I kinda have a thing for this kid in my college class, but I think he only likes me as a friend. When we're in class, he always makes and effort to talk to me...and I mean always. But he never calls or texts or anything like that. I mean, I really don't call him either, but that's just because I'm kinda shy. But I do text. And I told him to call me last weekend of whenever he's free. I never got a call. So I'm pretty sure we're just on a friend to friend basis, if that. What do you think? And I'm find with us being friends, but I kinda wanna ask him to hang out over this weekend, but I don't know exactly how to. I don't want him to freak out and think that I'm asking him out on a date or anything. I don't mind being aggressive (some guys like that...right?), but I don't know if I'd be being needy now. I don't want that. I'm just so clueless when it comes to guys. What should I do? Is there a possibly that he has a thing for me too? Or just friends? Am I being too needy? Should I ask him to hang out? How!?I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
I'm not sure what aggressive is to you, but you can make a move without being desperate. Simply ask him if he wants to hang out with one night or during the weekend. He could be shy too, have someone else already, or thinks you're not interested. Just be direct.I'm so clueless when it comes to guys, I need advice! Please help me with this situation im in.?
you said you were kind of shy, but you still talk to him.
well maybe he feels the same. he could be EXTREMELY shy so he's too afraid to call you.
you know?
so when youre in person, just casually say ';we should hang out sometime.';
its not too ';GO OUT WITH ME.';
so itll be subtle and he'll go.
whatever happens from there is up to you
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