My husbands being horrible. please guys, id like advice.?

hi,





iv moved, 3 hours away, from my family to be with my husband. i miss my family very much.


one minute my husband is very nice to me and then the next, he is horrible.


a few months ago he told me he wouldv married his childhood sweetheart. then a few weeks later i wanted to buy condoms, as im not on the pill, and he said no because they were too expensive. last night he said to me 'do you know who you look like', then he said something along the lines of 'i shouldnt say'. it turned out to be my brother but i cant believe he said 'i shouldnt say'. he must think my brother and i are ugly!


one minute hes being horrible, then hes nice to me, makes love to me, then the next he does really mean things like this.


i cant believe what he said to me last night.


i am nothing but nice to him. he watches 3 games of football every weekend and we watch his movies, he plays the ps3.


i am just fed up of this!My husbands being horrible. please guys, id like advice.?
In my opinion he is an adult acting like a spoilt teenager, ultimatum time.My husbands being horrible. please guys, id like advice.?
draw the line girl you don't have to put up with that i mean how long have you been married to him is it going to get worse just tell him what you think nobody should have to put up with that i am not saying leave him but talk to him and if that doesn't work well why stick around then if you do stick around well your not helping your self the most important person in you life is you take care of your self good luck i hope i help a little
can you sort this one out on your own?


or would it help to go and talk this out with a counseller?





that way you get to talk out your feelings


and you get to talk out options


and alternatives





enjoy the space for now


and i do hope you work out what it is that you want to do now





( and yes, I would be fed up too)
You are a victim of ';emotional abuse';....


It is up to you to leave it. Your husband is yo-yoing you because he isn't man enough to end the marriage himself, soooo he treats you this way, hoping you will get tired of it and leave.


The key is......to leave......


This is not love, it is cruel and demeaning and a form of ';emotional rape';......If you love yourself......save yourself. Leave
And this is from you too?





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Yeah, the guy sounds like a scruffy twat. He's treating you like a convenience, not a partner. Ditch the dick.
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sounds like a numbnuts. It sounds like he has his own issues and a bit controlling and nasty.
he sounds childish and immature,,leave him with his football and ps3,he obv has a LOT of growing up to do
it sound to me like his bipolar or something.


Divorce from him hun.


I prefer a happy divorce more than a bad relationship
I wouldn't put up with comments like that, you've made sacrifices for him who does he think he is??
Run away!
You're a doormat.
not a very good husband :( you should just talk to him about it and see if you can fix it :P
toughen up and divorce him.
I'm with the first poster
get rid.... walk away... and never look back.





Px
Wow! I feel for you and never would have wanted to be in your shoes! Why is he so mean? Doesnt he love you? Find out and remember he has no right to be mean to you. Sometimes individuals are schizophrenic that is a disorder that makes them act the opposite of what they just did from nice to being nasty. I suspect your hubby might have a disorder or might be dealing with issues within him and so he has now way of letting it out other than being mean to you. I advise that you seek therapy otherwise you might get ruined.
Ouch, well sounds like he doesn't have his priority's straight and he wants you when he wants you and when he doesn't want you around he's quick to show it in more ways than 1. Ask yourself these questions...


Do you love him enough to not get the same love back?


Is he worth your time?


Will you end up regretting it?


Would you treat someone like that?


From what I've read he sounds self centered and selfish, not ready for any relationship and you are....if you love him SO much tell him you do, then let him go, if he asks why you are leaving tell him that he's not ready for the kind of relationship that you want and DO NOT let him sneak his way back into your life sweet talking you and believe him if he says he's ready because he's not..lol and leave...let him figure out why and who he needs to be to be with you. You have family you miss and love so much and you sacrificed that to be with him? Why spend time as answer number 1 said...a doormat. Your are more important and valuable as a person than that!


I'm a firm believer in if it's meant to be, it will be.