Friday, January 8, 2010

GUYS..i need your advice. i want my man back?

We were dating for a year, I ended it and hurt him really bad. He says he still wants me but also has feelings for someone else and doesn't want me to just move on and let him go. How do I get him back?

Girl says she needs time to get over her ex? needs guys and girls advice?

so i was really good friends with this girl for a while but she was in a relationship and then when her relationship started to fall i was kinda in one but then it broke apart and we have been talking all the time but while i was in a relationship and she wasnt she was telling me how she kinda has a thing with this other guy but that hes weird and shes not sure if its gunna work out. then i told her that im kinda interested in her and she seemed happy to hear it and said that i have a really good chancee but she just cant be in a relationship right now which i can respect. but my question is how much time will she need or how can i ask her how much time she will need without sounding to clingy or anything. any advice will help thankssGirl says she needs time to get over her ex? needs guys and girls advice?
It depends on her and how quickly she can get over her ex. I mean, even if you ask her, you can really put a time frame on things like that. It could be months or just weeks. So with that, you are just going to have to wait it out and continue to be there for her. Good luck.Girl says she needs time to get over her ex? needs guys and girls advice?
Give her some time about 2 weeks and then ask her out, if she is hesitant then she still has feelings for her ex.





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There is no specific time limit for it, but you must give her time and not pressure her. Just continue to be her friend, make sure she knows you're there for her, then there likely won't be a whole lot of time she needs to get over it.





Be careful, though. I tried this with my best (girl) friend, and while it had great potential, her ex's influence was just much greater then mine. So, just understand that everything might not go your way.
If you care about this girl, it shouldn't matter how much time she needs. What's the hurry? Blue balls?





Besides, you should be 'tuned in' to her enough to not even have to ASK that question! When she is ready, she will make it known....





If you are worth a damn, she will not forget about your offer. Just chill out and let her sort it out on her own. She'll love you for it.
stay away... think of it like you cornered a stray dog and although it's an invitingly cute little puppy, it's showing it's fangs and growling.
chances are, she was just telling you that as a nice way of saying no. trust me, if she was really into you, she would drop everything and get with you.





so best thing to do is move on and find a chick that you can get her interest without being in the dreaded ';friend zone';. trust me bro, I've been thru it.

I need a little advice from some guys! It's about an all girls college...?

Ok so I'm 20yrs old and currently attending an all girls college.... ugh NIGHTMARE!.... Anyway, what do guys think of when someone says ';all girls college';?


P.S. I'm NOT a LesbianI need a little advice from some guys! It's about an all girls college...?
well for me its just someone who is going to an all girls college i do not affiliate all girls college with lesbians even though in alot of cases you do find more open relationships with lesbiansI need a little advice from some guys! It's about an all girls college...?
a college with only girls
i think that all those girls are serious about school so they go to an all girls so they don't get distracted by guys
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  • Ok GUYS i know you get sick of answering these types of questions but i need advice!?

    ok, so I am not fat at all, but I want my toned stomach back. i want to start running, but i am afraid it will make me ';lose'; my butt. do you prefer a natural woman with an almost flat stomach and larger thighs and hips, or a toned woman with a flat stomach and smaller proportions? (obviosuly not a jacked girl, just slightly toned)Ok GUYS i know you get sick of answering these types of questions but i need advice!?
    both, hahaha.dont worry so much about what we/they think but ur health.Ok GUYS i know you get sick of answering these types of questions but i need advice!?
    Both are sexy if your not talking about 100 pounds over weight.





    Men want a healthy woman that doesn't treat them like dirt. If she treats him right, a little extra weight is not a problem.





    Ask yourself this. Are you stuck up? Do you treat men bad because they don't fit what you think they should physically? Or.............do you have a good attitude about others? Are you nice? Do people see a scowl on your face when your not purposely smiling, or is there a natural, peaceful, look on your face?





    Men can see a lot in a woman's face. If you have a good face, (didn't say beautiful) and just talk to a man and treat him nice, he will not care about your body that much. Unless you are obese. BUT, there are men that like those types to.





    In this day were feminists have ';the only good man is a dead man'; attitude, men figure, if they are going to be treated bad, then she at least better be beautiful.
    The first, almost flat tummy with larger hips/thighs! :)

    Need some advice, girls or guys feel free to answer!?

    okay so my girlfriend who I have been in a long distance relationship (that became an open relationship at one point) is coming backin about a month from now. She comes back a few days after I leave to go on a family vacation, though I would only be gone about 10 days, which puts me at home a few days after she starts college back up. SO, here is where you guys come in... I need to give her a gift.. COULD be something like jewelry, could be something I would DO for her, ANYTHING.. the only requirements are that it must be cute ;) and it has to be serious, something that will seem very meaningful, even if it is playful in nature. ANY advice would be appriciated... and remember... I need a gift that's gonna make some big waves in her heart ;)Need some advice, girls or guys feel free to answer!?
    You can never go wrong with Teddy Bears and flowers.Need some advice, girls or guys feel free to answer!?
    look at juicy couture jewelry,bags,clothes.....she will be impressed....
    if it was me i would want you to get me either a bracelet or a necklace
    Propose to her. Get her a nice ring. Since you have money issues get her a non expensive but real ring. My dad got my mom a ring that was only gold.

    I need advice for attracting guys...? (guys & girls plz)?

    I don't care how I do it or what kind of guy it will attract. I made a bet with a friend that I can attract more guys than he can girls. I'm not too bad at flirting and I'm not an ugly monster or anything. And I can fake different personality types. I am willing to do almost anything too. I know this sounds skanky but I really want to win haha!I need advice for attracting guys...? (guys %26amp; girls plz)?
    lmfaooo. wellll i guess, flirting is what you need and a different personality for each person. youd want to change it up, because not everyone wants the same thing. being that you would like to win this bet, then try coming on to guys in a girly, flirty type of way then reeel 'em in! ;)I need advice for attracting guys...? (guys %26amp; girls plz)?
    guys like it when the women's hair is down(most guys)


    when they aren't afraid to be flirtatious and talk to them


    when they are nice, not self-centered


    smile alot, it's a turn-on to most guys


    bite your bottom lip, for some odd reason guys think it's sexy..


    Try to look as attractive as possible(not saying wear a bus load of makeup though)


    Hope I helped :)

    What are the best topics to talk to girls about in smalltalk? Advice please gals and i guess guys?

    start watching americas next top model!





    theres was this one guy in my class who watched it and he would always talk to all the girls about it... he wasnt gay and infact it showed how secure he was of his masculinity

    Advice for all guys out there!?

    I read a few days ago an article that said that guys are scared of beautiful women. They feel intimidated and don't have the courage to step up and ask them out. This article was actually written by a doctor who performed the test on some guys. He said that the guys are just scared of a negative answer. I'm sure this doesn't apply to a lot of you guys; But for those who feel intimidated and feel like they have no chance, pls just go out there and ask the girls out. Don't be shy or anything.Advice for all guys out there!?
    I love guys who have the guts to come up to me, but I don't doubt they will feel awkward receiving a negative response but to those who don't muster that courage well they'll most definitely miss out. ^-^Advice for all guys out there!?
    very true. you hit the nail on the head. There are a ton of boys/adult men that have this hanging over them every single day of their life and they feel defeated before they ever do decide to get the courage.





    The older you get the more the playing field is leveled, because confidence increases with age. But it is great to hear a woman say that and hopefully a lot of kids and younger adults will take your advice!!
    I honestly thought I was ugly for the longest time because I couldn't get a date with a decent guy. Finally this guy I'd had a crush on for awhile asked me out and admitted he'd had a crush on me for a while but thought I was too far out of his league to ask me out. We've been married for 13 years now.
    thats easy for you to say bcuz your a grl, your not in the position, its harder than wat u think it is, meeting a beautiful girl when you dont have a lot of confidence, is like having sex for the first time, you dont wanna be bad at it.
    me to scared, you ask her for me n give her my email address., lol.

