Ok I'm 17 in grade 12 and male ofcourse. My friend Chris is in grade 10 and he knows this girl. Lately I've noticed she looks at me every time we are in the hall. She knows I am friends with him so yeah. I think she might like me because of the looks. I think she's cute and would like to talke with her. I'm thinking of asking my friend to help introduce me. Guys how would you aproach this situation and girls what would you want me to do if you were her?Cute girl looks at me in hall all the time. Guys and girls advice please.?
Never mind what anybody thinks. Do what your feelings tell you to do. Start learning to think with your heart and not your mind. Be yourself and don't be afraid of yourself or of her or your friend. (Be yourself = be the way you are when nobody's around and you're just the way you like to be without caring what anybody else thinks about it). Suck it up, soldier, it's not as hard as you think. You only think it's hard. Go up to her one day without your friend as a crutch, and say something like 'Hey, I noticed you're friends with blahblah. Where do you know him from?' All it takes to start a conversation is a question. You take it from there. I'm not gonna ask her out for you!Cute girl looks at me in hall all the time. Guys and girls advice please.?
Well.. if i was her i'd be waiting for you to come up to me... so i think you should just talk to her or have your friend introduce you to her. Good luck :)
If I was her I would be very flattered. Of course though, it depends if the girl likes you back, which she seems to ! x
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
Well here's my two videos they are kinda old but I figured I should still at least get advice cause I'd do better with some advice then none at all!
Thank you so much for listening!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pteClz_dH鈥?/a>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWBxXlV_Z鈥?/a>Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
uhhhh are you for real... like really... here's my advise in a nutshell.... GIVE UP. That was horrific.
Sorry.Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
Get singing lessons
Try hitting notes, in general.
Thank you so much for listening!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pteClz_dH鈥?/a>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWBxXlV_Z鈥?/a>Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
uhhhh are you for real... like really... here's my advise in a nutshell.... GIVE UP. That was horrific.
Sorry.Could you guys give me tips and advice on my singing? :D?
Get singing lessons
Try hitting notes, in general.
I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
Ok so im in a long distance relationship..... and he told me his ex gf came over last night because she wanted to hang out.... she hung out with his Little sister and him... so is wrong that im a little jealous and should i be concerned about this...
Ok no they arent friend he hasnt talked to her in a while that i no of and it his ex you know so im just like what do i do....
OK so he said she is also coming over fri.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
I'm in a ldr too and if I was in this situation I would be concerned. Of all people to hang out with an ex shouldn't be one of them. Even if you do trust him whole hearted it's still something you don't do. His ex can hang with his sister all she wants but hanging with him is not cool. They aren't even really friends and don't talk so why all of a sudden the change of heart to be ';buds, pals';? He wouldn't like it at all if you hung out with your ex, let alone twice in a week at your own house. This is a big no no and I would tell him to put the shoe on the other foot and try to see things from your eyes. If he fights you about this then say hey I'm going to call (insert ex bf's name here) and see if maybe he would like to hang out this friday. I'm sure he wouldn't like that. You don't have to like him hanging out with her and you have every right to ask him not to. He should respect that because it's just weird, especially if you do not know her.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
you should be concerned cuz every good girlfriend should be concerned. but you should also have trust in you boyfriend especially sine it is a long distance relationship.
Ok no they arent friend he hasnt talked to her in a while that i no of and it his ex you know so im just like what do i do....
OK so he said she is also coming over fri.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
I'm in a ldr too and if I was in this situation I would be concerned. Of all people to hang out with an ex shouldn't be one of them. Even if you do trust him whole hearted it's still something you don't do. His ex can hang with his sister all she wants but hanging with him is not cool. They aren't even really friends and don't talk so why all of a sudden the change of heart to be ';buds, pals';? He wouldn't like it at all if you hung out with your ex, let alone twice in a week at your own house. This is a big no no and I would tell him to put the shoe on the other foot and try to see things from your eyes. If he fights you about this then say hey I'm going to call (insert ex bf's name here) and see if maybe he would like to hang out this friday. I'm sure he wouldn't like that. You don't have to like him hanging out with her and you have every right to ask him not to. He should respect that because it's just weird, especially if you do not know her.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
you should be concerned cuz every good girlfriend should be concerned. but you should also have trust in you boyfriend especially sine it is a long distance relationship.
Im in a pickle =/ What should I do? -Guys and Girls Advice-?
Im in a difficult situation and I need people's opinions on what to do.
I moved house in March and have met this guy -Liam- who lives on the estate, we are now friends and now I am with a new group of people. I am this only girl in the team and there is 5-7 of us.
I now like Liam but Im not sure if he likes me, although we kissed at the start of May and then from then he had these 'hot and cold' moments where we kissed but then he wouldn't do anything for like a week or so. Well, it soon got more intense but the thing is we are not an item yet and I don't know why. If someone asks ';Are you two going out?'; the answer is ';No.'; But if someone asks ';You like her init Liam?'; he retaliates by punching them.
Last week, we were left alone for hours in his house because our mates went out, he kinda made them leave without us and during that time we had sex and we aint an item. Its been two days now and we haven't kissed since.
So please, if you have any advise on what to please say. Much appreciated.Im in a pickle =/ What should I do? -Guys and Girls Advice-?
he hit it and quit it...
he doesnt want to date you, he just wanted a piece!
sorry but u need to move onIm in a pickle =/ What should I do? -Guys and Girls Advice-?
I'm pretty sure that you are just a hook up for him, and you should just leave him and his obnoxious ways.
Or he could just be bi-polar.
dont know
I moved house in March and have met this guy -Liam- who lives on the estate, we are now friends and now I am with a new group of people. I am this only girl in the team and there is 5-7 of us.
I now like Liam but Im not sure if he likes me, although we kissed at the start of May and then from then he had these 'hot and cold' moments where we kissed but then he wouldn't do anything for like a week or so. Well, it soon got more intense but the thing is we are not an item yet and I don't know why. If someone asks ';Are you two going out?'; the answer is ';No.'; But if someone asks ';You like her init Liam?'; he retaliates by punching them.
Last week, we were left alone for hours in his house because our mates went out, he kinda made them leave without us and during that time we had sex and we aint an item. Its been two days now and we haven't kissed since.
So please, if you have any advise on what to please say. Much appreciated.Im in a pickle =/ What should I do? -Guys and Girls Advice-?
he hit it and quit it...
he doesnt want to date you, he just wanted a piece!
sorry but u need to move onIm in a pickle =/ What should I do? -Guys and Girls Advice-?
I'm pretty sure that you are just a hook up for him, and you should just leave him and his obnoxious ways.
Or he could just be bi-polar.
dont know
I need some advice. Can you guys help me?
Okay, I really really like this guy, except what happened was that when I was IMing him last night he said he had a crush on my friend, and now I feel horrible. What do I do? Should I just let it go? I need some advice. Can you guys help me?
dude.. i know how you feel. the same exact thing happened to me. my feelings were hurt soo bad. cuz he knew that i liked him soo much. but didnt care. and he liked my friend instead.
but yea i just got over it. cuz i realized that he was such an a**
and now ive been with someone i love with all my heart for 3 years..... but yea just wait the right guy will come.red lipstick
dude.. i know how you feel. the same exact thing happened to me. my feelings were hurt soo bad. cuz he knew that i liked him soo much. but didnt care. and he liked my friend instead.
but yea i just got over it. cuz i realized that he was such an a**
and now ive been with someone i love with all my heart for 3 years..... but yea just wait the right guy will come.
O.M.G HELP BEFORE I GO NUTS (GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED)?
O MAY I ADD HE ALWAYS WANTS ME TO B.J HIM BUT IT GETS OLD AN IT AINT NO FUN WHEN YOU DON'T GET ANYTHING IN RETURN!O.M.G HELP BEFORE I GO NUTS (GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED)?
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>O.M.G HELP BEFORE I GO NUTS (GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED)?
caps much
So ... if all your friends jumped off a bridge ... yadda yadda yadda.
Just because other people have gone against medical advice doesn't mean it's okay and something you should do. Listen to your ';ladie'; (which the rest of us call a doctor).
You'll live. It's true nothing could happen. But you could also get a raging infection on your cervix. And if you just got cryo done, than obviously you're already trying to clar up one infection. Don't flirt with another.
And you left your caps lock on.
And ';Lady'; is the correct spelling.
I really think he is looking out for you best interest. No matter how clean you are there are microbes all over your skin, especially in the moist and dark areas. What a good guy you have, thinking of your health before his desires. That is very considerate of him. One night of fun may mean a month long of fighting an infection down there. That is gross!
You should follow the doctor's advice. You could get an infection. He's probably freaked out that he would hurt you and it turns him off. You should just relax, men do like to be pressured. Make sure you use a condom if you do, so you don't get pregnant.
Why don't you just wait til your next appointment to see what the doctor will say to you. Your boyfriend does not want anything bad to happen to you if you and him had sex. Be patient. Next time don't type everything in caps, I had a hard time reading this
Well for one I see a very big problem because men love sex an for a woman to ask for it an a man not want to theres somthing not right there im just sayn an you could try to be more suductive cuz once hes in the moment he'll forget al about it =)
sorry i cant answer cuz im not used to reading in ALL CAPS!!!!!!! =] hurts meh eyez!!!
Listen to the nurse and your boyfriend. a week without sex wont hurt you, you know. It's for your own good and your bf agrees with it, why cant you?
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>O.M.G HELP BEFORE I GO NUTS (GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED)?
caps much
So ... if all your friends jumped off a bridge ... yadda yadda yadda.
Just because other people have gone against medical advice doesn't mean it's okay and something you should do. Listen to your ';ladie'; (which the rest of us call a doctor).
You'll live. It's true nothing could happen. But you could also get a raging infection on your cervix. And if you just got cryo done, than obviously you're already trying to clar up one infection. Don't flirt with another.
And you left your caps lock on.
And ';Lady'; is the correct spelling.
I really think he is looking out for you best interest. No matter how clean you are there are microbes all over your skin, especially in the moist and dark areas. What a good guy you have, thinking of your health before his desires. That is very considerate of him. One night of fun may mean a month long of fighting an infection down there. That is gross!
You should follow the doctor's advice. You could get an infection. He's probably freaked out that he would hurt you and it turns him off. You should just relax, men do like to be pressured. Make sure you use a condom if you do, so you don't get pregnant.
Why don't you just wait til your next appointment to see what the doctor will say to you. Your boyfriend does not want anything bad to happen to you if you and him had sex. Be patient. Next time don't type everything in caps, I had a hard time reading this
Well for one I see a very big problem because men love sex an for a woman to ask for it an a man not want to theres somthing not right there im just sayn an you could try to be more suductive cuz once hes in the moment he'll forget al about it =)
sorry i cant answer cuz im not used to reading in ALL CAPS!!!!!!! =] hurts meh eyez!!!
Listen to the nurse and your boyfriend. a week without sex wont hurt you, you know. It's for your own good and your bf agrees with it, why cant you?
I need your advice/ opinion? mostly guys?
well i am predominately black but my skin is lighter than most...i guess.... anyway.....i like black, asian, white hispanic..all types of guys. Rocker, Skater, Jock whatever...it just doesn't matter to me...im equally interested in almost all of them.....but i think different group and races don't really feel the same....i want to talk to this guy but we are real different (group wise)..im kind of afraid he wont really accept me in that kind of way....what do you think?I need your advice/ opinion? mostly guys?
You just have to talk to him. If he doesn't accept you for who you are, you're best off without him.I need your advice/ opinion? mostly guys?
Different groups shouldn't be the basis of attraction. It's all really a matter of how comfortable you are with the possibility of rejection. I mean, it never hurts to try, because if you want to talk to him the fact you both come from different groups shouldn't stop you. If anything, it could strengthen any relationship that develops between the both of you. I'm in a very serious relationship and we are both in very different groups, but we accept our differences and grow from them. It's a fresh new perspective, and if this guy won't accept it there are plenty others who will.
I think if he doesn't realise what you can offer..aka be nice person see people as who they are not colour or group. then forget him and your'll find some one nice later on :)
but he might do so breather out and talk to him. just be cool imagine hes your friend not a great big sexy hunk hehe and that way your'll be able to pick signs up. take it slow he might be on edge at the beginning but after a couple fo times of talking. your'll know if it's good:)
good luck p.s please answer my qeustion thanks
xx
i think you need to take your time and get to know each individual person, you won't get them over night.
Not that it matters since I'm a female, but if you saw me you would never guess my preferences regarding men, music and movies and various other things.
there is only one way to find out.
You just have to talk to him. If he doesn't accept you for who you are, you're best off without him.I need your advice/ opinion? mostly guys?
Different groups shouldn't be the basis of attraction. It's all really a matter of how comfortable you are with the possibility of rejection. I mean, it never hurts to try, because if you want to talk to him the fact you both come from different groups shouldn't stop you. If anything, it could strengthen any relationship that develops between the both of you. I'm in a very serious relationship and we are both in very different groups, but we accept our differences and grow from them. It's a fresh new perspective, and if this guy won't accept it there are plenty others who will.
I think if he doesn't realise what you can offer..aka be nice person see people as who they are not colour or group. then forget him and your'll find some one nice later on :)
but he might do so breather out and talk to him. just be cool imagine hes your friend not a great big sexy hunk hehe and that way your'll be able to pick signs up. take it slow he might be on edge at the beginning but after a couple fo times of talking. your'll know if it's good:)
good luck p.s please answer my qeustion thanks
xx
i think you need to take your time and get to know each individual person, you won't get them over night.
Not that it matters since I'm a female, but if you saw me you would never guess my preferences regarding men, music and movies and various other things.
there is only one way to find out.
I need some advice on two guys...?
So, I've been dating one guy for about two months, but recently this extremely good looking guy a few years older than me has been talking to me. I've been doubting my feelings for the guy I've been dating, but he's so sweet and he's a talented musician. I want to break up with the guy I've been dating, but I don't want to end up regretting my decision.
Help?I need some advice on two guys...?
hmmm, well if you don't truly feel a good connection with him, you shouldn't keep it going, that is just a way to get both of you guys hurt. good luck
Help?I need some advice on two guys...?
hmmm, well if you don't truly feel a good connection with him, you shouldn't keep it going, that is just a way to get both of you guys hurt. good luck
Hey you guys! I need your advice! =)?
I need to know what kind of presents you would like for your birthday if you were turning 16 ? I am all out of ideas i made him a CD last year but i dont wanna do that again...
any suggestionsHey you guys! I need your advice! =)?
How about..........something personal like necklace or something.
any suggestionsHey you guys! I need your advice! =)?
How about..........something personal like necklace or something.
Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
shouldn't live together anymore and kicked you out, would you still date her? I kicked my boyfriend out because he hasn't proposed in 3 years and I am no longer content with our stagnant relationship. He wanted to continue to live with me but not commit. Who's right, here? Where do I go from here? Serious replies only. Thank you.Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
Yes you are totally right. u know exactly what u need, and what u deserve. you WANT commitment from him. you WANT him to be with you. He is the one who's not being a man and making decisions for the Betterment of ur relaitonship. therefore, it is up to you as a woman to make decisions that will be Positive, Healthy, and help you to become a better person. if this guy is dragging u down, making u feel bad about urself, not able or willing to grow with you, u Need to find someone who Can and Will do that for you! as long as u continue to work on urself as a wonderful, loving, committed girlfriend who would support and help her boyfriend, why would u take any less than a man who would do the same for you? relationships take Work. but it should be a satisfying work, the kind that makes u appreciate that person more and more each day, where u learn more about eachother and how to make eachother's lives BETTER. without that, u are stuck in a rut w/ someone who does not know how to satisfy you. remember, u took care of him for 3 YEARS. so it's not like u were a b**** and treat him like crap! it's the other way around if he cannot appreciate you, or satisfy ur needs and wants! good luck, and make sure u have expecations for urself as a woman and girlfriend; from ur partner as a man and boyfriend; and from the relationship. u are working towards SOMETHING..if that man does not have similar goals as you, u are in for a stagnant relationship. communication is KEY and as long as you are a great person, u will know that u deserve a great person and therefore will not take any less than that. keep positive things around you, and filter out the negatives. anyone who allows u to feel this badly about the relationship without trying to help you grow together is not good enough for you.Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
of couse u are 3 years is ah long time u should off had ah rock by now so i would let it burn and roll out and find som new
Everyone is on their own path in life. It's the ones with compatible paths that stay together. Because the plans are different doesn't mean one is right and the other wrong.
