you enough to meet your parents.

    Guys, I need your advice?

    If you like a guy, is it okay to flirt with him every time he gets on Facebook, to let him know I am interested, or should I keep my cool and be more of a challenge? I know some girls who were aggressive flirters and got their man. Everytime I facebook chat him, should I flirt with him, dont guys say they love to be flirted with? Or should I not?Guys, I need your advice?
    Yes flirt but tactfully and don't over do it. We like to get flirted with but becoming obsessive makes us wonder if you will flirt with other guys all the time too. Make it feel like he is special and that you only flirt with him. You could also put subtle hints on your facebook that you really like him. Is he your favorite friend if they have that on facebook? If you have been together in person do you have a picture of the two of you that you can put up in your profile? Actions help prove your words.Guys, I need your advice?
    flirt with him so his intrigued and thinks your fun. but kind of only do it when your in a convo and the occasional message of how r u going this will make him like you. but don't be clingy or keep sending to many messages if your not in a convo, he'll get repelled. don't act like your a challenge because that will give him the idea that you don't like him and he will end up not liking you or if he already likes you he'll just stay quite wont open up and wont make a move.
    Flirt with him, but don't over do it. Keep him wanting more of you ;)








    You got it in the bag girl.... don't even stress!
    Oh good god get past the constant non-verbal contact already buhjeezus. I think we as a people can do better than Facebook/Myspace/texting all the time. We need to progress. Isn't that the point of being an innovative society?





    Well, in any case you should indeed flirt with said guy whenever you get the chance... and make sure he actually picks up on the signs that you are giving him
    LOL i used to talk to my bf everytime he was on facebook ;)


    Use things he likes to get his attention. For example, my bf owns a motorbike, i hinted that i liked bikes and like being on the back of them. So, then he asked me if i wanted to go for a ride. been together 7 months now. lol Go ahead, FLIRT!! not to much though.. just enough so he see's you are interested. Any nice profile pic's he has, leave a comment ;) good luck
    play hot and cold so he is more interested making him confuse and more wanting to know about you
    this is a common mistake with women and men. they never cut to the chase. i stayed up all night talking to one girl about some stuff. and i found out 5 days later she wanted to go on a date with me. damn too late, i was seeing somebody. and then i was on there talking to some girl i liked who kept talking with and i took too long to pull the trigger on that. ive know the girl forever so i kind of stung a little bit to let that one go. Cause man she was fine! but if you like somebody just say it. who cares, what do you got to lose? all you have is something to gain. nobody is going to get mad at you cause you tried.





    most of the time if you establish you are interested and back off and talk to some other people in the process, the person will usually come around and give you a chance. dont waste peoples time on facebook flirting about stupid stuff. same goes for texting.





    the lady who mentioned leave some nice comments on pictures is correct. Men like that.
    i love to be flirted with so keep it up.
    well i am a guy i am 22 and i think it is fine flirting and yes guys liked to be flirted with
    flirt with him but not excessively. once you start flirting, hell get the hint.
    Love is a very respectable relationship. If you are interested in a guy, you should be flirt with him. To be flirt with the guy leaves an everlasting impression on the mind of your friend, that you are a flirt and not a serious friend. I think you will understand the whole situation. Good Luck.
    depending on the guy is how he will react to ur flirting ... every player loves to to chase at first to not hurt his ego quite kids love it becuz its not the norm he always gets flirted with but it deff wont hurt unless its a random guy and hes weirded out from it but it seems like u guys got a good connection so i dont see why it wouldnt benefit from you
    you should let him know that your interested but dont make it seem like oH im all yours when YOU decide you want me. give him his space and dont talk to him every single time you get the chance, they will start feeling like they have you readily, which i dont think girls like to feel. wouldnt u like to feel that you were worked for and won over? im saying this in the most respectful way possibly.
    Flirt away :) But I mean don't throw yourself at him. That's not attractive, but make it obvious you like him. Personally, I flirt a lot, but I make it clear that I'm not hung up on him and I make them think they have to work for it.
    I would flirt with him, but not every time he鈥檚 on Facebook. If you flirt with him too much or go way overboard on the flirting you could come off as desperate or clingy. So, definitely flirt, just leave him wanting more.
    Well, maybe not EVERY time he gets on Facebook, but keep talking to him.