    Advice:girls and guys thanks?

    can someone give me beauty advice. i think im ugly and no guys like me. my friends beg to differ but whatevr.


    advice?Advice:girls and guys thanks?
    Try make up.





    It works wonders. And once you know what make-up looks good on you then go to a club or bar and just go up and talk to guys.





    you could also change your hairstyle, and colour.





    I bet by the end of the night you'd have guys SWARMING all over you





    And maybe change your clothes.





    Clothes tell guys what kind of attitude you have!Advice:girls and guys thanks?
    If u feel ugly i think u should definitely get a fabulous make-over and try on clothes that make u feel ultra sexy. Put on ur fiercest heels with kickass jewelry and head out of ur house man hunting ;]
    Go on Match.Com or get a makeover at spehora.
    You are beautiful just the way you are!!!!!! If you want to look good the FIRST thing you have to do is feel good about yourself! If you have such negativity then you wont look any better! And if guys dont like you the it's their loss!
    put on a little makeup.


    and don't think you're ugly. that gives people an unhappy attitude so they don't appear as friendly.
    if a boy thinks you are ugly then don't go for him.look for somebody eles that likes you for you not your looks!
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  • I need advice on how to make a guy like me (guys opinions highly wanted)?

    Tell me what you hate that girls do and what you love and what makes you like a girl pretty pleaseI need advice on how to make a guy like me (guys opinions highly wanted)?
    Well the first thing is be yourself. Don't try and be someone your not or act completely different around friends. Be sweet, nice, lovable, polite and etc and you'll find the right person. And always say pretty please lol.....jk : ) what state do you live in anyway? hope this helped

    Advice on two guys and one of my ex best friend?

    She's mad because I was 'flirting' with one of the guys she's talking to.. /=


    And I wasn't even flirting with him!


    We have ONE class together, and talk for like, 10 minutes maybe?


    Then she's mad because she thinks I added the other guy she's talking to on Myspace..


    HE added ME when me and his friend were talking.


    What should I do about it?Advice on two guys and one of my ex best friend?
    wait first you said you were flirting than you said you weren't. Try talking to her and explain what happened if she dose not except your explanation than that is her problemAdvice on two guys and one of my ex best friend?
    I've noticed that you seem to have a lot of ';guy trouble';? I chalk that up to youth. As far as your friend, if she really was a ';friend'; then you wouldn't be having this problem. I also noticed that a lot of your trouble happens while on Myspace? Maybe you need to focus a little less on 'boys'; and start finding other activities to keep you occupied? You're having too much trouble in the boy department because of different people being jealous, etc.. You need to find one boyfriend and stay with him. Then nobody has a reason or even a thought in their head that you're messing with somebody they like.

    Any advice to a shy guy who is gonna talk to a girl?

    Ok, I might be interested in this girl, and I'm gonna try to be this girl's friend and if I do like her ask her out. But I'm shy and never tried to get to know any girl before. Any advice for me?Any advice to a shy guy who is gonna talk to a girl?
    well first things first... be her friend ans get to know her.


    sometimes you just look at the book and like it without even knowing whats it about.


    so then after when you are her friend, and you still like her...


    go for it. show her you like her little by little.


    ask her out somewhere to eat or walk with her on the beech or ask her to come to ur house to chill. call her on the fone. theirs so many ways you can show a girl you like him. tell her her hairs pretty or she looks nice today.Any advice to a shy guy who is gonna talk to a girl?
    First of all, be confident! ^_^


    Talk about yourself, but also ask her about herself too, because that will let her know you care about what she thinks/likes.


    Figure out what she likes, and talk about it. Be careful not to pretend you like all the same things.


    If she's on a social networking site (Facebook, Myspace.. etc) strike up a conversation with her.


    Get to know her friends, that's usually a clue to what she likes.
    Just try to act confidence, if you're all meek and timid it's showing us that you dont really like yourself, so why should we? I know it might seem crazy, but that's how our minds work.





    I'm not saying you need to be over confident and loud, just feel comfortable in your own skin and show her that you're willing to stand your ground to get her as a girlfriend.





    Message if you need more advice! :)

    Advice Girls?.....maybe guys if interested?

    i dont get g strings...........is it comfortable...etcAdvice Girls?.....maybe guys if interested?
    G-strings i think they can give u major wedgie. also they sometimes they may be comfy lol. trust me i have expierence and u can enjoy sometimes but where black pants well dark ones. or any kind of pantsAdvice Girls?.....maybe guys if interested?
    Who wants to floss their butt? Not me.
    Well g strings are not for everyone my doctor tells me to never sleep with them on all night the string irrates your bottom they are comfortable and you may take to them well I suggest your shop around and look at the g-string before you buy it make sure you will be comfortable wearing them wear them for whatever occasion you are going to wear them and once they come off leave them off I suggest shop at Victoria Secret's they have beautiful comfortable g-stings
    once you get used to them they are comfortable, because your panties dont ride up your butt and you dont have to pick them out...theyre already in there
    They actually aren't that bad at all.. they used to be all I wore, but you have to watch that..your *** crack will get raw.. other than they are perfectly fine..especially if you like that NO PANTY LINE effect!
    Depends on what they are made of. And, if you buy the, too tight, they hurt. Make sure you buy the right size and the right material (cotton.) I prefer thongs. They look uncomfortable, but they really aren't they are WAY more comfortable! And if you wear thongs, you don't have to worry about underwear lines. :)
    Comfort is not a necessity. Wear them only when you know they will be removed directly. They make great rear-view mirror ornaments.
    they are way better trust me but make sure u get ur right size
    err, i dunno. never tried, but it seems like it would give me a MAJOR weggie. :D
    they're actually really comfy, but the first time it feels a little strange, they're a necessity for sum outfits once u get kno what they are good for, just dnt show them off like most girls do, it's gross to girls and the ';right'; kinda guy too if u kno what i mean (trust me ive asked around), i mean as long as ur not trying to show it off it's chill... hope i helped!
    yes they are comfortable because if you wear them right you cant feel it
    I'm a guy- I love to wear G-strings- they are comfortable, except when...you know. :)
    no like that first girl said if you put it on right you shouldnt fell it!
    they caan be comfy. but in my opinion, a cute pair of garage boycut panties are waaaaay cute %26lt;3!
    Well, I hate flossing my teeth (although I do it cause I have to), but I can't imagine flossing anything else.
    not uncomfy but i find that theyre like wearing nothing so i prefer frenchies


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    I need advice about love (two guys to choose from)?

    1.im in love wid a douche, he doesnt love me but he has feeling for me.


    2.a sweet and loving guy is in love wid me, but i dont love him.


    who should i choose?


    should i follow my heart?I need advice about love (two guys to choose from)?
    It seems like we always like the *******. and walk all over the guys who really love us. Believe me, even though the ';douche'; is more exciting and more appealing to you, you will probably be hurt by him. The sweet guys are the ones to settle down with. I don't know how old you are, but if you are considering being with someone for a long time, maybe even marriage, don't waste your time with the ';douche';. But don't settle for someone you don't love either, unless you feel as if you could love them if you really gave him a chance.I need advice about love (two guys to choose from)?
    Well first. . drop the jerk.





    If he doesn't love you then why are you wasting your time?


    That's not fair.


    You are wasting your time, emotions, and feelings. .





    Let the sweet guy down easily.


    Tell him the truth.





    If it's too hard to tell him maybe you could just


    say you just got out of a relationship, and you just need


    to be single right now so you can think about some things,


    and figure out what it is you really want.
    You should definitely not go for the douche (boy number 1)


    Your gonna end up getting used and hurt.