You cant kick him out and expect him to still want to date, but if he does he must be crazy for you so give him another chance.
You're right for kicking him out especially b/c what you want out of the relationship is a committment! Good for you! You should totally move on.
you should talk to her finally what should she thinks and what can we do is she want to live still in that positon or i should leave her ,
Walk on. You wouldn't want to marry someone who doesn't want to commit to you. Time is precious. Find someone new who you can develop a real relationship with and that will eventually want to marry you.
Good going, The world need more women like you, if we did maybe we won't have so many asking such stupid questions.
Kick his butt to the curb!!!
if you feel that its never gonna go anywhere then you need to explain that to him and move on. one of 2 things will happen
A. he will get the hint, and propose, and you can get married and be happy.
B. he will get the hint and understand where you are coming from and leave you alone, so you can find someone else who makes you happy.
good luck
well me myself i live with my bf and i don't want to marry right now and may never want to we get along just fine the way we are i think you was wrong for kicking him out maybe he just is not ready for that at this time marriage is a big step for some people maybe you should think about it a little harder and give it a chance
Hmmm well he is probably afraid of commitment which all us men are he he. You did right if he understood that you wanted more then live in. If he did not well then that is something you should have talked with him about in a descrete way that won't make him run or whatever.
your'e right!!!!! go buy you a new outfit, hookup with some friends and go right back out there.
to be honest i think that you are making the right move if he doesn't want to commit then you should find some one that does want to
I did the same thing. We lived together for 4 years and it never progressed to anything more. I gave him an ultimatum to either propose by a certain date or I was kicking him out. He didn't believe me so......adios amigo!!!
Find someone who wants the same things in life that you do. I did and I have never been happier!! Good luck.
If you want to get married then your right for kicking him out but it doesn't make sense to continue to go out with him. Isn't the whole point here to move on ? If he didn't commit living with you he surely isn't going to commit after being kicked out. Three years is long enough to wait I would say.
i think what u did is right because u did what u suppose to do from past
u souldnt live with someone u dont feel comfortable with
and now days try to forget him to be happy and try to begine ur life from the first as a new girl in a new day
ok so he lived with you for 3 years, but wouldn't commit! What were those three years? Just playing around? I don't understand what the hang up is over the marriage thing. He was there sharing life with you wasn't he? Was he out having affairs and things like that? Or was he faithful to you, sharing in expenses and chores.
Maybe you were the one that wasn't committed!
I have been married for 25 years, am I married because I have a license from a government office and stood before a minister and said I do? No I am married because I am there for my wife and committed to making her happy..... all the rest is eye wash.
well you kick him out, if he goes all the way out is part of what you started.
If he wants to come back, maybe you can negociate the commitment. Otherwise, time to move on as you already decide it.
Well it sounds to me like you are kind of in the same situation as I am in hun. I have been with the same man now for 2 yrs and living together but he hasn't proposed either and that is what he knows that I want. I want him to make that commitment as I know that is what you want from your man. However as women we need to understand that for most men marriage is a very big scary step because they have to deal with the permenance of the situation and hear from there ';boys'; what a big mistake that they are making. I believe that you need to have a heart to heart talk with your man and let him know exactly how you feel and that is why you made the decision that you did and that if he cares for you and loves and still wants to be with you then he needs to think long and hard about that commitment. I feel for you girl i really do.
I'm a woman. I think you did the right thing, and I think you could be friends but not date anymore unless he does come back and propose, really propose, as in bringing a ring and deciding on a date that day for the wedding.
Yes you are totally right. u know exactly what u need, and what u deserve. you WANT commitment from him. you WANT him to be with you. He is the one who's not being a man and making decisions for the Betterment of ur relaitonship. therefore, it is up to you as a woman to make decisions that will be Positive, Healthy, and help you to become a better person. if this guy is dragging u down, making u feel bad about urself, not able or willing to grow with you, u Need to find someone who Can and Will do that for you! as long as u continue to work on urself as a wonderful, loving, committed girlfriend who would support and help her boyfriend, why would u take any less than a man who would do the same for you? relationships take Work. but it should be a satisfying work, the kind that makes u appreciate that person more and more each day, where u learn more about eachother and how to make eachother's lives BETTER. without that, u are stuck in a rut w/ someone who does not know how to satisfy you. remember, u took care of him for 3 YEARS. so it's not like u were a b**** and treat him like crap! it's the other way around if he cannot appreciate you, or satisfy ur needs and wants! good luck, and make sure u have expecations for urself as a woman and girlfriend; from ur partner as a man and boyfriend; and from the relationship. u are working towards SOMETHING..if that man does not have similar goals as you, u are in for a stagnant relationship. communication is KEY and as long as you are a great person, u will know that u deserve a great person and therefore will not take any less than that. keep positive things around you, and filter out the negatives. anyone who allows u to feel this badly about the relationship without trying to help you grow together is not good enough for you.Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
of couse u are 3 years is ah long time u should off had ah rock by now so i would let it burn and roll out and find som new
Everyone is on their own path in life. It's the ones with compatible paths that stay together. Because the plans are different doesn't mean one is right and the other wrong.
You cant kick him out and expect him to still want to date, but if he does he must be crazy for you so give him another chance.
You're right for kicking him out especially b/c what you want out of the relationship is a committment! Good for you! You should totally move on.
you should talk to her finally what should she thinks and what can we do is she want to live still in that positon or i should leave her ,
Walk on. You wouldn't want to marry someone who doesn't want to commit to you. Time is precious. Find someone new who you can develop a real relationship with and that will eventually want to marry you.
Good going, The world need more women like you, if we did maybe we won't have so many asking such stupid questions.
Kick his butt to the curb!!!
if you feel that its never gonna go anywhere then you need to explain that to him and move on. one of 2 things will happen
A. he will get the hint, and propose, and you can get married and be happy.
B. he will get the hint and understand where you are coming from and leave you alone, so you can find someone else who makes you happy.
good luck
well me myself i live with my bf and i don't want to marry right now and may never want to we get along just fine the way we are i think you was wrong for kicking him out maybe he just is not ready for that at this time marriage is a big step for some people maybe you should think about it a little harder and give it a chance
Hmmm well he is probably afraid of commitment which all us men are he he. You did right if he understood that you wanted more then live in. If he did not well then that is something you should have talked with him about in a descrete way that won't make him run or whatever.
your'e right!!!!! go buy you a new outfit, hookup with some friends and go right back out there.
to be honest i think that you are making the right move if he doesn't want to commit then you should find some one that does want to
I did the same thing. We lived together for 4 years and it never progressed to anything more. I gave him an ultimatum to either propose by a certain date or I was kicking him out. He didn't believe me so......adios amigo!!!
Find someone who wants the same things in life that you do. I did and I have never been happier!! Good luck.
If you want to get married then your right for kicking him out but it doesn't make sense to continue to go out with him. Isn't the whole point here to move on ? If he didn't commit living with you he surely isn't going to commit after being kicked out. Three years is long enough to wait I would say.
i think what u did is right because u did what u suppose to do from past
u souldnt live with someone u dont feel comfortable with
and now days try to forget him to be happy and try to begine ur life from the first as a new girl in a new day
ok so he lived with you for 3 years, but wouldn't commit! What were those three years? Just playing around? I don't understand what the hang up is over the marriage thing. He was there sharing life with you wasn't he? Was he out having affairs and things like that? Or was he faithful to you, sharing in expenses and chores.
Maybe you were the one that wasn't committed!
I have been married for 25 years, am I married because I have a license from a government office and stood before a minister and said I do? No I am married because I am there for my wife and committed to making her happy..... all the rest is eye wash.
well you kick him out, if he goes all the way out is part of what you started.
If he wants to come back, maybe you can negociate the commitment. Otherwise, time to move on as you already decide it.
Well it sounds to me like you are kind of in the same situation as I am in hun. I have been with the same man now for 2 yrs and living together but he hasn't proposed either and that is what he knows that I want. I want him to make that commitment as I know that is what you want from your man. However as women we need to understand that for most men marriage is a very big scary step because they have to deal with the permenance of the situation and hear from there ';boys'; what a big mistake that they are making. I believe that you need to have a heart to heart talk with your man and let him know exactly how you feel and that is why you made the decision that you did and that if he cares for you and loves and still wants to be with you then he needs to think long and hard about that commitment. I feel for you girl i really do.
I'm a woman. I think you did the right thing, and I think you could be friends but not date anymore unless he does come back and propose, really propose, as in bringing a ring and deciding on a date that day for the wedding.
I need some advice on two guys...?
So, I've been dating one guy for about two months, but recently this extremely good looking guy a few years older than me has been talking to me. I've been doubting my feelings for the guy I've been dating, but he's so sweet and he's a talented musician. I want to break up with the guy I've been dating, but I don't want to end up regretting my decision.
Help?I need some advice on two guys...?
hmmm, well if you don't truly feel a good connection with him, you shouldn't keep it going, that is just a way to get both of you guys hurt. good luckred lipstick
Help?I need some advice on two guys...?
hmmm, well if you don't truly feel a good connection with him, you shouldn't keep it going, that is just a way to get both of you guys hurt. good luck
Hey you guys! I need your advice! =)?
I need to know what kind of presents you would like for your birthday if you were turning 16 ? I am all out of ideas i made him a CD last year but i dont wanna do that again...
any suggestionsHey you guys! I need your advice! =)?
How about..........something personal like necklace or something.
any suggestionsHey you guys! I need your advice! =)?
How about..........something personal like necklace or something.
Guys, I need some advice about one nighters?
Ok, I'm trying to get out onto the scene and possibley have a few one night stands, of course if I could find something that would last as a relationship I'd take it. But in the meantime, I need to know what I should be doing or not doing to get things rolling. Any advice would be great. Thanks.Guys, I need some advice about one nighters?
If a one nighter happens it happens. Don't shoot for it. You will be noticed if you do. Stay safe and have fun.Guys, I need some advice about one nighters?
If you live in an urban area serviced by Craigslist.org, try entering something under ';casual encounters';. If you're looking for NSA (no strings attached), that should be good. If your looking for a longer term relationship with FWB (friends with benefits), you may want to try ';women seeking men';.
Good luck.
If a one nighter happens it happens. Don't shoot for it. You will be noticed if you do. Stay safe and have fun.Guys, I need some advice about one nighters?
If you live in an urban area serviced by Craigslist.org, try entering something under ';casual encounters';. If you're looking for NSA (no strings attached), that should be good. If your looking for a longer term relationship with FWB (friends with benefits), you may want to try ';women seeking men';.
Good luck.
Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
shouldn't live together anymore and kicked you out, would you still date her? I kicked my boyfriend out because he hasn't proposed in 3 years and I am no longer content with our stagnant relationship. He wanted to continue to live with me but not commit. Who's right, here? Where do I go from here? Serious replies only. Thank you.Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
Yes you are totally right. u know exactly what u need, and what u deserve. you WANT commitment from him. you WANT him to be with you. He is the one who's not being a man and making decisions for the Betterment of ur relaitonship. therefore, it is up to you as a woman to make decisions that will be Positive, Healthy, and help you to become a better person. if this guy is dragging u down, making u feel bad about urself, not able or willing to grow with you, u Need to find someone who Can and Will do that for you! as long as u continue to work on urself as a wonderful, loving, committed girlfriend who would support and help her boyfriend, why would u take any less than a man who would do the same for you? relationships take Work. but it should be a satisfying work, the kind that makes u appreciate that person more and more each day, where u learn more about eachother and how to make eachother's lives BETTER. without that, u are stuck in a rut w/ someone who does not know how to satisfy you. remember, u took care of him for 3 YEARS. so it's not like u were a b**** and treat him like crap! it's the other way around if he cannot appreciate you, or satisfy ur needs and wants! good luck, and make sure u have expecations for urself as a woman and girlfriend; from ur partner as a man and boyfriend; and from the relationship. u are working towards SOMETHING..if that man does not have similar goals as you, u are in for a stagnant relationship. communication is KEY and as long as you are a great person, u will know that u deserve a great person and therefore will not take any less than that. keep positive things around you, and filter out the negatives. anyone who allows u to feel this badly about the relationship without trying to help you grow together is not good enough for you.Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
of couse u are 3 years is ah long time u should off had ah rock by now so i would let it burn and roll out and find som new
Everyone is on their own path in life. It's the ones with compatible paths that stay together. Because the plans are different doesn't mean one is right and the other wrong.
You cant kick him out and expect him to still want to date, but if he does he must be crazy for you so give him another chance.
You're right for kicking him out especially b/c what you want out of the relationship is a committment! Good for you! You should totally move on.
you should talk to her finally what should she thinks and what can we do is she want to live still in that positon or i should leave her ,
Walk on. You wouldn't want to marry someone who doesn't want to commit to you. Time is precious. Find someone new who you can develop a real relationship with and that will eventually want to marry you.
Good going, The world need more women like you, if we did maybe we won't have so many asking such stupid questions.
Kick his butt to the curb!!!
if you feel that its never gonna go anywhere then you need to explain that to him and move on. one of 2 things will happen
A. he will get the hint, and propose, and you can get married and be happy.
B. he will get the hint and understand where you are coming from and leave you alone, so you can find someone else who makes you happy.
good luck
well me myself i live with my bf and i don't want to marry right now and may never want to we get along just fine the way we are i think you was wrong for kicking him out maybe he just is not ready for that at this time marriage is a big step for some people maybe you should think about it a little harder and give it a chance
Hmmm well he is probably afraid of commitment which all us men are he he. You did right if he understood that you wanted more then live in. If he did not well then that is something you should have talked with him about in a descrete way that won't make him run or whatever.
your'e right!!!!! go buy you a new outfit, hookup with some friends and go right back out there.
to be honest i think that you are making the right move if he doesn't want to commit then you should find some one that does want to
I did the same thing. We lived together for 4 years and it never progressed to anything more. I gave him an ultimatum to either propose by a certain date or I was kicking him out. He didn't believe me so......adios amigo!!!
Find someone who wants the same things in life that you do. I did and I have never been happier!! Good luck.
If you want to get married then your right for kicking him out but it doesn't make sense to continue to go out with him. Isn't the whole point here to move on ? If he didn't commit living with you he surely isn't going to commit after being kicked out. Three years is long enough to wait I would say.
i think what u did is right because u did what u suppose to do from past
u souldnt live with someone u dont feel comfortable with
and now days try to forget him to be happy and try to begine ur life from the first as a new girl in a new day
ok so he lived with you for 3 years, but wouldn't commit! What were those three years? Just playing around? I don't understand what the hang up is over the marriage thing. He was there sharing life with you wasn't he? Was he out having affairs and things like that? Or was he faithful to you, sharing in expenses and chores.
Maybe you were the one that wasn't committed!
I have been married for 25 years, am I married because I have a license from a government office and stood before a minister and said I do? No I am married because I am there for my wife and committed to making her happy..... all the rest is eye wash.
well you kick him out, if he goes all the way out is part of what you started.
If he wants to come back, maybe you can negociate the commitment. Otherwise, time to move on as you already decide it.
Well it sounds to me like you are kind of in the same situation as I am in hun. I have been with the same man now for 2 yrs and living together but he hasn't proposed either and that is what he knows that I want. I want him to make that commitment as I know that is what you want from your man. However as women we need to understand that for most men marriage is a very big scary step because they have to deal with the permenance of the situation and hear from there ';boys'; what a big mistake that they are making. I believe that you need to have a heart to heart talk with your man and let him know exactly how you feel and that is why you made the decision that you did and that if he cares for you and loves and still wants to be with you then he needs to think long and hard about that commitment. I feel for you girl i really do.
I'm a woman. I think you did the right thing, and I think you could be friends but not date anymore unless he does come back and propose, really propose, as in bringing a ring and deciding on a date that day for the wedding.