    If you flirt with guys that often, they tend to get used to it and like it, but if you stop doing it so frequently, they'll often try to coax it out of you. If he's doing this, consider it him flirting with you and flirt back.





    Just don't crowd him too much. Then you'll just seem like some crazy chick bent on screwing him, getting pregnant, and forcing him into a painful, unwanted relationship that he will always regret. He may even become suicidal...so don't do that.
    Do what is right if you like him then go ahead but if you want to get to knw him better then keep your cool
    Flirt wit him, but not too much so he comes back for more and starts to become more interested in you ...
    It's true that guys like to be flirted with, but when it comes to letting him know your interested in him be straight and to the point. I know very few guys that are into playing games, let him know in plain English that you want to get together. If you're honest and straight forward then he will be too.
    Flirt with him then he knows that you into him.

    I,v got 1 week to pay of a 100,000 gambling debt ,these guys mean business any advice

    I wish i had of seen your other questions before I answered the last one, having a little fun at the expense of us all???????? Takes all sorts I suppose.I,v got 1 week to pay of a 100,000 gambling debt ,these guys mean business any advice
    Dear In Need of Help:





    I think you should have asked for help before incurring the debt, not exactly run to the boards for solace now. You have a major problem to contend with and my first place for help would be the rooms of GA (Gamblers Anonymous)--you need help!





    Second, do you own property? Boat's, homes, art, or jewels? Anything that can be liquidated for cash? Now is the time when you need family and friends--not to bail you out, I think you need to figure that out, but just as a support system until you can clear the debt. You also failed to mention if you were a dad or had a family of your own that this may ultimately effect.





    Make the call!I,v got 1 week to pay of a 100,000 gambling debt ,these guys mean business any advice
    That's a real bummer. The answer to that question is to never get yourself into something you can't afford!! Gambling is not a good investment for your life unless you have the money to lose in the first place. Invest in yourself instead of something you know nothing about. If you invest in yourself you'll always have money when you need it. The saying goes....a fool and his money are soon parted!..Believe me it's the truth! Good luck paying that debt.






    Dude!





    It really depends which currency the debt is. If you're talking Zimbabwean Dollars, it only amounts to a handful of tea. They won't bother you for that!





    Relax. Think of another question.
    Economics of scale. Do you make 1,000,000/yr? If so, set up payment plans. You'll bang it out in 2 months if you offer to pay extra interest.





    If you've bet an amount you can't pay, I'd say it's time to get a passport and leave the country.
    100.000 $?!?! are you serious? omg... I think it's impossible to pay that, maybe only in small amounts in a long period of time. If You cannot reason with them, I guess you can only run away and stay low.
    yeah go to the police, to ensure its public record you acknowledge it but are scared for them not being profesionals about it





    and then get a lawyer to help you draft up an agreement more reasonable
    if they are REALLY serious, best tell your family and loved ones. trust me, you don't want anything happening to them.. then maybe go to the police, or run like hell...
    I'd pay it. I'm sorry to say, but it's your own fault for working up that debt.
    Pray and run away
    Run
    Leave the country!!

    Calling guys in your late 20s? Advice about older women?

    Can younger guys (in their late 20s), really take a woman who is in her 40s (but looks early 30s) seriously? I mean can they really really fall in love? Say they are both single without children? What if he wants kids? Help me please, I am this woman with a guy of 28 who wants to date me and I am so reluctant. Please don鈥檛 tell me I鈥檓 a cougar, I鈥檓 just a regular woman who happens to look and act years younger, slim and all naturally by luck.Calling guys in your late 20s? Advice about older women?
    All my life, that's all I ever wanted. Of course we can. Work out the details later. See what it's like for a while. You might want to move on yourself later, so don't try to tie everything down by the end of the first date.Calling guys in your late 20s? Advice about older women?
    I certainly can't speak for all guys but I can speak for myself.