    Boy number 2 looks like a decent option. You should get to know him better, maybe even give it a try to date him.





    I think you should look for someone else cause your limitting yourself
    2.


    If 1 is a douche, why give him something he doesn't deserve?


    BUT, if you don't love 2, then neither.


    Don't push something that you're obviously not feeling.
    Follow your heart. Why go for a sweet and loving guy when you don't love him? Choose 1, because even though he's a douche, you do love him. Feelings can be nurtured.
    You should choose neither of the guys.Wait and establish a good friendship with someone that feels the same way about you that you do about them.The best relationships start off as best friends.
    i'd pick the sweet loving guy. its better to date people who love you and care for you instead of dating jerks who date you just to have a girlfriend, not love or care.


    鈾?good luck
    Yes,


    Hon, you need to follow your heart just do what it tells you. I have experienced this before, and that is what I did.


    Good luck! *hugs*
    give the guy u dont love a chance

    I need some serious advice fast,-theres 2 guys that i really like?

    OK...you like them. And? Are you asking what you should do? We need more details here.I need some serious advice fast,-theres 2 guys that i really like?
    Think of it like this. Which guy is going to be best for you? Which one will give back the same or much more then you do? Which will appreciate you more? Thats a hard decision though, good luck =)I need some serious advice fast,-theres 2 guys that i really like?
    and?
    Here....thimk of hm you like more...whos better


    But be sure is it just a teeny little crush or do you feel a heart shaped bubble pop out of you whenever u c him. That guy whom ur gonna choose must be decent and god at heart and not love u only for ur body but he should love you he should be of good character and nice and ofcourse be able to understand you


    I just wish u get the righ guy even though i don know you


    cheers


    Anne
    That's silly, we need more information or something or maybe an actual question...because you never even asked one? Go with either number 1 or number 2, it's a safe bet.
    no one can make this decision for you, if you like them both a lot, then you don't like one enough (because you still have ';like'; feelings for the other...)
    3some
    Make them the luckiest guys on Earth.
    oh sweet...sounds like me when i found 2 cute girls in 2 different classes. Ask one out and if he says yes go out with him...if he rejects move onto the second one...or try them both for a week or two and end it with the more boring one.
    Must be nice to like 2 guys than to be married to ONE u can't stand!! Count ur blessings, I'll help u-One , Two...
    And your question is... what exactly?


    your not giving us much to go on.
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  • Is there a website or any advice that advises about picking up straignt guys?

    i see str8s look at me all the time but i dont know the protocol of itIs there a website or any advice that advises about picking up straignt guys?
    i hope you're a girl. but i don't knowIs there a website or any advice that advises about picking up straignt guys?
    Just act natural.

    I need advice about love (two guys to choose from)?

    1.im in love wid a douche, he doesnt love me but he has feeling for me.


    2.a sweet and loving guy is in love wid me, but i dont love him.


    who should i choose?


    should i follow my heart?I need advice about love (two guys to choose from)?
    It seems like we always like the *******. and walk all over the guys who really love us. Believe me, even though the ';douche'; is more exciting and more appealing to you, you will probably be hurt by him. The sweet guys are the ones to settle down with. I don't know how old you are, but if you are considering being with someone for a long time, maybe even marriage, don't waste your time with the ';douche';. But don't settle for someone you don't love either, unless you feel as if you could love them if you really gave him a chance.I need advice about love (two guys to choose from)?
    Well first. . drop the jerk.





    If he doesn't love you then why are you wasting your time?


    That's not fair.


    You are wasting your time, emotions, and feelings. .





    Let the sweet guy down easily.


    Tell him the truth.





    If it's too hard to tell him maybe you could just


    say you just got out of a relationship, and you just need


    to be single right now so you can think about some things,


    and figure out what it is you really want.
    You should definitely not go for the douche (boy number 1)


    Your gonna end up getting used and hurt.





    Boy number 2 looks like a decent option. You should get to know him better, maybe even give it a try to date him.





    I think you should look for someone else cause your limitting yourself
    2.


    If 1 is a douche, why give him something he doesn't deserve?


    BUT, if you don't love 2, then neither.


    Don't push something that you're obviously not feeling.
    Follow your heart. Why go for a sweet and loving guy when you don't love him? Choose 1, because even though he's a douche, you do love him. Feelings can be nurtured.
    You should choose neither of the guys.Wait and establish a good friendship with someone that feels the same way about you that you do about them.The best relationships start off as best friends.
    i'd pick the sweet loving guy. its better to date people who love you and care for you instead of dating jerks who date you just to have a girlfriend, not love or care.


    鈾?good luck
    Yes,


    Hon, you need to follow your heart just do what it tells you. I have experienced this before, and that is what I did.


    Good luck! *hugs*
    give the guy u dont love a chance

    I need some serious advice fast,-theres 2 guys that i really like?

    OK...you like them. And? Are you asking what you should do? We need more details here.I need some serious advice fast,-theres 2 guys that i really like?
    Think of it like this. Which guy is going to be best for you? Which one will give back the same or much more then you do? Which will appreciate you more? Thats a hard decision though, good luck =)I need some serious advice fast,-theres 2 guys that i really like?
    and?
    Here....thimk of hm you like more...whos better


    But be sure is it just a teeny little crush or do you feel a heart shaped bubble pop out of you whenever u c him. That guy whom ur gonna choose must be decent and god at heart and not love u only for ur body but he should love you he should be of good character and nice and ofcourse be able to understand you


    I just wish u get the righ guy even though i don know you


    cheers


    Anne
    That's silly, we need more information or something or maybe an actual question...because you never even asked one? Go with either number 1 or number 2, it's a safe bet.
    no one can make this decision for you, if you like them both a lot, then you don't like one enough (because you still have ';like'; feelings for the other...)
    3some
    Make them the luckiest guys on Earth.
    oh sweet...sounds like me when i found 2 cute girls in 2 different classes. Ask one out and if he says yes go out with him...if he rejects move onto the second one...or try them both for a week or two and end it with the more boring one.
    Must be nice to like 2 guys than to be married to ONE u can't stand!! Count ur blessings, I'll help u-One , Two...
    And your question is... what exactly?


    your not giving us much to go on.

    Is there a website or any advice that advises about picking up straignt guys?

    i see str8s look at me all the time but i dont know the protocol of itIs there a website or any advice that advises about picking up straignt guys?
    i hope you're a girl. but i don't knowIs there a website or any advice that advises about picking up straignt guys?
    Just act natural.

    Can you guys give me flirting advice?

    How do i talk to a girl in the hallway that ive flirted with but havent had a conversation with?Can you guys give me flirting advice?
    well im a gurl and i like when boyz act sarcastic to make me laugh i love to laugh and i love when boyz make me laugh, maybe u should make her laugh and flirt with her then give her a hug then say ';so wut class u got next'; then take her there and ask her'; u wanna go out somtime'; or ';can i have yo phone#'; and give her ur's, if u kno how to flirt wit a gurl then dont be scared to ask her out or start a converstaion wit her!





    hope this helped





    karina





    good luck





    nina02_atx@yahoo.comCan you guys give me flirting advice?
    its more of a personal thing just have to figure out what this girl likes and talk about only her, make her feel special
    You dont have to flirt with her like a pri@k. try Talking with her.
    when you see her stop infront of her and smile and just say Hi. of course she will say it back then tell her your name and you just wanted to say hi. things will go from there.
    dude its the most simple thing in the world. just be urself. if she doesnt like it, tough. compliment her, make her feel special, make her laugh, its easy.
    make her smile, and compliment her. dont flatter her, tell the truth!
    agree^^^^^


    start by saying hi.....compliment but dont over do it....will be able to see the b.s. coming other wise....


    be sincere in your compliments.....


    make her laugh......


    find a clean yet funny joke to tell

    Ladies and guys, i need your advice?