Yes you are totally right. u know exactly what u need, and what u deserve. you WANT commitment from him. you WANT him to be with you. He is the one who's not being a man and making decisions for the Betterment of ur relaitonship. therefore, it is up to you as a woman to make decisions that will be Positive, Healthy, and help you to become a better person. if this guy is dragging u down, making u feel bad about urself, not able or willing to grow with you, u Need to find someone who Can and Will do that for you! as long as u continue to work on urself as a wonderful, loving, committed girlfriend who would support and help her boyfriend, why would u take any less than a man who would do the same for you? relationships take Work. but it should be a satisfying work, the kind that makes u appreciate that person more and more each day, where u learn more about eachother and how to make eachother's lives BETTER. without that, u are stuck in a rut w/ someone who does not know how to satisfy you. remember, u took care of him for 3 YEARS. so it's not like u were a b**** and treat him like crap! it's the other way around if he cannot appreciate you, or satisfy ur needs and wants! good luck, and make sure u have expecations for urself as a woman and girlfriend; from ur partner as a man and boyfriend; and from the relationship. u are working towards SOMETHING..if that man does not have similar goals as you, u are in for a stagnant relationship. communication is KEY and as long as you are a great person, u will know that u deserve a great person and therefore will not take any less than that. keep positive things around you, and filter out the negatives. anyone who allows u to feel this badly about the relationship without trying to help you grow together is not good enough for you.Guys I need your advice! If you were in a (live-in) relationship for 3 years and the girl decided that you?
of couse u are 3 years is ah long time u should off had ah rock by now so i would let it burn and roll out and find som new
Everyone is on their own path in life. It's the ones with compatible paths that stay together. Because the plans are different doesn't mean one is right and the other wrong.
You cant kick him out and expect him to still want to date, but if he does he must be crazy for you so give him another chance.
You're right for kicking him out especially b/c what you want out of the relationship is a committment! Good for you! You should totally move on.
you should talk to her finally what should she thinks and what can we do is she want to live still in that positon or i should leave her ,
Walk on. You wouldn't want to marry someone who doesn't want to commit to you. Time is precious. Find someone new who you can develop a real relationship with and that will eventually want to marry you.
Good going, The world need more women like you, if we did maybe we won't have so many asking such stupid questions.
Kick his butt to the curb!!!
if you feel that its never gonna go anywhere then you need to explain that to him and move on. one of 2 things will happen
A. he will get the hint, and propose, and you can get married and be happy.
B. he will get the hint and understand where you are coming from and leave you alone, so you can find someone else who makes you happy.
good luck
well me myself i live with my bf and i don't want to marry right now and may never want to we get along just fine the way we are i think you was wrong for kicking him out maybe he just is not ready for that at this time marriage is a big step for some people maybe you should think about it a little harder and give it a chance
Hmmm well he is probably afraid of commitment which all us men are he he. You did right if he understood that you wanted more then live in. If he did not well then that is something you should have talked with him about in a descrete way that won't make him run or whatever.
your'e right!!!!! go buy you a new outfit, hookup with some friends and go right back out there.
to be honest i think that you are making the right move if he doesn't want to commit then you should find some one that does want to
I did the same thing. We lived together for 4 years and it never progressed to anything more. I gave him an ultimatum to either propose by a certain date or I was kicking him out. He didn't believe me so......adios amigo!!!
Find someone who wants the same things in life that you do. I did and I have never been happier!! Good luck.
If you want to get married then your right for kicking him out but it doesn't make sense to continue to go out with him. Isn't the whole point here to move on ? If he didn't commit living with you he surely isn't going to commit after being kicked out. Three years is long enough to wait I would say.
i think what u did is right because u did what u suppose to do from past
u souldnt live with someone u dont feel comfortable with
and now days try to forget him to be happy and try to begine ur life from the first as a new girl in a new day
ok so he lived with you for 3 years, but wouldn't commit! What were those three years? Just playing around? I don't understand what the hang up is over the marriage thing. He was there sharing life with you wasn't he? Was he out having affairs and things like that? Or was he faithful to you, sharing in expenses and chores.
Maybe you were the one that wasn't committed!
I have been married for 25 years, am I married because I have a license from a government office and stood before a minister and said I do? No I am married because I am there for my wife and committed to making her happy..... all the rest is eye wash.
well you kick him out, if he goes all the way out is part of what you started.
If he wants to come back, maybe you can negociate the commitment. Otherwise, time to move on as you already decide it.
Well it sounds to me like you are kind of in the same situation as I am in hun. I have been with the same man now for 2 yrs and living together but he hasn't proposed either and that is what he knows that I want. I want him to make that commitment as I know that is what you want from your man. However as women we need to understand that for most men marriage is a very big scary step because they have to deal with the permenance of the situation and hear from there ';boys'; what a big mistake that they are making. I believe that you need to have a heart to heart talk with your man and let him know exactly how you feel and that is why you made the decision that you did and that if he cares for you and loves and still wants to be with you then he needs to think long and hard about that commitment. I feel for you girl i really do.
I'm a woman. I think you did the right thing, and I think you could be friends but not date anymore unless he does come back and propose, really propose, as in bringing a ring and deciding on a date that day for the wedding.
Guys: I need some advice on bj's and hj's...?
which is better, a hj or a bj?
and can you explain what makes one better than the other?
and also, what are some things that a girl can do to her guy while doing one of these to make it really good for him?
and what are some comfortable positions to do these in?
thanks!Guys: I need some advice on bj's and hj's...?
Well...in general a bj is better than a hj.
The bj is great because your mouth and lips mimic the feel of sex, they're both warm and wet. For a bj - pay attention to the area right under the head of his penis, it's the most sensitive to touch and lick. Don't suck too hard, it hurts. It's the feeling of your lips and mouth running over the penis that feels good, not the suction. Don't forget to use your hands, if you're sucking on the tip, one of your hand should be tugging on the base of the penis. And don't be afraid of the ***, it's going to happen whether it happens in your mouth, on your face, or on the floor. That's the point.
For a hj - ask him to show you what he likes, and watch what he'd do on his own if you weren't there. That's pretty easy.Guys: I need some advice on bj's and hj's...?
haha i am wondering the same things!! haha
i know a bj feels better. then they already love it so u dont need it to feel any better for him.
for then a bj and its better because u use ur mouth and not ur handdd! It feeels awasome. Tips: Move ur tong around his Penis as u pull in and out ur mouth.
BJ by far is better. Men can give themselves hand jobs and we can do a better job than a woman because we know our bodies. When blowing use one hand at the base of his penis and the other cup his balls.
ok sorry but i'm a girl and trust me i kno a lot on the subject.
if you can do it right, guys definetly like bjs better
it just feels more like sex, which feels better
you can basically be in any position for a hj, and for a bj he can sit on something and you on the floor.
okk so move your tounge around a lot and try to go as far in your mouth as you can for a bj and for a hj switch up your speeds%26amp; pressures a lot :]
and can you explain what makes one better than the other?
and also, what are some things that a girl can do to her guy while doing one of these to make it really good for him?
and what are some comfortable positions to do these in?
thanks!Guys: I need some advice on bj's and hj's...?
Well...in general a bj is better than a hj.
The bj is great because your mouth and lips mimic the feel of sex, they're both warm and wet. For a bj - pay attention to the area right under the head of his penis, it's the most sensitive to touch and lick. Don't suck too hard, it hurts. It's the feeling of your lips and mouth running over the penis that feels good, not the suction. Don't forget to use your hands, if you're sucking on the tip, one of your hand should be tugging on the base of the penis. And don't be afraid of the ***, it's going to happen whether it happens in your mouth, on your face, or on the floor. That's the point.
For a hj - ask him to show you what he likes, and watch what he'd do on his own if you weren't there. That's pretty easy.Guys: I need some advice on bj's and hj's...?
haha i am wondering the same things!! haha
i know a bj feels better. then they already love it so u dont need it to feel any better for him.
for then a bj and its better because u use ur mouth and not ur handdd! It feeels awasome. Tips: Move ur tong around his Penis as u pull in and out ur mouth.
BJ by far is better. Men can give themselves hand jobs and we can do a better job than a woman because we know our bodies. When blowing use one hand at the base of his penis and the other cup his balls.
ok sorry but i'm a girl and trust me i kno a lot on the subject.
if you can do it right, guys definetly like bjs better
it just feels more like sex, which feels better
you can basically be in any position for a hj, and for a bj he can sit on something and you on the floor.
okk so move your tounge around a lot and try to go as far in your mouth as you can for a bj and for a hj switch up your speeds%26amp; pressures a lot :]
Guys im joing wrestling but need advice?
How much time should you allow to lose 15 LBS?
Whats a good workout for losing weight on spare time?
I always though about 3 weeks but i could be wrong...
How many hours/minutes/miles should you run in a day for training?
I know in practice we use to run alot but i haven't played in a while.Guys im joing wrestling but need advice?
I wrestled in high school. I was captain. Wrestling is a tough sport. I remember practice being so f.ing hard.
Losing weight:
you can easily do 5 pounds a week. The biggest part will be controling your diet.Here's a quick diet plan.
breakfast.6am
total cereal , skim milk
w/ banana
snack 10 am:
2 pieces of fruit
lunch 12-1pm
tuna sandwich on 100% whole wheat
tuna made w/ brown mustard %26amp; relish salt and pepper. You can substitute smoked turkey breast lunch meat.
salad or fruit.
snack 3pm
you guessed it, fruit
dinner 5-6pm
I highly recomend frozen microwavable dinners from either South Beach Diet, Lean Cuisine, or Weight Watchers. They all have small portions and that my friend is the key.If you are still hungry, have a lettuce and tomato salad.
this is important! Do not eat after 9pm. You can see this is not a starvation diet. If you're eating the right foods, in the right portions, you can eat all day.But because you're going to be working out, you'll need your energy.
The Workout:
To be efficient in working out, you want try and have two workouts in one day. This is called 2-a-days. This is the fun part. You can pick any two activities you want. For instance, two mile run before school and lifting weights in the afternoon. Or you can swim 20 laps in the morning and play basketball w/ your friends after school. You want to have at least three 2-a-days a week. you want to run 3 times a week.You want to lift weights 3 times a week. You want to get into the water 2-4 times a week. You want to watch the movie VisionQuest once a week. Buy it . Own it. Email me anytime. I wish you well.Guys im joing wrestling but need advice?
Read Triple H's book
Give the first guy the best answer
just drink beer and whup as.s what the ****!!!!!
trash bags like an hour before u wrestle u lose so much sweat and pounds it is hard u feel like throwing up.
1 week 1 day
Whats a good workout for losing weight on spare time?
I always though about 3 weeks but i could be wrong...
How many hours/minutes/miles should you run in a day for training?
I know in practice we use to run alot but i haven't played in a while.Guys im joing wrestling but need advice?
I wrestled in high school. I was captain. Wrestling is a tough sport. I remember practice being so f.ing hard.
Losing weight:
you can easily do 5 pounds a week. The biggest part will be controling your diet.Here's a quick diet plan.
breakfast.6am
total cereal , skim milk
w/ banana
snack 10 am:
2 pieces of fruit
lunch 12-1pm
tuna sandwich on 100% whole wheat
tuna made w/ brown mustard %26amp; relish salt and pepper. You can substitute smoked turkey breast lunch meat.
salad or fruit.
snack 3pm
you guessed it, fruit
dinner 5-6pm
I highly recomend frozen microwavable dinners from either South Beach Diet, Lean Cuisine, or Weight Watchers. They all have small portions and that my friend is the key.If you are still hungry, have a lettuce and tomato salad.
this is important! Do not eat after 9pm. You can see this is not a starvation diet. If you're eating the right foods, in the right portions, you can eat all day.But because you're going to be working out, you'll need your energy.
The Workout:
To be efficient in working out, you want try and have two workouts in one day. This is called 2-a-days. This is the fun part. You can pick any two activities you want. For instance, two mile run before school and lifting weights in the afternoon. Or you can swim 20 laps in the morning and play basketball w/ your friends after school. You want to have at least three 2-a-days a week. you want to run 3 times a week.You want to lift weights 3 times a week. You want to get into the water 2-4 times a week. You want to watch the movie VisionQuest once a week. Buy it . Own it. Email me anytime. I wish you well.Guys im joing wrestling but need advice?
Read Triple H's book
Give the first guy the best answer
just drink beer and whup as.s what the ****!!!!!
trash bags like an hour before u wrestle u lose so much sweat and pounds it is hard u feel like throwing up.
1 week 1 day
Guys I need your advice?
I am going to my friend house. Its a guy. Well I never been to a friends house.
So I need some advice on what to do!Guys I need your advice?
just be yourself. Don't go in ther like you own the place but don't act handicapped and scared. Be yourself, though be respectful and every thing will be great!
But i'm not a dude! LoLGuys I need your advice?
lol, it says 'guys' but girls answered. Oh I did too. Dang.
Well I'd say be yourself. First time is always kind of awkward, but just be polite and watch tv or play a game together, chat, something. After a while you'll feel more comfortable. Then, just do whatever.
well if hes your friend then you dont have to worry about nothing :]
if its something else just act yourself
Im not a dude.
But i suggest you act normal.
act norm p.s add my wii in ur wiis adress book 4 animal crossing my consol # 5373 1307 0179 0935red lipstick
So I need some advice on what to do!Guys I need your advice?
just be yourself. Don't go in ther like you own the place but don't act handicapped and scared. Be yourself, though be respectful and every thing will be great!
But i'm not a dude! LoLGuys I need your advice?
lol, it says 'guys' but girls answered. Oh I did too. Dang.
Well I'd say be yourself. First time is always kind of awkward, but just be polite and watch tv or play a game together, chat, something. After a while you'll feel more comfortable. Then, just do whatever.
well if hes your friend then you dont have to worry about nothing :]
if its something else just act yourself
Im not a dude.
But i suggest you act normal.
act norm p.s add my wii in ur wiis adress book 4 animal crossing my consol # 5373 1307 0179 0935
Quick advice please ASAP guys only?
What signs you give when you look at a girl you fancy or like.
THANKSSS XXQuick advice please ASAP guys only?
Smile. Check the body out. FlirtQuick advice please ASAP guys only?
i dont give signs personally i usually am nerves blushing very little i usually talk to them then ask them out
i tell her
stare at her
say nice things to her
hug her
THANKSSS XXQuick advice please ASAP guys only?
Smile. Check the body out. FlirtQuick advice please ASAP guys only?
i dont give signs personally i usually am nerves blushing very little i usually talk to them then ask them out
i tell her
stare at her
say nice things to her
hug her
Any advice Girls and Guys?
Ok, this may sound weird, but me and a few freinds are making a journal thing for other girls about guys. So if you have any advice about guys, let me no....guys ur opinion would help too..... um it can be anything from how to flirt to anything sexually that guys like or watever...Any advice Girls and Guys?
Guys like boobs, show them as much as you can
Guys like boobs, show them as much as you can
Guys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?
Add your age too, pleaseGuys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?
respect, adoration and submission. I'm 45Guys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?
1) Stop asking, ';what are you thinking?';
2) When having an argument, stick to the topic at hand and don't bring up history!
3) Stop having arguments. Ok, that's not realistic. Don't take things too seriously.
Age: 35
1. Gag reflex
2. Open mind
3. Aggressive sexually.
36.
I am 44 male
1) swallow
2) Don't talk to him about anything for at least one hour after he gets home from work
3) Remain slim
Flexibility
Caring
Sexuality
Im' 50
Maturity, understanding and sense of humor. I am 32.
Spelling...
Develop a sophisticated sense of humour.
Don't flirt with our friends.
Be confident in the bedroom and tell us what you like.
I'm 42.
Be spontaneous and fun, sense of humor
Trust
Lady on the street but a freak in the bed
28/m
respect, adoration and submission. I'm 45Guys: What 3 things would you advice any woman to work on in order to become a better potenti girlfriend / wif?
1) Stop asking, ';what are you thinking?';
2) When having an argument, stick to the topic at hand and don't bring up history!
3) Stop having arguments. Ok, that's not realistic. Don't take things too seriously.
Age: 35
1. Gag reflex
2. Open mind
3. Aggressive sexually.
36.
I am 44 male
1) swallow
2) Don't talk to him about anything for at least one hour after he gets home from work
3) Remain slim
Flexibility
Caring
Sexuality
Im' 50
Maturity, understanding and sense of humor. I am 32.