    Nope. Maybe as a one night stand but I am not a fan of older women mainly because I know when I'm in my 40's every older woman is going to bash me if my girlfriend is in her 20s (which is likely since I own a business). I spent my entire life hearing older women call older men perverts for dating young women. I see no reason to reward that with love. Older woman younger guy is more of a tv/movie thing. Its not a real world thing. certainly not in the area of marriage.








    I am much happier with a young asian girlfriend than an older white woman lover.





    Once most of us males reach our late 20's .... I think we are more interested in becoming cougars than having them.


    Thats just me.





    I cant take older women seriously. I dont even really see me taking them seriously when I'm older.





    Now when I was 19 it was a little different. I was curious about them but didnt know how to approach one. But at my age now. not really.

    Please good advice for shy guys.?

    I don't know this guy at all. I am in none of his classes, never talked or anything, but I like him. When if he is too reliable on his friends to make a move. Like they don't approve of me, and I don't know why they wouldn't. But I am just throwing that out there. What are some signs that shy guys give when they are interested? And what signs should I give to him?Please good advice for shy guys.?
    Shy Guys


    These are tough to crack sometimes...


    He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.


    You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it


    He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.


    He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.


    He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...


    Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).


    DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.


    (Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

    Can I get some advice from a guys point of view?

    There is this guy in my health class who always stares at me in the hallways %26amp; everything, but when I sit next to him in class, he never looks at me or talks to me. One day in class I saw him looking at me, and I smiled at him %26amp; he gave a very sweet smile back to me. Whenever I laugh at what he says, he turns his head to look at me like he is flattered. I like him a lot, %26amp; everyone claims I'm a beautiful girl. One thing is in my way... my brother says this guy only dates really popular girls.. do you think this is true? Do any of you guys just have to date popular girls even if you're attracted to a kind of popular girl. I'm not UNpopular, but, I'm not really that popular. I think that's a pretty petty thing that people date from scoial status %26amp; I thought only girls did that. Did any of you guys do this when you were in highschool? Oh, %26amp; does it sound like he likes me? He's two years older also.Can I get some advice from a guys point of view?
    Sounds to me like he likes you yeah. but at the same time i also think that he may not wanna talk to you because if he only dates popular girls then that settles it he don't wanna ruin his record of dating popular girls. But yeah guys can also look at social statuses. not all though but wut can u say every guy is unique. I personally don't mind if someone is or isn't popular i jest care that their good looking and all.Can I get some advice from a guys point of view?
    Popularity doesn't mean a thing to most guys who are mature. Everything he's done points out the fact that he does like you but may be too shy to talk to you or ask you out. If he was trying to get with you due to your popularity he would've talked with you the first time he saw you. Some guys almost seem to ignore girls that they really like so please don;t take offense to that if that happens. Just talk to him. You never will know unless you get to know him better.
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  • Hey guys, I have been having trouble with my forehand at tennis, especially the inconsistency. Advice please?

    Does anyone know what this wrist assist or raquet bracket thing is like which helps keep your wrist in position? I used to be much better that I am now but I had a pretty bad injury and didn't play for like 3 years and seem to have picked up loads of bad habits with my forehand. I'm pretty sure the take back loop isn't consistent enough and I have been trying to use the ball machine to sort but doesn't really seem to be working. Its really frustrating me. CheersHey guys, I have been having trouble with my forehand at tennis, especially the inconsistency. Advice please?
    The only advice I can give you is try to make every stroke finish in the same position. Although tennis is about constantly making adjustments, you want to make the stroke as consistent as possible. Also, videotape yourself so you can watch what you are doing on your forehand now, and if you have a tape from 3 years ago (or just watch a pro's forehand) watch what you are doing differently. The more you practice, the better you'll get. Good luck!

    Advice needed from guys?

    ok i have no idea what to get my bf for our 1 year together. it cant be somthin dirty cuz his parents are gonna be with us at his house. but i want to get him somthing sentimental and meaningful i am completly clueless. HELP!! what do guys like to get?Advice needed from guys?
    a nice piece of clothing would do...trust me





    maybe a nice polo, or even a pair of jeans...or shoes =] !!!Advice needed from guys?
    Get him a beanie baby.