    Im 17 and i have liked this girl for about a year, i have never talked to her or even had a class with her so i doubt she knows who i am, i am friends with some of her friends though





    she sits at my lunch table this semester with about 12 other people, she usually sits two or three spots away from me.





    how should i approach her? what should i say? i dont want to send her any signals that i like herLadies and guys, i need your advice?
    Just be friendly and start up a conversation about, well, anything. Be confident and nice and just say you'd like to get to know her better or something and since you seem to hang out with the same group of friends (at least at lunch?) it shouldn't seem like a huge problem.
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  • Need some relationship advice from a guys perspective...?

    I'll try to make a long story short. In h/s I met this guy %26amp; we had a very short lived relationship. So we broke up %26amp; that was the end of us.During the next 2 years of high school the only time I ever saw him was walking through the hallways. Now we're both 21 years old. Anyways, a few months ago he finds me through the net %26amp; contacts me %26amp; writes me this big apology about how sorry he was %26amp; so on and so forth. Well we talked for a few days %26amp; a few months later, here we are still dating. %26amp; things are great.


    But my question is, how do guys feel about girls expressing their feelings toward the relationship? I feel very strongly for him %26amp; I love him a lot. There are days where I'm feeling very blessed to have him in my life %26amp; I tell him that. Does that scare a guy off? Usually whenever I tell him things like how much i care for him, love him, etc. he's just kind of quiet. Hes told me he loves me %26amp; the night he said it for the first time it was so passionate. I need some opinions/advice!Need some relationship advice from a guys perspective...?
    If you say these things to much, that's when us guys start getting a little annoyed. Try to say these things when you really need to, or at least when you think is the right time.

    I need some advice from the guys?

    So tell me honestly how can you tell if a guy likes you for sex or he really actually likes you....very hard to decipherI need some advice from the guys?
    if he only wants to have sex or talk about it than you know thats all he wants...if you never really have heart to heart convos than he probly dont care about no relationship.I need some advice from the guys?
    take the sex out of the equation for a cpl meetings and see how he responds. I HATe this tho....lol

    Guys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?

    Add your age too, pleaseGuys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?
    respect, adoration and submission. I'm 45Guys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?
    1) Stop asking, ';what are you thinking?';


    2) When having an argument, stick to the topic at hand and don't bring up history!


    3) Stop having arguments. Ok, that's not realistic. Don't take things too seriously.





    Age: 35
    1. Gag reflex


    2. Open mind


    3. Aggressive sexually.





    36.
    I am 44 male





    1) swallow


    2) Don't talk to him about anything for at least one hour after he gets home from work


    3) Remain slim
    Flexibility





    Caring





    Sexuality





    Im' 50
    Maturity, understanding and sense of humor. I am 32.
    Spelling...
    Develop a sophisticated sense of humour.





    Don't flirt with our friends.





    Be confident in the bedroom and tell us what you like.





    I'm 42.
    Be spontaneous and fun, sense of humor


    Trust


    Lady on the street but a freak in the bed





    28/m

    Need help only girls please or even some guys but give me some good advice ?

    if a guy talks to you and kinda tease you and plays around with you and always smiles at you what does that meanNeed help only girls please or even some guys but give me some good advice ?
    If he does that with more than two or three girls, then he's just playing around. If he's usually quiet and doesn't really talk to other girls, then most likely, he likes you. However, those kind of things are really hard to figure out...You can never be sure. The best thing you can do is just flirt or play back...see what he does and just wing it after that. There's nothing else you can really do besides asking him directly.Need help only girls please or even some guys but give me some good advice ?
    You have a crush awwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol girl he is interested in you he is just shy of saying it and thats just how some guys show it
    He's interested in you.
    it means he's a happy person. and he's probably testing out his flirting techniques on you. doesn't mean he like you though. so don't get your hopes up
    that the guy wants to get in your pants...
    more than likley he likes you

    RELATIONSHIP ADVICE HELP! i need a guys help to!!please and thank you?

    so i really like this guy and hes in a wheelchair but i only get to see him like twice a year and i want to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with me too should i? and should i shave my vag?will it hurt?and what kind of positons? please help! i would really ipreciate it and for a guys opinion what do you think also?RELATIONSHIP ADVICE HELP! i need a guys help to!!please and thank you?
    I think you should go for it. and shave the puss, thats super sexy! as far as positions tough to say depending on why he is in wheelchair, how much movement he has. maybe you on top.RELATIONSHIP ADVICE HELP! i need a guys help to!!please and thank you?
    well i have to say that yes shave it. and i guess u on top mabye sum anal. u know? sittin on him. but im only 15 wat do i know. (ALOT)
    yes

    Guys...I need some advice. All advice is welcome!?

    Give me some tips so that I don't scare my boyfriend away.





    I want to find out from him where he feels our relationship stands. I want to know if he sees us together more long term or what. We said early on that we would just go with the flow but things are changing and he may be relocating for a job so I want to know. We've been together for 6 months.





    What is the best way to bring it up. What should I say and not say? What would scare you or hurt you? I don't want to break up or anything I just want to know where we are headed. I just want to know how he sees ';us.';Guys...I need some advice. All advice is welcome!?
    just be honest and ask your questions. explane why you are asking these questions. first tell him how you feel about the relationship. if you have a good relationship, there should be no problem.
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  • Hey guys, I had a very faint positive prego test,but we are trying not to get our hopes up, I need advice.?

    By the way we have been trying for 5 yrs. This would be our first child together, I have 2 daughters from my first marriage. I sure do feel pregnant and have alot of symptoms, I think I'm just scared to take another one in fear of being let down.Hey guys, I had a very faint positive prego test,but we are trying not to get our hopes up, I need advice.?
    I know, it must be hard on you, but since ringing up my pregnancy test's company, I was relieved to know it dosnt matter how faint the line was its a pos'; and my doc said ';It sounds like ur preg, but we'll do a blood test 2 make sure.';





    Goodluck hon!!! :)Hey guys, I had a very faint positive prego test,but we are trying not to get our hopes up, I need advice.?
    go to the dollar store and buy a tom ...like 10 or so . take them all! LOL it sounds funny but it helps rest your mind. if most of them are + then you are and you can jump for joy! call your doc and tell him you would like a blood test to see if you are pregnant or not. he can also do an exam to see if there are any changes in you to show you are pregnant.





    I talked to a lady in my OB office that has been trying naturally for the past 8 years and she was about to pop with twins! dont give up !
    Hi; Nobody knows their body like you do , if you feel a little pregnant you just may be, I hope so. If not don't give up trying. I have friends that were childless for nearly 10 years, adopted, pregnant 3 months after the adoption, hard to figure.Try not to worry about.go slow and easy. More friends of mine used a pillow ,under the ';bum'; missionary position, after male climax, stay inserted as long as possible. Good luck John T.
    Wait three days, then take another test. Make sure you use your First Morning Urine because the hormones are more concentrated. Waiting a few days will also give the hormone levels a chance to build up. You should get a much clearer positive. Best wishes!
    sounds like you are pregnant! congrats... I went for a test the other day and the doc said that even a faint line will be postiive, it is just slightly lower levels of hormones (common in early preg), the doc was saying how he has seen some tests come up very strongly very quickly, and others fainter and slowly, but they are all positive.... there is no such thing as a false positive test.
    You are so pregnant, congrats!
    i would go to the dr to get a blood test to confirm the test!!





    congratulations
    that positive is a positive.congratulations to you.
    It doesnt matter how faint the line is.....as long as you can see it.....more than likely you are pregnant!!