Spelling...
Develop a sophisticated sense of humour.
Don't flirt with our friends.
Be confident in the bedroom and tell us what you like.
I'm 42.
Be spontaneous and fun, sense of humor
Trust
Lady on the street but a freak in the bed
28/m
Ladies: what advice would you give to guys who want to make sex more enjoyable for their GF?
What would be the advice you would give to make sex more enjoyable for yourself?Ladies: what advice would you give to guys who want to make sex more enjoyable for their GF?
Just be yourself.Ladies: what advice would you give to guys who want to make sex more enjoyable for their GF?
Cunnilingus works well - watch a lesbian porn film to see how its done properly
stressing less about cellutius or stretchmarks.......at forehand
Just be yourself.Ladies: what advice would you give to guys who want to make sex more enjoyable for their GF?
Cunnilingus works well - watch a lesbian porn film to see how its done properly
stressing less about cellutius or stretchmarks.......at forehand
I need some serious advice for something (guys and girls help!)?
Ok im a healthy 15 year old guy
I exercise and eat right
On sunday I went to the movies with this girl and she wanted to give me head but for some reason i couldn't get hard.
Why?????
Is it because i jacked the day before
Also i stress full day and slept only for 5 hours
What can i do next time to get hard???I need some serious advice for something (guys and girls help!)?
It's because you relaxed your muscles the night before...plus it depends on how your penis got stimulated.
You are one lucky son *itch, I can tell ya that. But that is really a let down...
You need to get a full nights rest, and just relax when it's your next time. Masturbate 2-3 times a week. It will help with your mojo as well.I need some serious advice for something (guys and girls help!)?
Probably you were nervous. I've heard that can happen. Just try to stay calm. But not too calm.
Also, keep in mind that in some movie theaters, if somebody who works there sees some chick going down on a guy they won't ask you to stop. They'll just call the cops. It's not actually legal. So be discreet.
The reason you could not get an erection is psychologically you knew that it was wrong for you to receive head from a woman that age. If you were in the theater, you were afraid of getting caught as well. The mind is greater than your sword.
Fatigue, stress, nerviousness. Jerking it doesn't matter, if you jerked it a day before. You should jerk before you go you won't pew as fast.
Maybe she's ugly and your pee pee doesn't like her.
well do something to her first. you can usually get hard from that.
and intensely make out with her.
You're not into her.
erectile disfuction. why do you have gray hair?
just stay calm and try again
What's she look like, and is she still available?
yeah, i guess u aint into her..that's why
I exercise and eat right
On sunday I went to the movies with this girl and she wanted to give me head but for some reason i couldn't get hard.
Why?????
Is it because i jacked the day before
Also i stress full day and slept only for 5 hours
What can i do next time to get hard???I need some serious advice for something (guys and girls help!)?
It's because you relaxed your muscles the night before...plus it depends on how your penis got stimulated.
You are one lucky son *itch, I can tell ya that. But that is really a let down...
You need to get a full nights rest, and just relax when it's your next time. Masturbate 2-3 times a week. It will help with your mojo as well.I need some serious advice for something (guys and girls help!)?
Probably you were nervous. I've heard that can happen. Just try to stay calm. But not too calm.
Also, keep in mind that in some movie theaters, if somebody who works there sees some chick going down on a guy they won't ask you to stop. They'll just call the cops. It's not actually legal. So be discreet.
The reason you could not get an erection is psychologically you knew that it was wrong for you to receive head from a woman that age. If you were in the theater, you were afraid of getting caught as well. The mind is greater than your sword.
Fatigue, stress, nerviousness. Jerking it doesn't matter, if you jerked it a day before. You should jerk before you go you won't pew as fast.
Maybe she's ugly and your pee pee doesn't like her.
well do something to her first. you can usually get hard from that.
and intensely make out with her.
You're not into her.
erectile disfuction. why do you have gray hair?
just stay calm and try again
What's she look like, and is she still available?
yeah, i guess u aint into her..that's why
How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
There's this sweet guy at my school and he really likes and always talks to me and checks me out but I already have a bf...
How should I let him down??
My friend told me to kick him in the nuts lol.. but I dont think thats necessary..
How should I do it?How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
YOU DONT!!! NEVER DENY THEM A SINGLE THING!How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
Just tell him you have a bf. That is the least offensive %26amp; it's true so you don't have to lie.
pp
Just keep ignoring him. He'll get the message someday
introduce him to your boyfriend
your boy frind is fulish to love you.
Listen to the song 100 ways to leave your lover and pick one.
Behave diplomatically, but don't get too close to him.
Over time, when he sees you are not interested in him, but yet remain respectful, he will pull out diplomatically. In fact, he may realise you are such a nice person and he may not want to hurt you further.
But if you ';kick him in the nuts';, he will feel hurt. He may come back with a vengeance.
I should know. I used to like some people. Initially I was quite confused as to whether they like me or not. But later I realised they don't like me but still treat me as a friend.
So to be fair and upright, I just step aside. In fact, today I am happy for them.
Ask if he likes you and not just being perverted and just a friend.If he does like you tell him straight.....we do not like those pity letdowns ...take him aside ask..tell...let it be over with.If you dont he might become a little ';Fatal Attraction'; on you.^_^ hope i helped
Just tell him you have a boyfriend. If he still wants to be your friend than there is no halm in that:?
Tell him you just..don't like him.
Just clarify that u have a bf, but u can always be friends? (if u says he's sweet) ^^
Tell him you have a boyfriend and you don't cheat.
well sweetie, you can try just talking things out and explaining how you have a bf and arent attracted to him that way and pray he takes a hint and changes his approch. i know that those subjects arent easy to talk about, let alone bring them up yourself but if you like him like i think you do and dont want him to get hurt then you owe him that much, so sit him down and try to set him straight and pray he can accept that. in my life ive had a few guys who just wouldnt accept that i wasnt into them like they were into me. that does happen and alot of times theres not much you can do but eventually get mean, but if the guy who has a crush on you has any sense he'll listen to your words and will accept being your friend is lot better than losing you forever. thats the approch i tend to use and that seems to work the best. i hope this helps.
dont show any interests for him
-avoid eye to eye contact with him when u feel he's approaching
-talk about ur bf
if he asks you to do something or hes talking to you in the hall and stuff just say ';i gotta go meet my boyfriend. ttyl';
then avoid him for a while, then just be friends again
talk bout ur bf..
??
thats always a turn off
I think you should just mention your boyfriend a lot when talking to him, and act like its nothing at all. And he will get the message, don't avoid him, or ignore him that's really rude, and guys spread word about that stuff
There's no good way to reject someone, but being straight to the point even though its uncomfortable for you will hurt him less in the long run. No one wants to be lied to or led on. Tell him you appreciate his friendship but that you are commited to the relationship you are in so it will never be more than friendship with him.
your friend was right!.... kick him in the mid-section
Just say so.........simple
Just dont say anything to him. But if he makes a move on you then all you have to say im very sorry but i have a boyfriend. Then if you want to say somthing else you could say, can we still be friends??
just tell him about yore bf .?stop being a PT.red lipstick
How should I let him down??
My friend told me to kick him in the nuts lol.. but I dont think thats necessary..
How should I do it?How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
YOU DONT!!! NEVER DENY THEM A SINGLE THING!How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
Just tell him you have a bf. That is the least offensive %26amp; it's true so you don't have to lie.
pp
Just keep ignoring him. He'll get the message someday
introduce him to your boyfriend
your boy frind is fulish to love you.
Listen to the song 100 ways to leave your lover and pick one.
Behave diplomatically, but don't get too close to him.
Over time, when he sees you are not interested in him, but yet remain respectful, he will pull out diplomatically. In fact, he may realise you are such a nice person and he may not want to hurt you further.
But if you ';kick him in the nuts';, he will feel hurt. He may come back with a vengeance.
I should know. I used to like some people. Initially I was quite confused as to whether they like me or not. But later I realised they don't like me but still treat me as a friend.
So to be fair and upright, I just step aside. In fact, today I am happy for them.
Ask if he likes you and not just being perverted and just a friend.If he does like you tell him straight.....we do not like those pity letdowns ...take him aside ask..tell...let it be over with.If you dont he might become a little ';Fatal Attraction'; on you.^_^ hope i helped
Just tell him you have a boyfriend. If he still wants to be your friend than there is no halm in that:?
Tell him you just..don't like him.
Just clarify that u have a bf, but u can always be friends? (if u says he's sweet) ^^
Tell him you have a boyfriend and you don't cheat.
well sweetie, you can try just talking things out and explaining how you have a bf and arent attracted to him that way and pray he takes a hint and changes his approch. i know that those subjects arent easy to talk about, let alone bring them up yourself but if you like him like i think you do and dont want him to get hurt then you owe him that much, so sit him down and try to set him straight and pray he can accept that. in my life ive had a few guys who just wouldnt accept that i wasnt into them like they were into me. that does happen and alot of times theres not much you can do but eventually get mean, but if the guy who has a crush on you has any sense he'll listen to your words and will accept being your friend is lot better than losing you forever. thats the approch i tend to use and that seems to work the best. i hope this helps.
dont show any interests for him
-avoid eye to eye contact with him when u feel he's approaching
-talk about ur bf
if he asks you to do something or hes talking to you in the hall and stuff just say ';i gotta go meet my boyfriend. ttyl';
then avoid him for a while, then just be friends again
talk bout ur bf..
??
thats always a turn off
I think you should just mention your boyfriend a lot when talking to him, and act like its nothing at all. And he will get the message, don't avoid him, or ignore him that's really rude, and guys spread word about that stuff
There's no good way to reject someone, but being straight to the point even though its uncomfortable for you will hurt him less in the long run. No one wants to be lied to or led on. Tell him you appreciate his friendship but that you are commited to the relationship you are in so it will never be more than friendship with him.
your friend was right!.... kick him in the mid-section
Just say so.........simple
Just dont say anything to him. But if he makes a move on you then all you have to say im very sorry but i have a boyfriend. Then if you want to say somthing else you could say, can we still be friends??
just tell him about yore bf .?stop being a PT.
Girls & Guys give me some advice?
There is this girl in my class that I'm crazy about, and it's already the end of the class so I will see her only once again. I'm really crazy about her and that slams the brakes in my brain so I just freeze. Please tell me if there is good approach, she is shy. Please I only have one more chance I won't forgive myself.Girls %26amp; Guys give me some advice?
Go big or go home, that's all I got to say.
If you cannot put yourself out there and be confident, then go live in a cave.Girls %26amp; Guys give me some advice?
thats a hard situation hi=omie but what u need to do is talk to her say hi and talk about regular stuff and then if she seems to be enjoying your company ask her if its ok to give you her # and if she doesnt say ok if she saids no u proably have to try harder. or u need to get to now her more but hey its a 50 50 chance it never hurts to try
Get her number or EMAIL!!! You just walk up to her and say, ';________, I kinda like you and I think that you could like me too that if you went out with me tonight, so how bout it?'; If she says no move on dude! on and heres my email for advice: advice300@aol.com, tell your friends
Courage! ,If you miss this opportunity you'll kick yourself.Better looking like an idiot than being one,get on with it she can only say no.
Just be honest... Tell her you've been meaning to approach her, but couldn't get up the nerve and ask her if she would be interested in a movie or something.
ask her out
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Just ask her!!!
If u don't then u will never know if she likes u too!!!!!!!!
ask her out, date, movies anything
just ask her out like quietly and not infront of anyone. but deffinately ask her
Just talk to her about whatever. or act silly
just say HI
Just talk to her. To make it easy, ask what classes shes taking for spring
Go big or go home, that's all I got to say.
If you cannot put yourself out there and be confident, then go live in a cave.Girls %26amp; Guys give me some advice?
thats a hard situation hi=omie but what u need to do is talk to her say hi and talk about regular stuff and then if she seems to be enjoying your company ask her if its ok to give you her # and if she doesnt say ok if she saids no u proably have to try harder. or u need to get to now her more but hey its a 50 50 chance it never hurts to try
Get her number or EMAIL!!! You just walk up to her and say, ';________, I kinda like you and I think that you could like me too that if you went out with me tonight, so how bout it?'; If she says no move on dude! on and heres my email for advice: advice300@aol.com, tell your friends
Courage! ,If you miss this opportunity you'll kick yourself.Better looking like an idiot than being one,get on with it she can only say no.
Just be honest... Tell her you've been meaning to approach her, but couldn't get up the nerve and ask her if she would be interested in a movie or something.
ask her out
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
Just ask her!!!
If u don't then u will never know if she likes u too!!!!!!!!
ask her out, date, movies anything
just ask her out like quietly and not infront of anyone. but deffinately ask her
Just talk to her about whatever. or act silly
just say HI
Just talk to her. To make it easy, ask what classes shes taking for spring
Ok guys, i need some advice. would u consider them....?
well for an italian 2 project, i have to make a magazine. a page for men, a page for women, and a page for kids. kids can be babies, kids obv. , and teens.
well the only thing i could find in a magazine Seventeen was a highschool musical 3 advertise advertising purses. well in the pic, is oleysa, monique, and jemma.
*says on the page*
if u were the teacher, would u consider it ok for the teen section of the magazine we r making?Ok guys, i need some advice. would u consider them....?
if i was strict maybe if i was ok then yesOk guys, i need some advice. would u consider them....?
I wouldn't consider it ok for the teen section because high school musical is a common thing anyone can have that, if you re trying to do something different find a kid and see what they like but if you don't want to do that at least you tried your best
sure.....
well the only thing i could find in a magazine Seventeen was a highschool musical 3 advertise advertising purses. well in the pic, is oleysa, monique, and jemma.
*says on the page*
if u were the teacher, would u consider it ok for the teen section of the magazine we r making?Ok guys, i need some advice. would u consider them....?
if i was strict maybe if i was ok then yesOk guys, i need some advice. would u consider them....?
I wouldn't consider it ok for the teen section because high school musical is a common thing anyone can have that, if you re trying to do something different find a kid and see what they like but if you don't want to do that at least you tried your best
sure.....
How to reassure my ex boyfriend? guys, i need advice!!!?
my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently dumped me. he is threatened by my independence. he feels emasculated and disrespected by my other male friends and independent life of him. he is 37 and im 25.
im sooo in love with him and love him to death. i would do anything to get him back. its been 15 days since we last spoke to eachother. im deathly afraid of making a wrong move.
if i call him, i dont want him to think that i cant respect his decision or appear ';clingy or desperate';.
if i dont call him, i dont want him to think i no longer want to be with him or am with someone else
please help me.
confused hopeless romanticHow to reassure my ex boyfriend? guys, i need advice!!!?
this may sound harsh, and i hate to break it to you, but move on. for whatever reasons, he did dump you. yeah, it'll take some time to get over it, but i'm sure you'll find someone that will trully apreciate you. i'm going through a difficult breakup myself, but the truth is; if they dont want you, then there's no point in putting in work and enrgy into it. keep your chin up!
im sooo in love with him and love him to death. i would do anything to get him back. its been 15 days since we last spoke to eachother. im deathly afraid of making a wrong move.
if i call him, i dont want him to think that i cant respect his decision or appear ';clingy or desperate';.
if i dont call him, i dont want him to think i no longer want to be with him or am with someone else
please help me.
confused hopeless romanticHow to reassure my ex boyfriend? guys, i need advice!!!?
this may sound harsh, and i hate to break it to you, but move on. for whatever reasons, he did dump you. yeah, it'll take some time to get over it, but i'm sure you'll find someone that will trully apreciate you. i'm going through a difficult breakup myself, but the truth is; if they dont want you, then there's no point in putting in work and enrgy into it. keep your chin up!
Ain't it funny the kind of advice girls give guys?
Seriously, the things girls say when you ask date related questions is stuff to make you stay alone masterbating all your life!
Like the typical
';girls say I'm good looking, smart and funny but never go out with me';
to which, almost every girl will answer;
';well I don't know which girls you've been dating but I would love to go out with...[a discription that almost matches you]';
Who do you think your fooling?Ain't it funny the kind of advice girls give guys?