    Advice please? :-) :-) :-) Girls && guys welcome.?

    The other day in the lunchline this guy and one of his friend randomly said hello to me and asked me my name. Now whenever they see me in the hallway they say ';hi!!'; really loudly or softly playfully bump into me. But then again, they are one of those people who you would NEVER expect them to like you or anything. They are one grade above me. I'm a girl. Haha. It's crazy. Now what do you see this as? And what do I do?Advice please? :-) :-) :-) Girls %26amp;%26amp; guys welcome.?
    do you know their names :) say hello to them too :)Advice please? :-) :-) :-) Girls %26amp;%26amp; guys welcome.?
    hhahah well a lot of my guy friends try to flirt with girls younger then them so they do stuff like this all the time!!


    most likely they dont like you but they just want to bug you and ';flirt'; with you so just smile and be flirty and talk to them dont be shy! maybe it will end up something bigger!


    and they probably think your cute!
    They think your pretty and are flirting with you hun. Flirt back at them
    they could just be being nice. it's not uncommon for someone to ask another their name.
    intresting
    They both find you to be attractive, both may be somewhat inexperienced at meeting females and probably do not mean any harm.


    By all means find out who they are but do not be too eager to start any more than a casual friendship with either one of them until you get to know them well and become familiar with the kind of friends they hang out with. Be casual and friendly but do not take any foolishness after giving them an opportunity to talk sensibly and share their thoughts and interests.
    they just want to look cool by talking to you


    they might be trying to make someone jealous


    older guys usually want to show the guys in their grade that they met a new girl, so they are kinda bragging about ';knowing'; you
    i think they are definitely flirting with u

    I need advice on this guy situation ? girls and guys help?

    ok i dated this guys for 2 yrs and it went off and on . It went good for the first month but then since he moved to a different place and he got back into doing drugs he has been emotional abusive called me names and always put me down. I was the only one helping him out when he needed help nobody else help him. But i got treated like crap for helping. part of me thought that he was just using me and taking advantage of me but i didnt want to believe it bc he is my first love etc. He recently told me that i should find a guy that wont use me and that he has been using me this past week. He rather play his guitar and smoke then hang out with me. I thought we got back together like afew weeks ago but he never toldme that we had broken up. If he wanted to break up he should have told me instead of leading me on.





    i know i deserve better





    what do u guys think?





    hayleyI need advice on this guy situation ? girls and guys help?
    Dump the chump.I need advice on this guy situation ? girls and guys help?
    it seems like this guy isnt right for you, the way he treats you and the things hes doing just doesnt seem right. you wrote that he was your first love and you dont realy want to lose what you have maybe you can just stay friends or something
    Umm Hello. What are you doing? Are you stupid? Look you sound like a your a smart person just get up and leave please. I know he's your 1st love but believe me your second love will be so real you may thing that you're dreaming. Please leave because sooner or later this may turn into a physical abuse relationship. If after all this you mean nothing to him leave. You deserve better.

    Advice for shy guys?

    I have a tough time meeting women in my area. I am very shy, and it takes me a lot of time to work up the courage to talk to a woman I am interested in at graduate school or at the bar. I am also very smart, a bit on the dorky side too. I feel that might be a turn off to many girls my age, since I don't really go out and get hammered at the bar, and get loud and carry on, etc. I have triend internet sites, and also being hooked up on blind dates, but they don't turn out very well. I am very book smart, however I don't know much about the opposite sex...is there any hope for me?Advice for shy guys?
    You sound lovely. There's nothing wrong with being a little shy and smart! Maybe you should consider going out and having a couple of drinks, Dutch courage is a wonderful thing : ) I swear I would NEVER have had a boyfriend without a beer helping you overcome the embarrassing, awkward first date. Good luck, you'll meet someone then be complaining about them after a year or two like everyone else : )





    ps plenty of girls are shy too and feel awkward with guys.
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