Ex's are so confusing? guys or girls advice?

I have an ex who broke up with me a bit more than a year a go. It was hard and painful because I was very ignorant of relationships and i never thought he'd be the one to end it, if it ever did end. It was a shock when he broke up with me (stupid reason as well - we both acknowledged the relationship had slowed down and we were both busy in senior year, so that was his reason - he didn't even try to maintain the relationship...he may as well have just said 'i'm bored of you')





Anyway! So he's friend with my friends, so we've hung out for this entire time, but when i spoke to him the first time after the break up (casual talk) he just kinda nodded and was probably freaked out and completely ignored me and wouldn't go into a circle of conversation if i was there etc and he never spoke to me or even message me on birthdaya etc (as i did for him). It was like i didn't exist and i gave up trying, and i gave him space (not that i was in his face beforehand)





Now just suddenly he's started to join in circles when i'm there and we've spoken small words to each other, nothing major. What do you think is he's deal? I just wanted to be his friend after the break up and it was impossible, so i left it and now it seems he's trying to be friends again. But why? and why now!? Was he freaked out that maybe i liked him after the break up?





GUYS PLEASE HELP, i just need some closure and opinions.Ex's are so confusing? guys or girls advice?
nonono move on to someone that will make you happy and stop playing head gamesEx's are so confusing? guys or girls advice?
Maybe he needed some time while you guys were together . Maybe he was cold cause he resented you during that time , kept it inside. Now he's actually being around , eh? HMmmmnn... That's crazy. If he's nice to you, he may want to be friends again. Take it slow.