Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?

I am a girl/he is a guy.





Well, we've been best friends for about a year. We've known each other for 3 years.





We hung out quite a bit, and talked about everything.





but it seems, even though he knows me hes starting to believe things everyone else is saying.





I recently got a tongue piercing, and am now considered a whore at school.





Although, I haven't done anything?.





He seems to be now calling me a whore, and believing different things,


such as i got it for him, i want to use him for sex and things that are very far from true.





is he just wondering if its true or not?


or is our friendship dyeing?





should i say goodbye, because he won't believe me?


should i stay around and wait for him to realize he was wrong?Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
so,you've known the guy for three years,been best friends for one year?,he's not very supportive is he?,why is he siding with the others?,yes,somethings wrong there.i'm not sure why you felt the need to pierce your tongue,but if you want to mutilate yourself,that's down to you,it really doesn't make you any more of a rebel,or any more grown up.i'm wondering if you've made the mistake of sleeping with him?,even so,i think you should perhaps think about getting a new best friend,Is he really a best friends? [guys or girls advice]?
heyy :]


well, if you ask me, this boy is being very mature!


he's obviously not the kind of friend that you deserve, because if he was, he would take your side over anybody elses.


and for him to dip to their level is pretty low.


it must be hard to hear me critisising your friend but i really do think he's treating you unfairly, a ';whore'; is a serious insult, especially if it is not true, he should not doubt you!


i think you should still speak to him for a while, see if anything else comes up, and the first time he says anything inappropriate or unfair, end all contact with him!





good luck :]
if he is going to sit there and even entertain that crap and he is your best friend, then he is NOT even your best friend! You're not a whore just because you get your tongue pierced! That is so stupid! I would ditch him. I can't believe people would jump through hoops just to hurt peoples feelings like that! Pretty sad. Move on and find new friends and don't let this get you down. Honestly i know it hurts but you're better off.
Believe me... a person who say those kind of things about you and knows are not closely true wasn't and is not your friend





I know it's not easy at all, but you must say goodbye to him for once and all.
You should say goodbye and see if he comes around again wanting forgiveness. I would say that at this point, he is just agreeing with the other kids in school because it is the cool thing to do... Let him go and then hopefully he will see the truth later.
first congratulations for the tongue peircing i wanna get one and my mum wont let me...wt shall i do?


lol...anyways if he was really yr best friend he wud stand up for you and support u thru these rumors...i think he is not yr best friend bec of how he is acting if i was u i wud go ask him to find the truth and get it over with...good luck...