    So congratulations!!
    don't try so hrad be come if u do try to hrad she ain't going to be pregnant
    for it to be positive at all, you have to have some pregnancy hormones in ya ^_^ so I bet you are pregnant.
    those tests are not accurate all the time. my friend took 5 of em and three came out positive and 2 came out neg. she finally went to the dr and she wasnt prego. the only sure way of knowing is to visit the drs office and find out.

    I need some guy advice, anybody think they can help me?

    Ok so there's this guy I really like and im pretty sure he likes me back. He has kinda hinted at liking me and stuff. He is coming over Friday and has invited me to his New Years Eve Party. Any flirting tips? How do I give him the ';go'; signal to ask me out? HELP!!!! I'm running out of time!!!I need some guy advice, anybody think they can help me?
    Well, I'm a guy, have been for 22 years now, and I wouldn't know a ';go'; signal if it bit me in the balls, lol, I didn't even know they existed.


    Guys don't work like that darling, we're terrible at taking hints and reading signs and even if we think we do read them right, we probably won't act on them for fear that we might've gotten the wrong idea.





    With guys its best just to be open and honest and just put all the info out there for his poor little brain to process. lol


    Maybe you could say really obvious stuff to him like you wonder who you're gonna kiss at midnight and whatever, but he could just pass it off as a joke so its safer just to be honest.





    With guys these days, $hit, you might even have to ask him out yourself, but either way, don't wait for a guy to pick up your signs, cause we're not that bright, and don't be upset if we don't follow them, it doesn't mean anything, it probably just means we never got it. lolI need some guy advice, anybody think they can help me?
    well guys want to be all mysterious and shy and all casanova on us girls.but even though theyre not they still try to be so you need to ask urself if you reall want to go anywhere down love lane(metaphorically speaking). and u have to put some effort into it ok?well lets see if you get laid and OH i almost forgot try not to be desperate or anything like that its kinda pathetic and basically asking for a slap in the face soo good luck and if its going to slow kiss him at midnight on the new year.i personally think that sexual touching is one way to start off the new year!!k hope i helped
    it sounds like he likes you. he has already asked you to his party just ask him to do something with you. movies, mall, something he may be interested in doing. have fun.
    ok well when he comes over watch a movie and cuddle if he likes you the cuddling/snooping will happen naturally. so just be yourself and the flirting will come naturally too!
    Give him a condom.

    I am 16 years old and i weigh 290 lbs. i really want gastric band surgery, could u guys give me some advice??

    i dont think you need surgery at 16 to Ioose weight..i know the road seems Iong and hard...but you are young enough and resiIient enough to do the work to get the wight off!I am 16 years old and i weigh 290 lbs. i really want gastric band surgery, could u guys give me some advice??
    you are only 16..like the first answerer said you are very young and can lose the weight if you just work hard!!I am 16 years old and i weigh 290 lbs. i really want gastric band surgery, could u guys give me some advice??
    I can answer this question because I've had the Lapband myself. Personally it's the best thing that I've ever done for myself.





    Many people believe that weight loss surgery is cheating...who cares? Cheating may save your life as far as I'm concerned. Being as overweight as you are not only is horrible for your self esteem, it's bad for your heart, joints and other organs.





    It's not easy losing with the band because you can still eat food that is high in calories and fat. However it helps you limit the amount of food that you eat, and for me, it's motivated me to try to eat foods that are better for me.





    I'd talk to your family physician and see if you'd be a candidate at your age. Also you'll need to see if your insurance will pay for it or not.





    If for whatever reason you're not a candidate, you may also look at Weight Watchers. They have a fabulous program and are very motivational. Once you start losing you'll feel so much better about yourself and that in itself will motivate you.





    Good luck!
    i'm not sure if u'll approved b/c of ur age. but keep in mind some ppl gain the weight right back after surgery so u'll have to pit in effort to keep the weight off
    Way Way Way too young for gastric surgery. Your body has not fully developed yet and you'll be causing more harm than good at this time. All I can say is work out like a nut, and truely watch your diet. Had a buddy that weighed 340 almost all through high school. Went to college and got his act together and dropped to 225 and ripped in 13 months. But he busted his butte 24/7 that entire time. Start hitting it hard!
    Dont get any surgery, because you could cause bacterial infection to you body and anytime you open your body you are exposing more risks than gains.





    It is better to go on a Diet which is monitered by a health professional. Also Yoga will help you lose weight and streghthen you will to lose weight.
    Try contacting the author of this posting to get some addl resources to find out more:








    http://weightloss.about.com/cs/gastricby鈥?/a>





    I would agree that 290 lbs at 16 is an issue. You want to check into who can qualify for this kind of surgery. That's why I suggested to the above resource.
    if u get surgery at 16, ur risk of never waking up during the surgery are very high.you should just love you for who you are!!!!!when u r a few years older and still want it,then get it.but let me tell you its not easy.my aunt got it, and yes she look great now but it was very hard for her.the littlest things could start making her uncontrollabally throw up.she couldnt have alot of dairy,chocolate,meat,and all the good things she liked to eat.and her boyfran was a 4 star chef.so dont think as soon as you get that surgery that ur weight will just start dropping off and it will be a breeze, because its not.
    It's a little extreme for your age. Look into Hoodia and Alli.
    err!!! are you going to hve surgery to lost weight???





    aah if yes then try this first...





    9 WAYS TO REDUCE WEIGHT WITHOUT EATING LESS





    ( ! ) Don't starve yourself.





    Lowering your calorie intake will make your body reduce the rate at which it changes calories into energy. In other words, reducing calorie intake slows down your metabolism and holds onto your fat. Starving yourself will actually make it harder for you to lose weight. Food is fuel or energy and when you skip meals, you are not working on energy hat can be burned off. As a defense mechanism, your body clings to calories and slows down your weight loss.





    (2) Get a breakfast boost.





    Connie Dickman, a registered dietician and nutritionist advises not to skip breakfast. According to her, breakfast gives you energy so that you are not starving as the day go on. When you skip breakfast, you become so hungry that you eat more than you should or eat the wrong foods.





    (3) Eat complex carbohydrates.





    Practice eating complex carbohydrates rather than simple carbohydrates. Simple carbohydrates are found in food such as candy, cereal, softdrinks and ice cream. They are easily absorbed by the body and they stick to the ribs, according to weight loss specialist Dr. Daisy Merey. Simple carbohydrates have a tendency to make you store more fat.





    On the other hand, complex carbohydrates which are found in pastas, potatoes, beans, whole grains, vegetables and fruits contain ';good'; calories that are easily burned.. In switching from a meat-based diet to the one tat is starch-based, you get the same amount of food with only 25% of the calories, says John McDougall, M.D., Director of the McDougall Program at St. Helena Hospital.





    Eat more fruits and vegetables, which are high in complex carbohydrates. You will eat more, but you will lose more, because the feeling of fullness will hinder you from eating high-fat foods that make you gain weight.








    (4) Eat Fiber.





    Kristine Clark, the Director of Sports Nutrition at Penn State University says that eating high-fiber foods can help people keep their weight under control. Because foods hat are rich in fiber help people to slow down their eating and foods that are high in fiber contain less fat and sugar.





    According to Nutrition experts, one should eat 20 to 35 grams of dietary fiber a day. There are two kinds of fiber in foods. The soluble and the insoluble fibers. Soluble fibers are those that dissolve and thicken in water. Foods that contain soluble fibers include broccoli, zucchini, barley, oat bran, beans and citrus fruits.





    Insoluble fibers include skins of fruits and vegetables and the external coatings of wheat kernel.





    Fiber is an essential ingredient in one's diet because the insoluble form prevents constipation. Studies revealed that the soluble fibers play an important role in reducing cholesterol.





    (5) Drink water.





