What do you think of this guys? Need your advice?

Im apart from boyfriend of 9years for study reasons %26amp; about to finish. He is so angry with me says I left him but he wanted me to finish uni. It has been hard apart. He now wants to break up altho i have waited for him ... so I say painfully say okay I will let him go but need him to return my things. He says he wont return my things then says some angry stuff then he asks for sexy photos of me etc ... When I agree to let him go he suddenly turns around asks for sexy stuff of me. He never trusts me - I am one of the most loyal people you could meet. He has no reason to not trust me. How can I reassure him cos he is being so angry %26amp; unreasonable .. I think he might bed epressed cos he's struggled with this in the past. .... I am confused - I am in another country. Dont know what to do. I say he if he wants me to move on he needs to return my things but he wont. Why? I have a few of his things %26amp; have offered to return them. I dont want this to get nasty - it hurts too much.What do you think of this guys? Need your advice?
hey. i may be 15 years old, but i want to become a psychologist so this could be practice., i'll give it my best shot...





Since you've been together for nine years, he feels like he's lost the most important thing in his life. This is like having a og for nine years and then all of a sudden, though it may be a mutual decision, the dog must go to a veterenary clinic for a few months, you would feel like you had nothing and you would miss it so much, you wouldnt't know what to do. Your boyfriend misses you so much, that he is beginning to doubt himself. He may feel like he is dependant of you and needs to prove to himself he can live without you. I assure you that once you get back from graduating, you two will be a happy couple. The reason why he wont give you your stuff back is because he doesn't want to lose you completely since you've been a part of his life for so long. He wants sexy photos of you so he can reassure himself that he still has you with him. Guaranteed, you two will be together longer than this after you're back.What do you think of this guys? Need your advice?
If he won't return your things, go to the police.
What a mess...


I just went through that 3 months ago.


Umm sounds to me like you need to leave him. I happen to be the queen of bad choices lol. I know you love him, but you deserve better! I know you've probably heard that like a million times but it's the truth. He doesn't sound all that great to me.


He's playing mind games with you, you see boys are dumb like that. {I bet he was a big flirt when you 1st met him}. He doesn't want you to leave him, even though you need to. See he won't give you back your things because he wants you to stay. Boys usually want one thing. That's why he asked for those sexy pics. That's def a no-no. He wants you to feel guilty for leaving him so that's why he says he wants to break up. That way he can get what he want because he's made you feel so guilty and then just flat out dump you. Think about it, why would he want you to go but then get mad. Trust me I soo know.


If he can't understand that you're trying to do something important with you're life he's just holding you down. You don't need a bf whose gonna stop you from following your dreams.


Plus he didn't put a ring on you're finger did he? Doesn't matter though, you shouldn't let some bf stop you from pressing on.


And if you do leave him depending on how long he'll probably cheat... so you should probably dump him.


Plus, I'm 100% that there's someone way better out there for you, whether you believe it or not. You may wait for a bit but he'll be so worth it!


Umm also no matter what it's gonna end nastily.





What you have to decide is if he's worth the pain. He doesn't seem to be, though. Love does NOT hurt. It shouldn't have to hirt because it's Love.


You so remind me of me 3 months ago lol, I've come alooong way. You seem really sweet and I'm telling you, you desrve so much better. He'll just hurt you either way.


Umm you can also talked to God too :] he seems to know everything, lol.


If you think you can't leave him just let the pain set in long enough. If he's depressed tell him to ge a therapist. Or he could talk to God too haha.


Sorry about the typos. It's really late and I have Champs. 2morrow so I didn't sp check.


Stay Sweet. Byeee