My Ex-Girlfriend came back into my life after 4 years. Hey guys, need some advice here.?

I dated this girl for 4 months and things were going really well, at least from what I thought. She calls me one day and says that she doesn't think we will work out and that we should break up. So I tell her fine, no problem and that was the last I talked to her. No communication for the next 4 years except for a few emails. Fast forward to now and she emailed then called me out of the blue. She asked me about my relationship, (I'm 1 year into one right now with a great girl), and then I asked her if she's dating anyone. She says yes, but that this isn't a guy that she wants to go far with or have a family with, (she's been dating him for a year as well. She then tells me to call her for a drink next time I'm in her neck of the woods. I really Had strong feeling for this girl when we were dating and over the course of time we've been apart still though about her from time to time. what should I do? I like the girl I'm with now, but can't help thinking what if about the ex.My Ex-Girlfriend came back into my life after 4 years. Hey guys, need some advice here.?
in life we all have a need to be loved all of us think about our ex lovers we know how comfortable we where with that person its different in each relationship we have and when an opportunity comes up for us to have that back again with one person we tend to go backwoods i have done it my self and it was the worst mistake i ever mad i just got my heart broken again there is one peace of advice i have for you WE ALL NEED TO MOVE FORWARDS NOT BACKWOODS i learnt that the hard way if you are happy with who you are with now keep that don't trow it away for something that already has been move forwardMy Ex-Girlfriend came back into my life after 4 years. Hey guys, need some advice here.?
Hang up and RUN from her a one year relationhip withsome one and she wants to go out with you???? are you kidding how would you like it if your woman did that to you????
This is whats going to happen. You'll break up with your current girl, hook up with the old ex. Then after along time, find out your ex is not your soulmate and by that time, the girl whom your with currently will already have found someone else and you realize THATS the girl who you want to spend the rest of your life with and by that time its TOO LATE. Then you'll definitely end up with a ';WHAT IF I WASNT SUCH A DONKEY AND SCREWED THINGS UP. NOW MY LIFE IS MISERABLE BECAUSE I WAS CURIOUS';.
she done had her chance dont let her mess with your heart again now if you become single later then go for it but dont throw away what you have for a possibility
If she pulled some lame games on you before she'll do it again. Don't fall into the trap.
1 your seeing someone.


2 she is seeing someone.


3 she ended out of the blue.


if you were not dating someone and wanted to try that would be one thing, but you are. so is she, and you don't know if you got together if she would do it again. stay where your at. If something happen to end what your in now, and she wasn't dating then try, but not now,
Love the one you are with.
is this a setup?
dont go back it only lasted four months for crying out loud! do u want to destroy ur relationship with the beautiful girl your with right now hell no not for four months and 4 years of CRAP! shes just messin with ur head and u need to pull the plug and focus on ur girl
love the one you're with. the ex is just that, an ex. or are you gonna be like Charlie Brown trying to kick the football?