    Water helps the body break down fat and process waste according to Dr. Denise Bruner, a Virginia bariatrician, describing how water as part of her diet, helped her to shed 62 pounds. One should drink eight eight-ounce glasses of water a day.





    (6) Exercise and be active in household work.





    T o exercise is one of the best ways to maintain your weight down. Exercise helps you to burn calories. According to Franca Alphin, Nutrition Director at Duke University Diet and Fitness Center in North Carolina, ';You can lose weight without exercising, but you won't maintain the weight loss.'; Exercise may not be a major player in weight loss, but it is the number one player in preventing weight gain,'; says Jack H. Gilmore, Ph. D.





    Inactivity burns fewer calories each day, which are stored as fat. Daniel Kosich, Ph. D., the author of Get Real: A Personal Guide to Real-Life Weight Management and an advisor to Jane Fonda Workouts, says regular activity is a critical part of successful weight loss. It doesn't have to be a strenuous workout. You can burn calories just by doing ordinary chores such as gardening and housework. ';Pushing a mop or vacuum across the floor increases your heart rate and creates resistance ,'; says Barbara Baldwin, Information Services Director for the American Running and Fitness Association in Maryland.





    ';Raking leaves, stroveling snow, sanding, painting and waxing the car are calorie burners.';





    According to Laura Gladwin, California-based exercise physiologist, gardening is a great exercise because weeding, pruning and planting require bending and stretching. ';You will burn 1,000 calories by doing three-and-a-half hours of garden or yard work in a week,'; she says.





    Ellen F., a crafter in Coral Springs, Fl, found out that dieting wasn't enough to help her shed 20 pounds of excess weight.. She joined a low-impact aerobics class at her community center. By doing aerobics excercises for an hour, three times a week, she lost 20 pounds much quicker than simply dieting.





    Walking is one of the healthiest, easiest and cheapest form of exercise. Stroll briskly through a park or around your neighborhood. Walking will be more pleasurable if you do it with a friend..





    Suzanne Rossa, an exercise physiologist at Good Samaritan Health and Wellness Center in West Palm Beach Florida says, ';Aerobics excercises improves your circulation , increases blood flow,allow you to have a better blood pressure and decreases the amount of fatty substances in your bloodstream.';





    (7) Build muscle.





    Tufts University studies revealed that strength training - the kind that builds muscle will raise your metabolic rate, which enable you to burn calories. Strength training does not always follow that your muscles will grow bigger but they will certainly grow stronger.





    Daniel Kosich in his book, A Personal Guide to Real Life Weight Management says, ';when you make muscles stronger, they burn more calories. That means that for each pound of muscle you build with strength excercises, you burn 20 to 30 calories a day from your resting energy output or about 7,300 calories a year. You can strength train by using machines and free weights such as barbells.





    (8) Follow the Pyramid.





    The American Diatetic Association recommends a food guide pyramid that serves as a general list of healthful foods that must be eaten daily. The pyramid has four levels. The top of the pyramid is the smallest part , represents fats, oils and sweets. This group includes salad dressings, butter, ice cream, softdrinks, candies and desserts and foods that has very little nutritional value and can make your calories add up to.





    At level two of the pyramid are the milk, yogurt, cheese group, meat, poultry, fish, dry beans, eggs and nuts. These foods provide you with protein, calcium, iron and zinc.. ADA recommends two to three servings daily of this group.





    The third level represents the vegetable and fruit groups, which are good sources of vitamins, minerals and fiber. ADA recommends three to five servings daily of this group.





    At the base of the pyramid are the bread, cereal, rice and pasta. ADA recommends 6 to 11 servings of this group. These foods are source of fiber, carbohydrates, vitamins and minerals





    (9) Stop taking the following food.





    ALCOHOL : a 12-ounce can or bottle of beer contains 150 calories. An





    Alcoholic beverage can add 100 to 200 calories to your meal.





    Alcohol is stored in the liver as fat.





    COCONUT : An ounce of raw coconut contains 100 calories, around 77%





    Of which is saturated fat.





    CHOCOLATE, CANDY, COOKIES :





    They are full of simple carbohydrates, which means they are





    High in sugar and fats. The main fat in chocolate is cocoa





    butter which is approximately 60% saturated fat.





    WHOLE MILK : SWITCH TO SKIM MILK





    Whole milk has high content of fat.





    SUGAR : Softdrinks has very high sugar content.





    MARGARINES : Contain hydrogenated vegetable oils.








    This article is an excerpt from the book : EAT MORE, LOSE MORE.
    I think its terrible a 16 yr old is even asking. Do you realize you are at your prime for weight loss. No matter what kind of surgery you have your metabolism is going to stay the same unless you change that first. Then, years after the surgery some people are 2x as heavy as they were. I know you probably get made fun of etc. But, at 290 and 3500 calories per pound, do you realize how much food your eating just to maintain that kind of weight. Do you realize just by getting up 30 minutes early and takeing a walk, at that weight you will be able to loose weight pretty easy, or get an inhome bike they are one of the cheapest exercise equiptment. Cut the extra fat in your diet. Turn the package over and if it has over 2g of saturated fat. you DONT eat it. Just do that for now and see what happens. The fat will melt off. Get into a reality check of what your eating and up on the vegetables to cleanse out your system

    13-year-old guys, I need some advice please!!!?

    This guy that I like complimented me on my shirt the other day and I was so shocked that I didn't say anything so he sighed and walked off, but I've been hearing rumors that he likes me so next time he compliments me, what should I say to lead him to asking me out?13-year-old guys, I need some advice please!!!?
    Well, I'm not thirteen, but here's my two cents:





    If you're attracted to him, don't bring subtly into play. If there's whispers of him liking you and you like him, take initiative and talk to him first. Just talk, flirt a little, see how it progresses. If he doesn't ask you, maybe you should just ask him.





    However, I'd like to express, you're a little young to worry about boyfriends...13-year-old guys, I need some advice please!!!?
    tell him thank you and tell him you like him
    why wont you ask me out already!!??!!

    First date advice.... i need guys opinion too?

    ok im going to a movie with my bf and my friend and we are seeing drillbit taylor... we want to sit next to each other but i dont know what to do... do i hold his hand or anything like that?


    i need to now because my dates tomorrow and it would help a bunch... thanx!First date advice.... i need guys opinion too?
    wellllll its just common knowledge and old school for the boy to make the moves. first date, idk you might freak him out by holding hangs, but maybe not its cute. it might be too early in the relationship, however if you want to and he makes the move to go for it, little thigns like that are adorableFirst date advice.... i need guys opinion too?
    I would let him make the first move. If you want to hold his hand then go for it. It won't hurt, I promise.
    how old are you?


    haha. just chill.


    let him make the move.

    Pisces guys; any hints or advice?

    When a Pisces is offended do they take a long time to open up again?Pisces guys; any hints or advice?
    it doesn't matter when you were born


    it just matters who you are as a person


    don't let some made up astrological sign control your lifePisces guys; any hints or advice?
    they're pretty sensitive, apologize to him (in person) and really mean it. :)
    yeah they're so serious :/ at least the ones i know they get offended easily too and usually if you offend them and you're not that close with them in the first place they just cut you off like you were nothing but if you're close to them usually they'll open up again in time :)
    well i had an experience with a sensitive pisces. he seemed cool when i met him but it was crazy how wishy-washy and weak i began to get to know him. pisces fall in love fast, as long as you are happy and carefree. they look at love through rose-colored glasses, and i believe that some are more in love with the idea of being in love.


    and yea to answer your second question, they do get hurt easily and it might take awhile for them to open back up. but they are always in a dream world/fantasy it seems.





    learn his moon sign too!
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  • I need advice from shy guys?