Haha you are so right dude!
we should start giving them bs answers like that lolAin't it funny the kind of advice girls give guys?
haha yeah man its ridiculous! I used to get it all the time. Ever her this one ';your one of the most attractive guys I know... I'm just not attracted TO you!';. its like there complementing you... then BAM there goes your self esteem for the rest of the night. In fact what their doing is seeing if you'll start being supplicative and try even harder for their attention. Its kind of like a neg. look it up on google or somethin'. In fact go to this blog its got alot of VALUABLE info on the subject of dating. And most guys never put forth the effort to get their dating life handled... Thats why they can't consistently get a girlfriend... they go months or even years (decades if its really bad!) without a GF. And I just don't understand it! I cannot stress enough how much guys need to get this part of their life handled... I mean know they all want to but they just don't think theres a way. well there is. of course its a skill and has to be learned, but it CAN be done. so take the first step man, get this part of your life handled... in fact add this blog to your faves and check it often because theres some posts comming up for NEXT WEEK that will blow your mind! it'll completly change the way you look at women and dating and it WILL make you a more attractive person if you APPLY the teachings... I mean theres people selling out seminars for this info at $1950 a weekend. CRAZY! thats the great thing about the blog lol its all the info for FREE! check it out its at...
valuedynamics dot blogspot dot com
Well we have succeeded in fooling you!
some might not be fooling me personnaly when it comes to me i like video games, sports etc most things guys like cause im a tomboy
Like the typical
';girls say I'm good looking, smart and funny but never go out with me';
to which, almost every girl will answer;
';well I don't know which girls you've been dating but I would love to go out with...[a discription that almost matches you]';
Who do you think your fooling?Ain't it funny the kind of advice girls give guys?
Haha you are so right dude!
we should start giving them bs answers like that lolAin't it funny the kind of advice girls give guys?
haha yeah man its ridiculous! I used to get it all the time. Ever her this one ';your one of the most attractive guys I know... I'm just not attracted TO you!';. its like there complementing you... then BAM there goes your self esteem for the rest of the night. In fact what their doing is seeing if you'll start being supplicative and try even harder for their attention. Its kind of like a neg. look it up on google or somethin'. In fact go to this blog its got alot of VALUABLE info on the subject of dating. And most guys never put forth the effort to get their dating life handled... Thats why they can't consistently get a girlfriend... they go months or even years (decades if its really bad!) without a GF. And I just don't understand it! I cannot stress enough how much guys need to get this part of their life handled... I mean know they all want to but they just don't think theres a way. well there is. of course its a skill and has to be learned, but it CAN be done. so take the first step man, get this part of your life handled... in fact add this blog to your faves and check it often because theres some posts comming up for NEXT WEEK that will blow your mind! it'll completly change the way you look at women and dating and it WILL make you a more attractive person if you APPLY the teachings... I mean theres people selling out seminars for this info at $1950 a weekend. CRAZY! thats the great thing about the blog lol its all the info for FREE! check it out its at...
valuedynamics dot blogspot dot com
Well we have succeeded in fooling you!
some might not be fooling me personnaly when it comes to me i like video games, sports etc most things guys like cause im a tomboy
If i started an advice colum website, would you guys ask me for advice?
i have studied philosphy all my life,
im going to be a shrink when i get older,
i have MAJOR empathy skills,
all my friends go to me for advice,
and i want to be a dear abby kind of thing.If i started an advice colum website, would you guys ask me for advice?
me i will by the way what can u do 4
im going to be a shrink when i get older,
i have MAJOR empathy skills,
all my friends go to me for advice,
and i want to be a dear abby kind of thing.If i started an advice colum website, would you guys ask me for advice?
me i will by the way what can u do 4
Advice needed??girls guys please help with this!!?
i like this girl at my uni..she talked to me once other than that we just say hi when we see eachother.im shy but i wana know how do i talk to her and get to know her better and ask for her number or ask her out??how do i approach her?what should i do?im not sure if she even likes me!.iv never really done this before so i really need some good advice..thanks yall.Advice needed??girls guys please help with this!!?
It's simple man. Grow a pair! You're over-thinking the situation. It's like Jerry Garcia said, ';Sometimes the cards ain't worth a dime, if you don't lay them down';. That means that you never know what can become of something unless you go for it, in other words. Try to imagine that she's the only one in the classroom with you. You're not just gonna sit there for an hour or so and not say anything, right? I would hope that if you were in that situation for real that you would have a ';don't give a ****'; attitude and go talk to her. Chicks don't dig shy guys, man. It's okay to be a little shy but most chicks who go for a somewhat timid guy are attracted because of how different they are. Most girls want a unique guy, and they all want funny too. But before I get off topic, you gotta go talk to her. What do you have to lose? Nothing? That's right, nothing. You only have experience and possibly a gf to gain. Put her on a friend level and not some girl you have a crush on. Once you get her comfortable around you and get the vibes that she's diggin' you then you can worry about asking her ';out';. Unless you're like Justin Timberlake or something, you can't just approach a girl in a way that lets her know that you ';wanna hold her hand';, if you know what I mean. Maybe in a bar a club but not before or after class. You will have to hang out with her outside of school to accomplish your goal. So goal #1 is, go talk to her. Goal #2 is, befriend her. Goal #3 is, flirt and eventually, sooner than later, ask her if she wants to hang out. Goal #4 is, let her know you like her by holding her hand. If she pulls away then go back to goal #2. Don't be pushy with her but you don't want to wait too long. If there is any indication that she likes you then you get on top of that. Good luck man!Advice needed??girls guys please help with this!!?
Next time you meet her say a little more than hi, aske her how varsity is then maybe say something like 'i'm rushing somewhere, can i have your number, will call you later'. She wont refuse, i tell you
try and talk to her.do not try to send mails or ask for her phone no.may be u can meet at a cafe,first ask her .may be u can call her on your birthday
red lipstick
It's simple man. Grow a pair! You're over-thinking the situation. It's like Jerry Garcia said, ';Sometimes the cards ain't worth a dime, if you don't lay them down';. That means that you never know what can become of something unless you go for it, in other words. Try to imagine that she's the only one in the classroom with you. You're not just gonna sit there for an hour or so and not say anything, right? I would hope that if you were in that situation for real that you would have a ';don't give a ****'; attitude and go talk to her. Chicks don't dig shy guys, man. It's okay to be a little shy but most chicks who go for a somewhat timid guy are attracted because of how different they are. Most girls want a unique guy, and they all want funny too. But before I get off topic, you gotta go talk to her. What do you have to lose? Nothing? That's right, nothing. You only have experience and possibly a gf to gain. Put her on a friend level and not some girl you have a crush on. Once you get her comfortable around you and get the vibes that she's diggin' you then you can worry about asking her ';out';. Unless you're like Justin Timberlake or something, you can't just approach a girl in a way that lets her know that you ';wanna hold her hand';, if you know what I mean. Maybe in a bar a club but not before or after class. You will have to hang out with her outside of school to accomplish your goal. So goal #1 is, go talk to her. Goal #2 is, befriend her. Goal #3 is, flirt and eventually, sooner than later, ask her if she wants to hang out. Goal #4 is, let her know you like her by holding her hand. If she pulls away then go back to goal #2. Don't be pushy with her but you don't want to wait too long. If there is any indication that she likes you then you get on top of that. Good luck man!Advice needed??girls guys please help with this!!?
Next time you meet her say a little more than hi, aske her how varsity is then maybe say something like 'i'm rushing somewhere, can i have your number, will call you later'. She wont refuse, i tell you
try and talk to her.do not try to send mails or ask for her phone no.may be u can meet at a cafe,first ask her .may be u can call her on your birthday
Advice girls and guys plz help?
well ok im almost 16 and this girll i like is almost 16 to we are born 2 weeks apart. she goes to my church thats how we met ten years ago and since about five years ago weve been pretty good friends. we flirt with eachother all the time and she doesnt flirt with any of the other guys at the church who she has known for the same amount of time. also if one of the other guys sits beside her when we are on outhings she has them switch with me and she has asked to sit beside me during service the other day. she also asked me to go with her to her home church do you think she likes me and what is the best way to tell her i like her ttylAdvice girls and guys plz help?
I'm the same age as you. I would say just be yourself. It is the hardest possible thing to do (according to all my guy friends) but it's the best way.
I liked a guy at my church a while ago and he won me over by simply being himself and becomming best friends with me.
Hope this helps and good luck with your situation.
xAdvice girls and guys plz help?
IT DOES SOUND LIKE SHE LIKES U. TALK TO HER TELL HER HOW U FEEL BUT ALSO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT U DONT WANT TO MESS THE FRIENDSHIP UP!
she deffinatly likes you. the best way to tell a girl, is to tell her truthfully. when you guys go on another church outing, sit next to her turn to her, and only whisper 'i like you', no more. and look away. she'll think its cute.
just like start to go out with her (as friends) and see how things feel. or, just talk to her, because it sounds like she likes you--go you!
~Sara V
I'm the same age as you. I would say just be yourself. It is the hardest possible thing to do (according to all my guy friends) but it's the best way.
I liked a guy at my church a while ago and he won me over by simply being himself and becomming best friends with me.
Hope this helps and good luck with your situation.
xAdvice girls and guys plz help?
IT DOES SOUND LIKE SHE LIKES U. TALK TO HER TELL HER HOW U FEEL BUT ALSO MAKE IT CLEAR THAT U DONT WANT TO MESS THE FRIENDSHIP UP!
she deffinatly likes you. the best way to tell a girl, is to tell her truthfully. when you guys go on another church outing, sit next to her turn to her, and only whisper 'i like you', no more. and look away. she'll think its cute.
just like start to go out with her (as friends) and see how things feel. or, just talk to her, because it sounds like she likes you--go you!
~Sara V
Do u think he likes me? serious answer!!guys and girls advice please!?
ok so heres the thing...i like this guy ALOT!and ive liked him for bout a month.I talk to him in stuff when he sat next to me a couple of times in computer class. and he sometimes is like and? like kinda mean...almost everyday if i pass him in the hall he looks at me i look back...his lunch period is 10 min b4 mine and when i go into the cafeteria i pass his table and he turns around a looks at me.even in ma gym class i was hoola hoopin and of course i was lookin at him..i cant help it but i notice him lookin at me.hes not just lookin around and happened to look at me...i was walking to my tabke at lunch and he was watchin me...he knows i look at him too but idk if he likes me...my friends think carter looks funny and my bff is supportive he doesnt talk to me tht much i dont want to ask him out cuz of fear hell say kno or say yes just as a joke...i dont think hell ask me out anytime soon, the marking period is almost over in a week it ends and he's in none of my classes :( i really want ur opinion on this! do u think he likes me or just looks at me cuz i look at him?Do u think he likes me? serious answer!!guys and girls advice please!?
I think he likes you go for it :]Do u think he likes me? serious answer!!guys and girls advice please!?
If he looks at you that much, chances are he likes you
If he says no then its done, and youll know if he is just joking around. But..... if he says yes and means it, then... well youll figure it out yourself. ';Do or do not, there is no try'; just GO!!!
to me it sounds like atleast he has a crush on you... if he thought u were wierd for looking at him he wouldnt look back so i would say yes he does like ya
good luck
x
He looks at you a lot and talks to you a lot. That's a good sign that he has an interest in you. Sometimes I'll say ';And...'; too but mostly just to joke around, I'm sure he wasn't trying to be mean. So you really have a week to get something done so I say you should ask him out by the end of this week. I won't ask the guy I like out because I am also afraid of rejection but I only see him on Sundays and we never talk but since you talk and see him all the time you will have a better chance of him saying yes and meaning it. Good luck!
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I would say that he likes you. If you want to go out with him, go up and ask him out. If he says no, tell him that you alway saw him looking at you and thought he liked you and though you would give it a try. Him rejecting you won't kill you or hurt you so why not try.
either he just thinks your attractive or he likes you. just step up to him and start a light convo. who knows what can happen
ASK HIM OUT!
You Gotta Have That Gut Feeling
Hmmm, well, that is a bit tricky.
If a guy stares at you, and that's all he is really doing for communicating, that is hard to determine. Some people just stare because you happen to be looking at them. However, this may not be the case.
You should try talking to him a bit more, and get to know him. Ask for his cell number, text or something.
Just give it time, no need to rush things. If it turns out that he doesn't like you now, but you start talking with him and get to be good friends, he may start to like you later on. :)
If someone is looking at you then that will get your attention. If someone keeps looking at you then that will make you paranoid. I think he is looking at you to see if you are looking at him. That doesn't mean he wouldn't be interested. Just ask him you won't die if he says not interested!
he might like you. if he doesnt, he must think youre cute. and if he is mean (saying and?) , most guys do that to hide their intimidation that you give them , but sorry others really do do it to be mean. just flirt and DONT ASK HIM OUT UNTIL YOU DEFINITELY KNOW HE LIKES YOU BACK. i wish you the best of luck.
He probably does like you, I know how this feels....the guy i like is also like this. Dont worry about what your friends think, the only thing that matters is how you feel about him. Walk by him a little more. Even try 2 talk 2 him every once in a while. Try to hang out with him and maybe become his friend...get 2 know him before you decide if you really like him. If you catch him looking at you, hes probably curious, he wants 2 know who u are and he probably thinks your attractive. If he doesnt ask you out then take charge, walk up 2 him and YOU ask him out, but dont have your friends do it 4 you, ive found that never works out the way you want it 2 LOL. Good Luck!!!:-)
I think he likes you go for it :]Do u think he likes me? serious answer!!guys and girls advice please!?
If he looks at you that much, chances are he likes you
If he says no then its done, and youll know if he is just joking around. But..... if he says yes and means it, then... well youll figure it out yourself. ';Do or do not, there is no try'; just GO!!!
to me it sounds like atleast he has a crush on you... if he thought u were wierd for looking at him he wouldnt look back so i would say yes he does like ya
good luck
x
He looks at you a lot and talks to you a lot. That's a good sign that he has an interest in you. Sometimes I'll say ';And...'; too but mostly just to joke around, I'm sure he wasn't trying to be mean. So you really have a week to get something done so I say you should ask him out by the end of this week. I won't ask the guy I like out because I am also afraid of rejection but I only see him on Sundays and we never talk but since you talk and see him all the time you will have a better chance of him saying yes and meaning it. Good luck!
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I would say that he likes you. If you want to go out with him, go up and ask him out. If he says no, tell him that you alway saw him looking at you and thought he liked you and though you would give it a try. Him rejecting you won't kill you or hurt you so why not try.
either he just thinks your attractive or he likes you. just step up to him and start a light convo. who knows what can happen
ASK HIM OUT!
You Gotta Have That Gut Feeling
Hmmm, well, that is a bit tricky.
If a guy stares at you, and that's all he is really doing for communicating, that is hard to determine. Some people just stare because you happen to be looking at them. However, this may not be the case.
You should try talking to him a bit more, and get to know him. Ask for his cell number, text or something.
Just give it time, no need to rush things. If it turns out that he doesn't like you now, but you start talking with him and get to be good friends, he may start to like you later on. :)
If someone is looking at you then that will get your attention. If someone keeps looking at you then that will make you paranoid. I think he is looking at you to see if you are looking at him. That doesn't mean he wouldn't be interested. Just ask him you won't die if he says not interested!
he might like you. if he doesnt, he must think youre cute. and if he is mean (saying and?) , most guys do that to hide their intimidation that you give them , but sorry others really do do it to be mean. just flirt and DONT ASK HIM OUT UNTIL YOU DEFINITELY KNOW HE LIKES YOU BACK. i wish you the best of luck.