    I like this guy on my bus who's realllly shy but seems really sweet. We like some of the same bands but we never get to talk because we're always listening to our iPods. I want to tell him how I feel and find out if he's interested but I'm really nervous. Is it okay if I give him a note telling him? Do shy guys get annoyed by this?I need advice from shy guys?
    shy guyshave no cinfidence to talk to girls. They don't know how. No guy wants to look or sound foolish in front of anyone, especially a pretty girl.


    talk to him or give him the note. Better yet, next time on the bus, sit next to him and offer to share you I-pod with him. You can both plug into the same one.I need advice from shy guys?
    if heis shyt he will avoid you after you give it to him. just confront him about it in a subtle way in person
    Don't give him a note... Go sit beside him instead... If you're both listening to your iPods, then motion him to pull his plugs off.. then you can start by talking slightly about music.. perhaps ask to switch iPods for a moment or for a song, and you can even let him listen to a song you think you'd dedicate to him (just don't tell him...yet) ...Afterwards, you can initiate by asking him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime coz you like his music too and you're interested to find out what other music he likes (start with music, it's your common denominator) because you think you might find new bands through him (which he may also like) that you might like but wouldn't have known of before. You know he's shy, so be the one to break the wall down and make the first move. It's okay. Ball's in your court. :)
    the thing about shy guys is that they dont like to be notied and wen they r shy they may hav some other backrounds so u should ge 2 no them all bettr
    It'd work with me.....go for it.

    I need advice(what do guys like in sex/mutual masturbation????)?

    so, what do you guys like(truthfully) in sex/fore play, and what do you all like for girls to do during mutual masturbation???


    (PS. im not a virgin....)


    %26lt;3maddieI need advice(what do guys like in sex/mutual masturbation????)?
    Everyone is different... not just men, but everyone. M/M is good because it focuses directly on pleasing the other involved... Watch and feel the responses he/she gives, you should be able to read their movement... if you go with that, then you will soon discover your own answer! Good Luck!I need advice(what do guys like in sex/mutual masturbation????)?
    69 is always fun, let him get in the back door and he'll be yours forever.....
    I like her to go rub me for foreplay. Getting a b*** job then my turn to go down on her.





    then for mutual masturbation i use one or two fingers to make her feel good while she strokes me.





    Have fun... ;)
    run around yelling 'meep! meep!' with toy dynamites attached to legs. gooshh hawt.
    If you don't know what you like and you're ';not a virgin'; than you've issues. Men like ORAL and a strong hand. PEACE!
    I can't quite put my finger on what exact aspect you are looking advice for but in general guys love everything girls do

    For guys: I need some advice?

    I think i might like this guy but he's really firty with all of the girls he talks to. Me and him have had a long history of on and off friendship since we were young but now he's really grown up and it's stirring some feelings.


    He wants to go see a movie with me and when i playfully joked around by saying how smooth he was he laughed and said that he knows he talks to a lot of girls like that but for most of them it's just innocently.


    How am i supposed to know whether or not i'm part of the most...or am i different?For guys: I need some advice?
    you won't until you actually start going out


    then you see if he commits his time towards you or he is getting his player on

    Advice needed please, guys and gals!?

    I've just started Uni and there's a really good looking guy who goes to my Aikido club, he is slightly older (don't worry I'm 18) and I really want to talk to him. He seems really quite reserved to be honest, and doesn't talk much, but I just want to get to know him!





    Trouble is, I'm lacking greatly in confidence! And I just feel I'm not even going to have any chance, so I think what's the point.





    So therefore, just looking for tips and advice about building up confidence and self-esteem as I haven't even spoken to this guy yet and already I'm writing myself off.Advice needed please, guys and gals!?
    Just don't be afraid to get your feet wet! that's all. You're not lacking confidence... you're normal... just a little unsure of your man-wooing skills. Just like we all are in the beginning. Don't write yourself off, chica. You'll get more confident over time. The important thing is to just make a move. Just try it. Even if it's something small like sitting next to him and striking up a conversation. I promise you'll be fine. And if he doesn't click with you right off the bat or if you make a complete fool of yourself don't sweat it. You'll have years and years to practice and there'll be lots of men who cross your path.Advice needed please, guys and gals!?
    Take a self-esteem course.
    Don't even worry about it! It is much better to try and fail then to never try at all. Just take a deep breath, walk over to him and say hi, you are both at the club...so there is your common ground right there. The rest is up to fate.
    Bite the bullet and ask him to go for a coffee or something with you. If he seems shy too, he'll probably jump at the chance. Get in there before someone else does.
    Well personally I would try to find some excuse to talk to him. Try and sit by him and just ask him questions about the club, but don't seem to desperate.
    I would try making casual conversation with him first. Try talking about something that has to do with you club your both in since you know he has to be interested in that since he takes that class. You have better chances of getting to know him if you are honest with him also! =]
    How old is he? Age is just a number. You could strike up small talk..ask him how he is doing..look for wedding ring etc. It all starts with a smile sweety.
    Let somebody in the club introduce you to him
    Aww just go talk to him
    You really need to work on your self-confidence and then talk to him.
    I would say that you strike up a conversation with him about your Aikido. You already have something in common so that is a good starting point. This way you won't feel intimidated or too self-conscious since you are familiar with the subject.





    Good luck!
    smile at him first...and when he looks at you and smiles back, then go up and talk to him...just something casual like about that club the both of you are in or something...
    TALK TO THIS GUY , DO NT GET HELD UP IN MAY BE . HE MAY BE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR YOU MAY FIND YOUR SELF IN ONE ? WHATS THE WORST REJECTION? BETTER REJECTION AND MOVE ON THAN SECLUSION AND PERPETUAL DELUSION
    Use aikido as a common bond...Strike up a conversation about how he got into it, then say how you got into it. Who knows, you said he seems shy and maybe hes just waiting for you to make the first move. The fear of rejection can be crippling, I know. But youve gotta try.
    go up and say hi. it's really hard but works
    CAFES AND COFFEES
    Try to give hints tyo him to let him know that you like him. You can do alot to bulid up your self-esteem, go to the mall and buy the lastest clothes and dress up every day go to the nails shop just spend all of your money on you if that makes you feel better than do it
    BELEVIE IN YOUR SELF!
    be yourself about him smile a little look at him see how he responds.
    I just went over and sat in my boyfriends lap when I first saw him.It's been seven years and we're still together.


    Just be youself, if he likes you great, if not well you tried.
    One think remember Loves doesn't END!


    So, talk with frankly don't shai!


    %26amp; PREY TO LOVE GOD!
    OMG I think when ppl say I need More confidence or self esteem is dumb. Confidence self esteem ect is not something u need more, is something u have or u don't have, it's an on and off switch. For example their are days that u look good and feel good and u have alot of confidence that makes u walk sexy, talk sexy, ect, then their are days u feel ugly and the switch is off. If u go out with ur freinds and u look and feel good and u see the guys responding to u, (you will say wow I'm having a good time), but if u feel like sh*th you will say (likes get out of here this is so gay.) If u look good dress good talk good that switch will be on babyyyyyyy.

    I have a couple questions. Will take both guys and girls advice.?