He probably does like you, I know how this feels....the guy i like is also like this. Dont worry about what your friends think, the only thing that matters is how you feel about him. Walk by him a little more. Even try 2 talk 2 him every once in a while. Try to hang out with him and maybe become his friend...get 2 know him before you decide if you really like him. If you catch him looking at you, hes probably curious, he wants 2 know who u are and he probably thinks your attractive. If he doesnt ask you out then take charge, walk up 2 him and YOU ask him out, but dont have your friends do it 4 you, ive found that never works out the way you want it 2 LOL. Good Luck!!!:-)
I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
I kinda have a thing for this kid in my college class, but I think he only likes me as a friend. When we're in class, he always makes and effort to talk to me...and I mean always. But he never calls or texts or anything like that. I mean, I really don't call him either, but that's just because I'm kinda shy. But I do text. And I told him to call me last weekend of whenever he's free. I never got a call. So I'm pretty sure we're just on a friend to friend basis, if that. What do you think? And I'm find with us being friends, but I kinda wanna ask him to hang out over this weekend, but I don't know exactly how to. I don't want him to freak out and think that I'm asking him out on a date or anything. I don't mind being aggressive (some guys like that...right?), but I don't know if I'd be being needy now. I don't want that. I'm just so clueless when it comes to guys. What should I do? Is there a possibly that he has a thing for me too? Or just friends? Am I being too needy? Should I ask him to hang out? How!?I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
I'm not sure what aggressive is to you, but you can make a move without being desperate. Simply ask him if he wants to hang out with one night or during the weekend. He could be shy too, have someone else already, or thinks you're not interested. Just be direct.I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
you said you were kind of shy, but you still talk to him.
well maybe he feels the same. he could be EXTREMELY shy so he's too afraid to call you.
you know?
so when youre in person, just casually say ';we should hang out sometime.';
its not too ';GO OUT WITH ME.';
so itll be subtle and he'll go.
whatever happens from there is up to you
I'm not sure what aggressive is to you, but you can make a move without being desperate. Simply ask him if he wants to hang out with one night or during the weekend. He could be shy too, have someone else already, or thinks you're not interested. Just be direct.I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
you said you were kind of shy, but you still talk to him.
well maybe he feels the same. he could be EXTREMELY shy so he's too afraid to call you.
you know?
so when youre in person, just casually say ';we should hang out sometime.';
its not too ';GO OUT WITH ME.';
so itll be subtle and he'll go.
whatever happens from there is up to you
Advice on shy guys ? please?
to talk to him??
i don't think he is talkative, so what should i do to make our conversation last?Advice on shy guys ? please?
Be the one to ask him questions. Make him know, subtlety, you're comfortable with his quietness. Something along the line of, ';haha, I like the way you talk, I hate loud and obnoxious guys';. Gives him little compliment, or better yet, body contact like a casual friend. Laugh at what he says. If he talks about some more serious stuff (as shy guys are more sentimental), make yourself look like you are interested or can relate to him, so he'll have confidence to talk more.Advice on shy guys ? please?
well im a shy guy myself, and well it usually takes time for me to have a ';real'; conversation with sum1 cuz thats when i feel comfotable.
So I say do it little by little, just say hi at first and then ask small questions until he starts to feel comfortable with u.
just ask him questions, people like to talk about themselves. if you talk too much, guys don't like that either...but don't under-do-it, just act naturally. if he is too quiet, then you are not the girl for him and vice-versa!
Try to find out some things he's interested in and talk to him. I am very shy and it takes some effort to get to us shy folk. If he sees you're interested he'll open up. Good luck!
I'm shy n quiet myself.. I believes that u don't have to be talkative to make him comfortable, sometime people can juz sit together for hours without talking then feel like having the best time ever..
Talk about something he's interested in, make him comftorable.
ask for his phone number, then text or email each other until he feels comfortable enough to talk with you
if he is shy talk to him like in a calm way like hi im alyssa and i want to be your friend and go from there
try to find out what kind of music he likes hobbies and try to be friendly whit him and sweet
i don't think he is talkative, so what should i do to make our conversation last?Advice on shy guys ? please?
Be the one to ask him questions. Make him know, subtlety, you're comfortable with his quietness. Something along the line of, ';haha, I like the way you talk, I hate loud and obnoxious guys';. Gives him little compliment, or better yet, body contact like a casual friend. Laugh at what he says. If he talks about some more serious stuff (as shy guys are more sentimental), make yourself look like you are interested or can relate to him, so he'll have confidence to talk more.Advice on shy guys ? please?
well im a shy guy myself, and well it usually takes time for me to have a ';real'; conversation with sum1 cuz thats when i feel comfotable.
So I say do it little by little, just say hi at first and then ask small questions until he starts to feel comfortable with u.
just ask him questions, people like to talk about themselves. if you talk too much, guys don't like that either...but don't under-do-it, just act naturally. if he is too quiet, then you are not the girl for him and vice-versa!
Try to find out some things he's interested in and talk to him. I am very shy and it takes some effort to get to us shy folk. If he sees you're interested he'll open up. Good luck!
I'm shy n quiet myself.. I believes that u don't have to be talkative to make him comfortable, sometime people can juz sit together for hours without talking then feel like having the best time ever..
Talk about something he's interested in, make him comftorable.
ask for his phone number, then text or email each other until he feels comfortable enough to talk with you
if he is shy talk to him like in a calm way like hi im alyssa and i want to be your friend and go from there
try to find out what kind of music he likes hobbies and try to be friendly whit him and sweet
Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
iam a man and i can tell you, dont bug him, maybe he has stuff to sort out first. marriage is a big step and he wants to get everything out of the way before he takes that big step. its not the issue he doesnt love you, he probably does and he wants the best for you and his kid. maybe he thinks hes not making enough money right now to keep a home, it takes alot these days, so my opinion to you is just back off for awhile, when he feels more confortable, he will marry you.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
Impatient???!! You were supposedly proposed to nine months ago and have had his baby. He should have married you long ago. I wonder if this ';proposal'; was just throwing you a bone so he could continue doing whatever and he could call you impatient if you squawked about it. I don't know whether you can force the issue but you certainly have a right to inquire!
Ask him were the relationship is going!!!!
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
iam a man and i can tell you, dont bug him, maybe he has stuff to sort out first. marriage is a big step and he wants to get everything out of the way before he takes that big step. its not the issue he doesnt love you, he probably does and he wants the best for you and his kid. maybe he thinks hes not making enough money right now to keep a home, it takes alot these days, so my opinion to you is just back off for awhile, when he feels more confortable, he will marry you.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
Impatient???!! You were supposedly proposed to nine months ago and have had his baby. He should have married you long ago. I wonder if this ';proposal'; was just throwing you a bone so he could continue doing whatever and he could call you impatient if you squawked about it. I don't know whether you can force the issue but you certainly have a right to inquire!
Ask him were the relationship is going!!!!
Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
iam a man and i can tell you, dont bug him, maybe he has stuff to sort out first. marriage is a big step and he wants to get everything out of the way before he takes that big step. its not the issue he doesnt love you, he probably does and he wants the best for you and his kid. maybe he thinks hes not making enough money right now to keep a home, it takes alot these days, so my opinion to you is just back off for awhile, when he feels more confortable, he will marry you.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
Impatient???!! You were supposedly proposed to nine months ago and have had his baby. He should have married you long ago. I wonder if this ';proposal'; was just throwing you a bone so he could continue doing whatever and he could call you impatient if you squawked about it. I don't know whether you can force the issue but you certainly have a right to inquire!
Ask him were the relationship is going!!!!red lipstick
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
iam a man and i can tell you, dont bug him, maybe he has stuff to sort out first. marriage is a big step and he wants to get everything out of the way before he takes that big step. its not the issue he doesnt love you, he probably does and he wants the best for you and his kid. maybe he thinks hes not making enough money right now to keep a home, it takes alot these days, so my opinion to you is just back off for awhile, when he feels more confortable, he will marry you.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
Impatient???!! You were supposedly proposed to nine months ago and have had his baby. He should have married you long ago. I wonder if this ';proposal'; was just throwing you a bone so he could continue doing whatever and he could call you impatient if you squawked about it. I don't know whether you can force the issue but you certainly have a right to inquire!
Ask him were the relationship is going!!!!
Advice on shy guys ? please?
to talk to him??
i don't think he is talkative, so what should i do to make our conversation last?Advice on shy guys ? please?
Be the one to ask him questions. Make him know, subtlety, you're comfortable with his quietness. Something along the line of, ';haha, I like the way you talk, I hate loud and obnoxious guys';. Gives him little compliment, or better yet, body contact like a casual friend. Laugh at what he says. If he talks about some more serious stuff (as shy guys are more sentimental), make yourself look like you are interested or can relate to him, so he'll have confidence to talk more.Advice on shy guys ? please?
well im a shy guy myself, and well it usually takes time for me to have a ';real'; conversation with sum1 cuz thats when i feel comfotable.
So I say do it little by little, just say hi at first and then ask small questions until he starts to feel comfortable with u.
just ask him questions, people like to talk about themselves. if you talk too much, guys don't like that either...but don't under-do-it, just act naturally. if he is too quiet, then you are not the girl for him and vice-versa!
Try to find out some things he's interested in and talk to him. I am very shy and it takes some effort to get to us shy folk. If he sees you're interested he'll open up. Good luck!
I'm shy n quiet myself.. I believes that u don't have to be talkative to make him comfortable, sometime people can juz sit together for hours without talking then feel like having the best time ever..
Talk about something he's interested in, make him comftorable.
ask for his phone number, then text or email each other until he feels comfortable enough to talk with you
if he is shy talk to him like in a calm way like hi im alyssa and i want to be your friend and go from there
try to find out what kind of music he likes hobbies and try to be friendly whit him and sweet
i don't think he is talkative, so what should i do to make our conversation last?Advice on shy guys ? please?
Be the one to ask him questions. Make him know, subtlety, you're comfortable with his quietness. Something along the line of, ';haha, I like the way you talk, I hate loud and obnoxious guys';. Gives him little compliment, or better yet, body contact like a casual friend. Laugh at what he says. If he talks about some more serious stuff (as shy guys are more sentimental), make yourself look like you are interested or can relate to him, so he'll have confidence to talk more.Advice on shy guys ? please?
well im a shy guy myself, and well it usually takes time for me to have a ';real'; conversation with sum1 cuz thats when i feel comfotable.
So I say do it little by little, just say hi at first and then ask small questions until he starts to feel comfortable with u.
just ask him questions, people like to talk about themselves. if you talk too much, guys don't like that either...but don't under-do-it, just act naturally. if he is too quiet, then you are not the girl for him and vice-versa!
Try to find out some things he's interested in and talk to him. I am very shy and it takes some effort to get to us shy folk. If he sees you're interested he'll open up. Good luck!
I'm shy n quiet myself.. I believes that u don't have to be talkative to make him comfortable, sometime people can juz sit together for hours without talking then feel like having the best time ever..
Talk about something he's interested in, make him comftorable.
ask for his phone number, then text or email each other until he feels comfortable enough to talk with you
if he is shy talk to him like in a calm way like hi im alyssa and i want to be your friend and go from there
try to find out what kind of music he likes hobbies and try to be friendly whit him and sweet
I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
I kinda have a thing for this kid in my college class, but I think he only likes me as a friend. When we're in class, he always makes and effort to talk to me...and I mean always. But he never calls or texts or anything like that. I mean, I really don't call him either, but that's just because I'm kinda shy. But I do text. And I told him to call me last weekend of whenever he's free. I never got a call. So I'm pretty sure we're just on a friend to friend basis, if that. What do you think? And I'm find with us being friends, but I kinda wanna ask him to hang out over this weekend, but I don't know exactly how to. I don't want him to freak out and think that I'm asking him out on a date or anything. I don't mind being aggressive (some guys like that...right?), but I don't know if I'd be being needy now. I don't want that. I'm just so clueless when it comes to guys. What should I do? Is there a possibly that he has a thing for me too? Or just friends? Am I being too needy? Should I ask him to hang out? How!?I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
you said you were kind of shy, but you still talk to him.
well maybe he feels the same. he could be EXTREMELY shy so he's too afraid to call you.
you know?
so when youre in person, just casually say ';we should hang out sometime.';
its not too ';GO OUT WITH ME.';
so itll be subtle and he'll go.
whatever happens from there is up to youI'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
I'm not sure what aggressive is to you, but you can make a move without being desperate. Simply ask him if he wants to hang out with one night or during the weekend. He could be shy too, have someone else already, or thinks you're not interested. Just be direct.
you said you were kind of shy, but you still talk to him.
well maybe he feels the same. he could be EXTREMELY shy so he's too afraid to call you.
you know?
so when youre in person, just casually say ';we should hang out sometime.';
its not too ';GO OUT WITH ME.';
so itll be subtle and he'll go.
whatever happens from there is up to youI'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
I'm not sure what aggressive is to you, but you can make a move without being desperate. Simply ask him if he wants to hang out with one night or during the weekend. He could be shy too, have someone else already, or thinks you're not interested. Just be direct.
Is my BF LYING or telling the truth?? GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED BADLY!?
i recently looked through my bf's text messages and i saw a text he sent to a girl he used to have a flight with(they hooked up for about a month). he told her this exactly: ';s***'s gettin old real quick, i told her i'm staying in alone tonight... come over.'; i confronted him about it, as i was p***** off, and he said he meant our arguing is getting old real quick, not the relationship, and he said he called her over to buy some stuff from him(cuz he sells.) i still didnt believe him, so he called her and put her on speaker phone... he was like please tell my gf im only calling u cuz u wanna buy stuff from me, not cuz i wanna hook up with u... and she agreed. i still think that text he sent her is so messed up and i have trouble trusting him. what do u guys think??Is my BF LYING or telling the truth?? GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED BADLY!?
Get rid of him. He doesnt sound trustworthy at all. Save yourself the trouble and get him out of the way now before he devestates you.Is my BF LYING or telling the truth?? GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED BADLY!?
He is lying to you. When he realized you found out about the text, he tried to make something up so that you would not accuse him of cheating on you. It seems to me like you should dump him.
sounds kinda scetchy to me
Okay, first of all, he lied when he told you he wanted to be alone.
Secondly, seriously, trust your gut instinct. As an outsider, it sounds to me like he panicked when you found it and stretched the story. Pretend he called the girl, put her on speaker phone, and ONLY said, ';Please tell my girlfriend why I asked you to come over';, would she really have said that she wanted to buy some stuff?
A guy like that seriously isn't worth it. Even if he DID call her to hook up with her, he could've at least manned up to it rather than making up some bs story.
Get rid of him. He doesnt sound trustworthy at all. Save yourself the trouble and get him out of the way now before he devestates you.Is my BF LYING or telling the truth?? GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE NEEDED BADLY!?
He is lying to you. When he realized you found out about the text, he tried to make something up so that you would not accuse him of cheating on you. It seems to me like you should dump him.
sounds kinda scetchy to me
Okay, first of all, he lied when he told you he wanted to be alone.
Secondly, seriously, trust your gut instinct. As an outsider, it sounds to me like he panicked when you found it and stretched the story. Pretend he called the girl, put her on speaker phone, and ONLY said, ';Please tell my girlfriend why I asked you to come over';, would she really have said that she wanted to buy some stuff?
A guy like that seriously isn't worth it. Even if he DID call her to hook up with her, he could've at least manned up to it rather than making up some bs story.
Advice from a guys point of view?
ok so theres this boy i like and think he likes me and i want to get to knoww him better and find out where it goes im really shy when im first getting to know a person is there anything particular that guys usually look for when looking for a potential girlfriend and how can i tell if hes into me? any advice is really appreciated. =)Advice from a guys point of view?
My best advice is if you can find a mutal friend try to get some info from them (especially if hes shy hell tell his friends he likes you way before he even hints that he likes you) or you can just come out and say you have a lil crush on him and see how he reacts(but thats only if your 100% positive you can take his answer wether its good or bad)Advice from a guys point of view?
i know this sounds pretty corny but if u want to know if he likes you then get someone to ask him for you.. then , depending on the answer, what a guy really wants is for the girls to just flirt with him.. AKA give him signals that u like him too. trust me it works on me all the time.. =)
hope i helped : )
i think he wants you because he cant have u
guys like girls who fart a lot, make fun of their clothes, and call them wimpy. so do these things and you two will be together soon enough
My best advice is if you can find a mutal friend try to get some info from them (especially if hes shy hell tell his friends he likes you way before he even hints that he likes you) or you can just come out and say you have a lil crush on him and see how he reacts(but thats only if your 100% positive you can take his answer wether its good or bad)Advice from a guys point of view?
i know this sounds pretty corny but if u want to know if he likes you then get someone to ask him for you.. then , depending on the answer, what a guy really wants is for the girls to just flirt with him.. AKA give him signals that u like him too. trust me it works on me all the time.. =)
hope i helped : )
i think he wants you because he cant have u
guys like girls who fart a lot, make fun of their clothes, and call them wimpy. so do these things and you two will be together soon enough
Advice girls and guys plz help?
well ok im almost 16 and this girll i like is almost 16 to we are born 2 weeks apart. she goes to my church thats how we met ten years ago and since about five years ago weve been pretty good friends. we flirt with eachother all the time and she doesnt flirt with any of the other guys at the church who she has known for the same amount of time. also if one of the other guys sits beside her when we are on outhings she has them switch with me and she has asked to sit beside me during service the other day. she also asked me to go with her to her home church do you think she likes me and what is the best way to tell her i like her ttylAdvice girls and guys plz help?