    First, how do I become less attached to my boyfriend? We used to hang out all the time, and, now, we hardly hang out at all. Today, I asked him why he doesn't want to hang out with me or talk to me anymore, and all he said was, ';Sometimes I want to, and sometimes I don't.'; On Saturday, he was extremely affectionate towards me, but every other day he hardly gives me any attention. I mean, I rarely get a 'hello' anymore. So how do I become less attached? Also, he's been planning to propose to me, and since he started planning, he's been giving me less attention and affection. Why did he have to stop giving me attention? By him not giving me affection anymore, does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? Need help.I have a couple questions. Will take both guys and girls advice.?
    Jackie if you two are on the brink of getting married then questions like this you should really be asking him. If a couple is unable to communicate with complete freedom then it is too early to be considering marriage. Actually by the sound of it he has been having second thoughts about marriage anyway, he is not sure if he or both of you are ready. That is why he is so changeable in his behaviour toward you. It does not necessarily follow that he doesn't love you , just that he is nervous about marriage and all the responsibilities it involves. But you have to be open and talk to him we here on Y/A cant do that for you.
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  • Why am i so afraid to show my inner self(guys and doctors advice)?

    at school im always the shy but smart one. i have good friends but sometimes even with them i still feel empty inside. i get enough sleep at night. my friends make fun of me because my body doesn't grow that fast. sometimes i stab myself just to get out of class.im actually missing half a finger due to an attempt to stab myself with scissors.sometimes i get so shy at something , stop breathing, my face will turn red and like die than come back to life. i think half of the reason was i was sexually abused at the age of 10 im only 11 now im still crying myself to sleep because of that one.

















    if you have any advice on how to be a man and quit torturing myself plz tell me im in need of itWhy am i so afraid to show my inner self(guys and doctors advice)?
    When I grew up I also was reluctant to show my inner self, and was always being bullied and made fun of. My answer to this is kind of weird. What I did was start watching animes like naruto and bleach. The main characters in those shows has similar, if not worse beginnings than me, as you watch you see that they make their resolve a harden it. Just be determined and be yourself, that's the most important thing. Who cares about being bullied, what can words do? It's best to go through your life determined and proud of yourself.

    Does stubble/3 day growth look cool on guys? Where can I see pictures-advice on that type of grooming?

    yes, I love it.Does stubble/3 day growth look cool on guys? Where can I see pictures-advice on that type of grooming?
    no - i think it looks awfulDoes stubble/3 day growth look cool on guys? Where can I see pictures-advice on that type of grooming?
    I think it looks dirty and unkempt as though the man doesn't care about his appearance. No kisses for unshaved faces!

    Guys, I need to buy an authentic apple i-pod from delhi. I am putting up in west delhi. Please advice.?

    Guys, I need to buy an authentic apple i-pod from delhi. I am putting up in west delhi. Kindly let me know the place/shop where I can get it?


    I am looking for it since past one month but unable to find the place. Please let me know the shop where I can get the one. Many Thanks.Guys, I need to buy an authentic apple i-pod from delhi. I am putting up in west delhi. Please advice.?
    I'd think one of the big malls in Rohini (if that's your definition of West Delhi) should have one. If not, try any of the electronics stores in Khan Market (central, southern Delhi)...

    OK, so I told my bf I wanted a break, (guys only!) girls advice too! 10 points****?

    So i told him i wanteed a break for 1 week ( not break up, just not hang around as much and have our own space, and yes, I still do like him A LOT, im not playing i swear.), and when we get back together this friday, should i say ';thank you for going along with this and respecting my decision';, and give him a kiss on the cheek? he REALLY didn't want to take a break, and he was like depressed because he is very clingy, but after the break, i just wanted to show him that i still do like him A LOT! guys, (and girls) is this a good way, or is it pushy and weird?








    thanks%26lt;3OK, so I told my bf I wanted a break, (guys only!) girls advice too! 10 points****?
    if u really do like him u shoud reward him for respecting the break. Either a cheek or a makeout will make things great.OK, so I told my bf I wanted a break, (guys only!) girls advice too! 10 points****?
    aw, don't worry. i think your idea is good, maybe instead of kiss on cheek, maybe a peck on lips which really shows you like him. Maybe you should say ';thank you for going along with this and respecting my decision, i really do love you'; %26lt; add it in or instead of love say '; i really do admire your patience';..





    Good Luck %26lt;3!
    i think it is ok if you do it like you say maybe you and him go do something and like you said tell him you appreciate him respecting your choice to give you some time alone.
    Thats great because guys take that as i need time to think about breaking up with you so yeah thats great
    I think you feel guilty about why you wanted to take a break at the first place. You should think about that and address it. If your boyfriend is clingy then he's like me and I bet he was burning when you wanted that break. But no actually your bf isn't like me because dating you for 6 months means he isn't scared of commitment. I am. I sabotage my relationships with girls because I'm so passionate that I can't stick with one. I have short attention span and Its not my fault because where i work the cutest girls come in and they all just sit there and eye me. Not to brag but its hard when you feel like all the girls in the world are falling in love with you. But back to you... If you're really honest and if you didnt screw around with any other guy during that break, then you're a good gf. And if I was your bf....I'd have been wantning that break for a while. And when it's over I'd look into your eyes and fall in love with you all over again.


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FKi125iqn鈥?/a>


    Listen to that song. You'd get it.


    You're probably going ';Awww'; right now.
    you should kiss him on the cheek. also he's a good bf for letting you 2 take a break ;].

    Cute girl looks at me in hall all the time. Guys and girls advice please.?

    Ok I'm 17 in grade 12 and male ofcourse. My friend Chris is in grade 10 and he knows this girl. Lately I've noticed she looks at me every time we are in the hall. She knows I am friends with him so yeah. I think she might like me because of the looks. I think she's cute and would like to talke with her. I'm thinking of asking my friend to help introduce me. Guys how would you aproach this situation and girls what would you want me to do if you were her?Cute girl looks at me in hall all the time. Guys and girls advice please.?
    Never mind what anybody thinks. Do what your feelings tell you to do. Start learning to think with your heart and not your mind. Be yourself and don't be afraid of yourself or of her or your friend. (Be yourself = be the way you are when nobody's around and you're just the way you like to be without caring what anybody else thinks about it). Suck it up, soldier, it's not as hard as you think. You only think it's hard. Go up to her one day without your friend as a crutch, and say something like 'Hey, I noticed you're friends with blahblah. Where do you know him from?' All it takes to start a conversation is a question. You take it from there. I'm not gonna ask her out for you!Cute girl looks at me in hall all the time. Guys and girls advice please.?
    Well.. if i was her i'd be waiting for you to come up to me... so i think you should just talk to her or have your friend introduce you to her. Good luck :)
    If I was her I would be very flattered. Of course though, it depends if the girl likes you back, which she seems to ! x

    Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?

    Well here's my two videos they are kinda old but I figured I should still at least get advice cause I'd do better with some advice then none at all!


    Thank you so much for listening!





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pteClz_dH鈥?/a>


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWBxXlV_Z鈥?/a>Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
    uhhhh are you for real... like really... here's my advise in a nutshell.... GIVE UP. That was horrific.


    Sorry.Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
    Get singing lessons
    Try hitting notes, in general.
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  • I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?

    Ok so im in a long distance relationship..... and he told me his ex gf came over last night because she wanted to hang out.... she hung out with his Little sister and him... so is wrong that im a little jealous and should i be concerned about this...


    Ok no they arent friend he hasnt talked to her in a while that i no of and it his ex you know so im just like what do i do....


    OK so he said she is also coming over fri.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
    I'm in a ldr too and if I was in this situation I would be concerned. Of all people to hang out with an ex shouldn't be one of them. Even if you do trust him whole hearted it's still something you don't do. His ex can hang with his sister all she wants but hanging with him is not cool. They aren't even really friends and don't talk so why all of a sudden the change of heart to be ';buds, pals';? He wouldn't like it at all if you hung out with your ex, let alone twice in a week at your own house. This is a big no no and I would tell him to put the shoe on the other foot and try to see things from your eyes. If he fights you about this then say hey I'm going to call (insert ex bf's name here) and see if maybe he would like to hang out this friday. I'm sure he wouldn't like that. You don't have to like him hanging out with her and you have every right to ask him not to. He should respect that because it's just weird, especially if you do not know her.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
    you should be concerned cuz every good girlfriend should be concerned. but you should also have trust in you boyfriend especially sine it is a long distance relationship.