This is sweet! She obviously likes you. I would recommend writing her a letter (hand-written) and put down all your feelings in the letter. Saying it in person would be sweet as well, but you might forget something, or be so nervous you'll studder and get words mixed up and make a mess of it (not that she'll really mind if she likes you). Tell her how strong your feelings are for her, and that you couldn't keep them in any longer and just have to let her know. You can also rewrite it until you get the words just perfect. You could deliver it to her with a single flower (might I suggest something different, like a blue iris or a sunflower... roses signify love and that might come on too strong). Just be sweet and sincere. It sounds like she truely likes you as well though, so whatever you say, I'm sure she'll be thrilled to read. Good luck, and God bless!Advice girls and guys plz help?
aww thats so sweet!yeah i think she does.
This seems straight forward... and you should be too. Just work up the courage to tell her how you feel. Honesty is the best policy... and besides, this isn't one of those situations in which you should delay gratification.
Sounds like she's definitely interested. Truth and honesty is the best way to go, girls-especially good church girls respect that.
awww, that's so sweet. I really think she likes you and she's just dropping hints which you're supposed to pick up. When she's sitting next to you on a trip listen to your mp3 player or borrow one from a friend for the occasion. Anyhow offer her a ear plug when you're listened to some really romantic song (if ur christian you'll like every little thing by hawk nelson) and look into her eyes, smile and sing it to her. Then, if she reacts like she's enjoying it (like blushing, looking down on the ground, smiling) later tell her how you feel when you're alone and ask her to be your girlfriend. But you gotta tell her else one day you'll look back and ask 'what if?' Oh yeah, and go with her to her home church.
* And come back n tell her how it goes * (lol!)
Actions speak louder than words.
Be nice to her , compliment her, tell her she looks nice today. That's a pretty dress , things like that. She will probably start trying to look especially good, Just for you.
We love the compliments, If they are sincere.
YOU GOTTA BE BLUNT U BOTH LIKE EACH OTHER BUT I SUGGETS U TAKE IT SLOW START TO DO NICE THINGS FOR HER AND SHE WILL GET THE HINT. TAKE HER OUT OR MAYBE JUS ASK HER TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS NOT MUCH CAN HAPPEN SHE CANT BITE YOUR HEAD OFF TELL HER HOW U FEEL.... ITS ONLY THE BEGINNING!!!!!gOOD LUCK
she really likes you, either that or she likes ur best frend.....kidding!
okay since she does like you dont be afraid of telling her that you feel the same way. she might actually be thinking why is he taking so long to react to anything i do? try to honor her the same way she does to you. then simply tell her. ur 16 hopefully you have enough guts to say the next time you see her '; I think ur really sweet, I like you. ';
okay good luck!
This is sweet! She obviously likes you. I would recommend writing her a letter (hand-written) and put down all your feelings in the letter. Saying it in person would be sweet as well, but you might forget something, or be so nervous you'll studder and get words mixed up and make a mess of it (not that she'll really mind if she likes you). Tell her how strong your feelings are for her, and that you couldn't keep them in any longer and just have to let her know. You can also rewrite it until you get the words just perfect. You could deliver it to her with a single flower (might I suggest something different, like a blue iris or a sunflower... roses signify love and that might come on too strong). Just be sweet and sincere. It sounds like she truely likes you as well though, so whatever you say, I'm sure she'll be thrilled to read. Good luck, and God bless!Advice girls and guys plz help?
aww thats so sweet!yeah i think she does.
This seems straight forward... and you should be too. Just work up the courage to tell her how you feel. Honesty is the best policy... and besides, this isn't one of those situations in which you should delay gratification.
Sounds like she's definitely interested. Truth and honesty is the best way to go, girls-especially good church girls respect that.
awww, that's so sweet. I really think she likes you and she's just dropping hints which you're supposed to pick up. When she's sitting next to you on a trip listen to your mp3 player or borrow one from a friend for the occasion. Anyhow offer her a ear plug when you're listened to some really romantic song (if ur christian you'll like every little thing by hawk nelson) and look into her eyes, smile and sing it to her. Then, if she reacts like she's enjoying it (like blushing, looking down on the ground, smiling) later tell her how you feel when you're alone and ask her to be your girlfriend. But you gotta tell her else one day you'll look back and ask 'what if?' Oh yeah, and go with her to her home church.
* And come back n tell her how it goes * (lol!)
Actions speak louder than words.
Be nice to her , compliment her, tell her she looks nice today. That's a pretty dress , things like that. She will probably start trying to look especially good, Just for you.
We love the compliments, If they are sincere.
YOU GOTTA BE BLUNT U BOTH LIKE EACH OTHER BUT I SUGGETS U TAKE IT SLOW START TO DO NICE THINGS FOR HER AND SHE WILL GET THE HINT. TAKE HER OUT OR MAYBE JUS ASK HER TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS NOT MUCH CAN HAPPEN SHE CANT BITE YOUR HEAD OFF TELL HER HOW U FEEL.... ITS ONLY THE BEGINNING!!!!!gOOD LUCK
she really likes you, either that or she likes ur best frend.....kidding!
okay since she does like you dont be afraid of telling her that you feel the same way. she might actually be thinking why is he taking so long to react to anything i do? try to honor her the same way she does to you. then simply tell her. ur 16 hopefully you have enough guts to say the next time you see her '; I think ur really sweet, I like you. ';
okay good luck!
I need girl adivce(guys and girls can give advice)?
i like this girl, but she doesnt notice me
About me
220pounds
about 6 feet tall
HER
shes about 6 foot too
she looks realy pretty every day and i fear talking to her i feel stupid and fat....i texted her like 4 time and she didnt text back.
im RELY lonely
she's like on of the popular kids, and im kindof nurtral on the scale of popularityI need girl adivce(guys and girls can give advice)?
haha. Im not trying to sound rude, but what is it with guys and popular girls?
I mean if she is really nice and stuff then i guess i understand, but from what you were saying about the texts, its either she is stuck up and thinks she's too good for you,.....or (the obvious one) she just didn't have her phone on her.
But seriously, popular girls get on my nerves for that reason....and many others....because they don't get a care and thinks everyone loves them.
If she's like that, don't pay any attention to her and find a girl who will like you for you.
If she's not like that, then go for it, and don't be nervous, lol. Being nervous is normal but remember she is just like a human as you are:DI need girl adivce(guys and girls can give advice)?
maybe u just like her for her looks...but u should ask her out and show her ur tru selfred lipstick
About me
220pounds
about 6 feet tall
HER
shes about 6 foot too
she looks realy pretty every day and i fear talking to her i feel stupid and fat....i texted her like 4 time and she didnt text back.
im RELY lonely
she's like on of the popular kids, and im kindof nurtral on the scale of popularityI need girl adivce(guys and girls can give advice)?
haha. Im not trying to sound rude, but what is it with guys and popular girls?
I mean if she is really nice and stuff then i guess i understand, but from what you were saying about the texts, its either she is stuck up and thinks she's too good for you,.....or (the obvious one) she just didn't have her phone on her.
But seriously, popular girls get on my nerves for that reason....and many others....because they don't get a care and thinks everyone loves them.
If she's like that, don't pay any attention to her and find a girl who will like you for you.
If she's not like that, then go for it, and don't be nervous, lol. Being nervous is normal but remember she is just like a human as you are:DI need girl adivce(guys and girls can give advice)?
maybe u just like her for her looks...but u should ask her out and show her ur tru self
Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
I am a girl/he is a guy.
Well, we've been best friends for about a year. We've known each other for 3 years.
We hung out quite a bit, and talked about everything.
but it seems, even though he knows me hes starting to believe things everyone else is saying.
I recently got a tongue piercing, and am now considered a whore at school.
Although, I haven't done anything?.
He seems to be now calling me a whore, and believing different things,
such as i got it for him, i want to use him for sex and things that are very far from true.
is he just wondering if its true or not?
or is our friendship dyeing?
should i say goodbye, because he won't believe me?
should i stay around and wait for him to realize he was wrong?Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
so,you've known the guy for three years,been best friends for one year?,he's not very supportive is he?,why is he siding with the others?,yes,somethings wrong there.i'm not sure why you felt the need to pierce your tongue,but if you want to mutilate yourself,that's down to you,it really doesn't make you any more of a rebel,or any more grown up.i'm wondering if you've made the mistake of sleeping with him?,even so,i think you should perhaps think about getting a new best friend,Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
heyy :]
well, if you ask me, this boy is being very mature!
he's obviously not the kind of friend that you deserve, because if he was, he would take your side over anybody elses.
and for him to dip to their level is pretty low.
it must be hard to hear me critisising your friend but i really do think he's treating you unfairly, a ';whore'; is a serious insult, especially if it is not true, he should not doubt you!
i think you should still speak to him for a while, see if anything else comes up, and the first time he says anything inappropriate or unfair, end all contact with him!
good luck :]
if he is going to sit there and even entertain that crap and he is your best friend, then he is NOT even your best friend! You're not a whore just because you get your tongue pierced! That is so stupid! I would ditch him. I can't believe people would jump through hoops just to hurt peoples feelings like that! Pretty sad. Move on and find new friends and don't let this get you down. Honestly i know it hurts but you're better off.
Believe me... a person who say those kind of things about you and knows are not closely true wasn't and is not your friend
I know it's not easy at all, but you must say goodbye to him for once and all.
You should say goodbye and see if he comes around again wanting forgiveness. I would say that at this point, he is just agreeing with the other kids in school because it is the cool thing to do... Let him go and then hopefully he will see the truth later.
first congratulations for the tongue peircing i wanna get one and my mum wont let me...wt shall i do?
lol...anyways if he was really yr best friend he wud stand up for you and support u thru these rumors...i think he is not yr best friend bec of how he is acting if i was u i wud go ask him to find the truth and get it over with...good luck...
Well, we've been best friends for about a year. We've known each other for 3 years.
We hung out quite a bit, and talked about everything.
but it seems, even though he knows me hes starting to believe things everyone else is saying.
I recently got a tongue piercing, and am now considered a whore at school.
Although, I haven't done anything?.
He seems to be now calling me a whore, and believing different things,
such as i got it for him, i want to use him for sex and things that are very far from true.
is he just wondering if its true or not?
or is our friendship dyeing?
should i say goodbye, because he won't believe me?
should i stay around and wait for him to realize he was wrong?Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
so,you've known the guy for three years,been best friends for one year?,he's not very supportive is he?,why is he siding with the others?,yes,somethings wrong there.i'm not sure why you felt the need to pierce your tongue,but if you want to mutilate yourself,that's down to you,it really doesn't make you any more of a rebel,or any more grown up.i'm wondering if you've made the mistake of sleeping with him?,even so,i think you should perhaps think about getting a new best friend,Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
heyy :]
well, if you ask me, this boy is being very mature!
he's obviously not the kind of friend that you deserve, because if he was, he would take your side over anybody elses.
and for him to dip to their level is pretty low.
it must be hard to hear me critisising your friend but i really do think he's treating you unfairly, a ';whore'; is a serious insult, especially if it is not true, he should not doubt you!
i think you should still speak to him for a while, see if anything else comes up, and the first time he says anything inappropriate or unfair, end all contact with him!
good luck :]
if he is going to sit there and even entertain that crap and he is your best friend, then he is NOT even your best friend! You're not a whore just because you get your tongue pierced! That is so stupid! I would ditch him. I can't believe people would jump through hoops just to hurt peoples feelings like that! Pretty sad. Move on and find new friends and don't let this get you down. Honestly i know it hurts but you're better off.
Believe me... a person who say those kind of things about you and knows are not closely true wasn't and is not your friend
I know it's not easy at all, but you must say goodbye to him for once and all.
You should say goodbye and see if he comes around again wanting forgiveness. I would say that at this point, he is just agreeing with the other kids in school because it is the cool thing to do... Let him go and then hopefully he will see the truth later.
first congratulations for the tongue peircing i wanna get one and my mum wont let me...wt shall i do?
lol...anyways if he was really yr best friend he wud stand up for you and support u thru these rumors...i think he is not yr best friend bec of how he is acting if i was u i wud go ask him to find the truth and get it over with...good luck...
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Not all guys like the same thing. Figure out your strengths and accentuate the positive.
Make sure he sees your ****.
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
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talk to him and look simple not gaudyA question for the guys, i need some advice?
Not all guys like the same thing. Figure out your strengths and accentuate the positive.
Make sure he sees your ****.
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
=======
If you have the time, and you are looking for someone, complete this simple
form and start dating.
http://**************/go.php
Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
You could bring it up to him, just don't press the subject to hard, or you'll end up getting the opposite affect of what you wanted.
I'd say bring up the subject, and then let him come around on his own time.
For all you know, it could be just a matter of money, for a ring, the wedding, honeymoon, etc.
Kind of sounds like you might be thinking to deeply about it.
No need to rush into it.
Those of us that come from divorced families are very reluctant to get married to, so that could be a factor also.
Just be patient.......good things come to those who wait.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
just ask if your getting married or not. yea it's blunt but it will get the job done. tell him that you don't want to push him but would like to know when he's ready because weeding take time to plan plus your not getting any younger(no offense). but explain what you've explained here and tell him that you love him enough to wait, but that you want to be a real family with him and your son and any other children that may come along.
i'm sure he loves you but i think that having a son may have put pressure on him to propose to you and maybe he wasnt ready, and maybe he's not bringing it up because he's scared of committment, just talk to him if he loves you he'll listen and understand good luck
Marriage is just a piece of paper it is really all about the way the two of you feel about each other when hes ready you'll know no need to rush hes already asked you right? so you know he loves you so just be patient all good things come to those who wait.
if he truely loves you then he should be foward with you, as you with him.
just as you have overcome many obstacles so shall you overcome this be it with or without him
love shouldn't leave over a presistant question if so then how deep and strong was love really???
I think you need to tell him what you just wrote here and then give him time to make a decision and tell you what he wants.
Just ask him if he was serious about his proposal; he may say that he didn't mean it, but then you'll know where you stand.
I'd simply say ';so should I open wedding account at the bank?'; or leave a book with a bunch of rings on it %26amp; circle the one you like. He'll bring it up.
just say
';u know...i would really like to start raising a family with you and my son. what do you think?';
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
You could bring it up to him, just don't press the subject to hard, or you'll end up getting the opposite affect of what you wanted.
I'd say bring up the subject, and then let him come around on his own time.
For all you know, it could be just a matter of money, for a ring, the wedding, honeymoon, etc.
Kind of sounds like you might be thinking to deeply about it.
No need to rush into it.
Those of us that come from divorced families are very reluctant to get married to, so that could be a factor also.
Just be patient.......good things come to those who wait.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
just ask if your getting married or not. yea it's blunt but it will get the job done. tell him that you don't want to push him but would like to know when he's ready because weeding take time to plan plus your not getting any younger(no offense). but explain what you've explained here and tell him that you love him enough to wait, but that you want to be a real family with him and your son and any other children that may come along.
i'm sure he loves you but i think that having a son may have put pressure on him to propose to you and maybe he wasnt ready, and maybe he's not bringing it up because he's scared of committment, just talk to him if he loves you he'll listen and understand good luck
Marriage is just a piece of paper it is really all about the way the two of you feel about each other when hes ready you'll know no need to rush hes already asked you right? so you know he loves you so just be patient all good things come to those who wait.
if he truely loves you then he should be foward with you, as you with him.
just as you have overcome many obstacles so shall you overcome this be it with or without him
love shouldn't leave over a presistant question if so then how deep and strong was love really???
I think you need to tell him what you just wrote here and then give him time to make a decision and tell you what he wants.
Just ask him if he was serious about his proposal; he may say that he didn't mean it, but then you'll know where you stand.
I'd simply say ';so should I open wedding account at the bank?'; or leave a book with a bunch of rings on it %26amp; circle the one you like. He'll bring it up.
just say
';u know...i would really like to start raising a family with you and my son. what do you think?';
Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
It sounds as though your boyfriend/fiance` is stalling. In his mind he is thinking that he has what he wants right now, so why change things? He may even tell you that he doesn't need a piece of paper to say that you two are together and that he loves you.
The thing is, if he truly loves you and wants to spend his life with you in it, then he should be willing to make that commitment to marriage. He probably made the proposal 9 months ago because you brought the marriage question up, so it was his way of temporarily satisfying you. You mention that he hasn't given you a ring yet, so I bet that will be his next move to satisfy you for a little longer.
If marriage is what you truly desire, then talk to him and let him know how you feel. Set a date for the marriage to take place...give him some time to think about what he wants in his life. A word of caution though; be prepared to follow through with your plan of leaving though if he doesn't make a commitment, otherwise things will never change.
He may be taking you for granted, and is figuring that you won't leave, so it might have to take you leaving for him to figure out what a good thing he had. If he really loves you, then he'll want to make the commitment to you...and if he doesn't make an effort to follow through, then you need to ask yourself if you think you deserve more in your relationship.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
well i think you should just be patient and wait. you wouldnt want him to propose to you because he feels pressured you want him to do it cuz he WANTS to marry you.
can you please help me?
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sounds like he got what he wanted. guys sometimes will say anything to get sex.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
It sounds as though your boyfriend/fiance` is stalling. In his mind he is thinking that he has what he wants right now, so why change things? He may even tell you that he doesn't need a piece of paper to say that you two are together and that he loves you.
The thing is, if he truly loves you and wants to spend his life with you in it, then he should be willing to make that commitment to marriage. He probably made the proposal 9 months ago because you brought the marriage question up, so it was his way of temporarily satisfying you. You mention that he hasn't given you a ring yet, so I bet that will be his next move to satisfy you for a little longer.
If marriage is what you truly desire, then talk to him and let him know how you feel. Set a date for the marriage to take place...give him some time to think about what he wants in his life. A word of caution though; be prepared to follow through with your plan of leaving though if he doesn't make a commitment, otherwise things will never change.
He may be taking you for granted, and is figuring that you won't leave, so it might have to take you leaving for him to figure out what a good thing he had. If he really loves you, then he'll want to make the commitment to you...and if he doesn't make an effort to follow through, then you need to ask yourself if you think you deserve more in your relationship.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
well i think you should just be patient and wait. you wouldnt want him to propose to you because he feels pressured you want him to do it cuz he WANTS to marry you.
can you please help me?
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sounds like he got what he wanted. guys sometimes will say anything to get sex.
Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
1. Don't get pregnant again!
How old are you both? (Most) Guys under 25 or 30 are not really interested in a long term committed relationship.
At some point you are going to have to decide what is important to you. If the situation as it exists today is what you want then do nothing. If you really want him to marry you, you are going to have to decide that you accept the fact that he may very well just leave you. If you decide that then call him to the carpet. Make him set a date for marriage and then make him follow through.
Be very prepared that if you call him out that he is going to bolt.
You can just dump him out of your life. He will likely come back begging and be better for a while. But then it's going to get worse again, and you still won't be married.
there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.
as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things
tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
1. Don't get pregnant again!
How old are you both? (Most) Guys under 25 or 30 are not really interested in a long term committed relationship.
At some point you are going to have to decide what is important to you. If the situation as it exists today is what you want then do nothing. If you really want him to marry you, you are going to have to decide that you accept the fact that he may very well just leave you. If you decide that then call him to the carpet. Make him set a date for marriage and then make him follow through.
Be very prepared that if you call him out that he is going to bolt.
You can just dump him out of your life. He will likely come back begging and be better for a while. But then it's going to get worse again, and you still won't be married.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Question...i guess mostly for teenage guys but any advice is appreciated ;)?
okay, so im 17 years old (a girl) and i've never been kissed, never been on a date
guys just don't seem to like me that much
im really shy so sometimes when i talk to people i get nervous but i function in everyday life and wat not
i dont think im unattractive. my face is pretty but not in the conventional way
im a little soft...but not fat, im pretty okay with my body (i'm about 5'4'; and 126 pounds)
i don't really dress up that much. i usually wear jeans and a tshirt or sometimes a nicer top
i always wear my hair in a ponytail, hardly ever wear makeup
i have a nice butt (its rather large, but in the good way)
im pretty chill...im not like a bossy ***** or anything, i have a good sense of humor, i don't think im mean to anyone
as i said im really quiet.
what am i doing wrong? only 1 guy that i know of has really liked me, and all we did was hold hands...lame.
help! im really depressed and lonely :(Question...i guess mostly for teenage guys but any advice is appreciated ;)?
hey u r a nice pretty girl from what have u written many guys would date u.. just be confident.. and hey never kissed is a sexy thing
so that guy liked u.. so even he might be shy like u .. don,t be shy and talk with him like u do with others and .. have fun don,t be depressedQuestion...i guess mostly for teenage guys but any advice is appreciated ;)?
Hi ,
I think at the age of 17 u weigh 126 pound , its little bit more. Go 4 morning walk %26amp; exercise %26amp; dieting. First try 2 reduce sm pounds. At the age of 17 concentrate in study. Dont worry that u have never been kissed. U will get ur guy but present urself confidently. when u talk with ne body talk confidently %26amp; penetrate 2 his eyes, dont look here %26amp; there. Highway 2 nebody's heart passes through eyes. When u talk of beauty I think internal beauty is more imp. %26amp; long lasting than external beauty.
I actually think i can relate to you.
I can mostly fit your description.. but i'm only 15.
The diff is, I'm not caught up on guys.
I have a mentality that, whatevers gonna happen will happen in due time. I'm not worried about it. And neither should you!
Are you in college yet ? I've heard there're muchhh better chances there.
The right guy will come soon. Don't sweat it :]
Try to be open to meeting lots of guys. You sound like a nice girl, and there are guys who prefer quieter girls. However, they are often quiet and/or shy themselves, so it's good to make the first move if you see someone that interests you. If you find it easier, try making friends with a girl you see him hanging out with, and get to know him through that. This is actually my first answer on yahoo, so I hope it's a good one. Best of luck to you!red lipstick
guys just don't seem to like me that much
im really shy so sometimes when i talk to people i get nervous but i function in everyday life and wat not
i dont think im unattractive. my face is pretty but not in the conventional way
im a little soft...but not fat, im pretty okay with my body (i'm about 5'4'; and 126 pounds)
i don't really dress up that much. i usually wear jeans and a tshirt or sometimes a nicer top
i always wear my hair in a ponytail, hardly ever wear makeup
i have a nice butt (its rather large, but in the good way)
im pretty chill...im not like a bossy ***** or anything, i have a good sense of humor, i don't think im mean to anyone
as i said im really quiet.
what am i doing wrong? only 1 guy that i know of has really liked me, and all we did was hold hands...lame.
help! im really depressed and lonely :(Question...i guess mostly for teenage guys but any advice is appreciated ;)?
hey u r a nice pretty girl from what have u written many guys would date u.. just be confident.. and hey never kissed is a sexy thing
so that guy liked u.. so even he might be shy like u .. don,t be shy and talk with him like u do with others and .. have fun don,t be depressedQuestion...i guess mostly for teenage guys but any advice is appreciated ;)?
Hi ,
I think at the age of 17 u weigh 126 pound , its little bit more. Go 4 morning walk %26amp; exercise %26amp; dieting. First try 2 reduce sm pounds. At the age of 17 concentrate in study. Dont worry that u have never been kissed. U will get ur guy but present urself confidently. when u talk with ne body talk confidently %26amp; penetrate 2 his eyes, dont look here %26amp; there. Highway 2 nebody's heart passes through eyes. When u talk of beauty I think internal beauty is more imp. %26amp; long lasting than external beauty.
I actually think i can relate to you.
I can mostly fit your description.. but i'm only 15.
The diff is, I'm not caught up on guys.
I have a mentality that, whatevers gonna happen will happen in due time. I'm not worried about it. And neither should you!
Are you in college yet ? I've heard there're muchhh better chances there.
The right guy will come soon. Don't sweat it :]
Try to be open to meeting lots of guys. You sound like a nice girl, and there are guys who prefer quieter girls. However, they are often quiet and/or shy themselves, so it's good to make the first move if you see someone that interests you. If you find it easier, try making friends with a girl you see him hanging out with, and get to know him through that. This is actually my first answer on yahoo, so I hope it's a good one. Best of luck to you!
Here we go again. Need help! GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE?!?!?!?!!?!?!? Ok, im dating my ex again & i wanna...?
Okay, here we go.
Were together again, but our relationship feels a bit lonely.
We see each other everyday at the pool, but were quiet.
What can i do to make him speak?
Or hang out with me?
(I am really shy, REALLY shy)
Also, i wanna kiss him.
He calls everyday %26amp; we talk, i wanna kiss him, how should i do this.
PLEASE HELP! THANKS!Here we go again. Need help! GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE?!?!?!?!!?!?!? Ok, im dating my ex again %26amp; i wanna...?
ok lol this is sort of lame but i promise it works. he sounds shy and you are shy too. this never works someone has to open up. so open up! nothing bad can happen i promise!now heres the lame part... when you are at the pool and its time to go either tell him you have a secret, or something to tell him. then give him a hug and act like your going to whisper it into his ear but give him a kiss instead. works everytime i PROMISE!!!! =)Here we go again. Need help! GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE?!?!?!?!!?!?!? Ok, im dating my ex again %26amp; i wanna...?
OH MY GOODNESS ! i had the same prob i was dating this guy that was completely gorgeous and we all ways saw each other at the pool we had been dating for 3 months and all we did was hold hands and hug i always felt nervous around him and wanted to kiss him so bad but i did not have the guts he tried every time we hugged and i kinda messed it up it was horrible but one day when my dad was coming to pick me up from the pool i just leaned in and kissed it it was simple and after that the relationship was SO much more comfortable he talked way more and we lasted for 6 months
just do it like nike says :p
make small talk, ask how his day was or work or if he'd like to go get some lunch. go from there, whatever comes to mind. if you want to kiss him, try sitting close to him when your at the pool. look at him and when he looks at you back, wait a few seconds to see if he kisses you, if not, kiss him. go slow so you dont surprise him. Just be confident in yourself and dont feel ashamed for what you say or do. Guys like confidence, but not too cocky.
how did you give someone in the marriage section advice when you haven't even kissed your boyfriend. you gave very immature advice and i can see why you are to young.
Work on yur confidence ,, then be really outgoing with him!!
do it like you used to . just peck him hello when you see him and that opens the door to makeout kisses
Just do it! Smile at him and get really close!
just start a small talk and hell start opening up
just hang out with him more
do something really funny to break the ice....tell him pick up lines such as ';your feet must be tired! cause u been running through my mind ALL day!'; lol
do what roxxygrrl13 said, its what i do all the time [=
Were together again, but our relationship feels a bit lonely.
We see each other everyday at the pool, but were quiet.
What can i do to make him speak?
Or hang out with me?
(I am really shy, REALLY shy)
Also, i wanna kiss him.
He calls everyday %26amp; we talk, i wanna kiss him, how should i do this.
PLEASE HELP! THANKS!Here we go again. Need help! GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE?!?!?!?!!?!?!? Ok, im dating my ex again %26amp; i wanna...?
ok lol this is sort of lame but i promise it works. he sounds shy and you are shy too. this never works someone has to open up. so open up! nothing bad can happen i promise!now heres the lame part... when you are at the pool and its time to go either tell him you have a secret, or something to tell him. then give him a hug and act like your going to whisper it into his ear but give him a kiss instead. works everytime i PROMISE!!!! =)Here we go again. Need help! GUYS AND GIRLS ADVICE?!?!?!?!!?!?!? Ok, im dating my ex again %26amp; i wanna...?
OH MY GOODNESS ! i had the same prob i was dating this guy that was completely gorgeous and we all ways saw each other at the pool we had been dating for 3 months and all we did was hold hands and hug i always felt nervous around him and wanted to kiss him so bad but i did not have the guts he tried every time we hugged and i kinda messed it up it was horrible but one day when my dad was coming to pick me up from the pool i just leaned in and kissed it it was simple and after that the relationship was SO much more comfortable he talked way more and we lasted for 6 months
just do it like nike says :p
make small talk, ask how his day was or work or if he'd like to go get some lunch. go from there, whatever comes to mind. if you want to kiss him, try sitting close to him when your at the pool. look at him and when he looks at you back, wait a few seconds to see if he kisses you, if not, kiss him. go slow so you dont surprise him. Just be confident in yourself and dont feel ashamed for what you say or do. Guys like confidence, but not too cocky.
how did you give someone in the marriage section advice when you haven't even kissed your boyfriend. you gave very immature advice and i can see why you are to young.
Work on yur confidence ,, then be really outgoing with him!!
do it like you used to . just peck him hello when you see him and that opens the door to makeout kisses
Just do it! Smile at him and get really close!
just start a small talk and hell start opening up
just hang out with him more
do something really funny to break the ice....tell him pick up lines such as ';your feet must be tired! cause u been running through my mind ALL day!'; lol
do what roxxygrrl13 said, its what i do all the time [=
Hey guys could you help me with my 6th grade sister about knowing if he likes her.GUYS NEED THE ADVICE please?
Okay me and my sister bond a lot together.She was telling me about this guy named troy she said there lockers are right next to each others.She has a huge crush on him.In science class he seats behind her she says that's the time they talk a lot.She asked me does he like me?She says we smile at each other a lot.When we talk its just a smile.She also said he does stuff for her,like when she asks him can you put this away please?He said do i have too,she said please but he did it what she said.
So like she asked me do you think he likes me.I didn't know what to say because there like in 6th grade im in high school.Then she asked how does he flirt with me?Don't guys in 6th grade flirt differently in high school?I think they do.
Please give me info. about this for i can help my little sis.Oh yeah and explain how 6th graders flirt please!!Hey guys could you help me with my 6th grade sister about knowing if he likes her.GUYS NEED THE ADVICE please?
He may like her, but you can't rely on reading signs. Girls ALWAYS misinterpret them, and even if a magazine says ';a smile means he likes you!'; that does not apply to every guy.
So we cannot give you a great answer. However, he definitely shows an interest in her, whether it be as a friend or more. She needs to be confident and ask. If she just assumes he does because someone on here says ';oh yeah, totally!'; or something, she might get her hopes up, which hurts worse than knowing right away. So tell her she just needs to tell him how she feels.Hey guys could you help me with my 6th grade sister about knowing if he likes her.GUYS NEED THE ADVICE please?
A typical sixth grade guy will pay a little more attention to a girl he likes, and maybe even tease her a bit. another thing, if this guy tends to do anything related or connected to poking or making contact, then he probably likes her. If he likes her, he may also look at her a lot, or maybe even follow her around, or ';stalk'; her
So like she asked me do you think he likes me.I didn't know what to say because there like in 6th grade im in high school.Then she asked how does he flirt with me?Don't guys in 6th grade flirt differently in high school?I think they do.
Please give me info. about this for i can help my little sis.Oh yeah and explain how 6th graders flirt please!!Hey guys could you help me with my 6th grade sister about knowing if he likes her.GUYS NEED THE ADVICE please?
He may like her, but you can't rely on reading signs. Girls ALWAYS misinterpret them, and even if a magazine says ';a smile means he likes you!'; that does not apply to every guy.
So we cannot give you a great answer. However, he definitely shows an interest in her, whether it be as a friend or more. She needs to be confident and ask. If she just assumes he does because someone on here says ';oh yeah, totally!'; or something, she might get her hopes up, which hurts worse than knowing right away. So tell her she just needs to tell him how she feels.Hey guys could you help me with my 6th grade sister about knowing if he likes her.GUYS NEED THE ADVICE please?
A typical sixth grade guy will pay a little more attention to a girl he likes, and maybe even tease her a bit. another thing, if this guy tends to do anything related or connected to poking or making contact, then he probably likes her. If he likes her, he may also look at her a lot, or maybe even follow her around, or ';stalk'; her
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