Need some advice urgently pls? Guys would help alot?

I have been seeing this guy for 2 and a half months, I have been the one wanting to take it easy. I stayed at his place last night and we went out to town .I was made bacon and eggs today by him pretty cute for bfast.


Anyways when I left his house today I got a text saying ';had a great time last night hope you did 2';...


I sent him a text back asking ';are we an item or just dating';?


He replied with ';Im easy.. ill leave that up 2 u, ya know I cant make a decision. u want to take it slow remember';?


I then replied with ';Yes but would u prefer us to be an item and take it slow or just dating';?


He came back with ';Im happy 4 us 2 be an item as long as u are, if not then dating is fine';...


Is this really good as though he is really into me or he could give or take?


He is always constantly affectionate around me and even when his mates are there, whats your advice pls help??Need some advice urgently pls? Guys would help alot?
I think he is trying to respect what you asked for and not trying to push the button. I think that he really is into you and he does not want to mess things up or say the wrong thing that might mess up the relationship. Being a guy I have done the same thing before just because I was afraid that it was not what my significant other at the time would want. This is definitely good I do believe for you though.Need some advice urgently pls? Guys would help alot?
he is not sure...i dated one like that...for six months he remained confused. at one point i dumped him.
hon next time you have a thought about you two just let it go he is up for anything dont argue with him be glad you have a man like that
Just cherish the moment while being with him....





seize every opportunity you can have with him...





just enjoy life....
You said you wanted to take it slow and now you are asking him if you are an item. Sounds to me like you are creating drama. Help? With what? Sounds like you want to be dramatic with the general public as well. If you keep it up, he may get fed up with it. I know I would.
He is letting you make the decision he is happy as long as you are so yes he is into you but is letting you decide on how fast the relationship goes. Remember you are the one that said you wanted to go slow so he is letting you decide so do what you feel and be happy dont try and make something out of it that it isnt he is into you so fllow your heart


Good Luck
you are being difficult...he wants what ever you want so make a decision ............better yet .....don't make a decision...just do what you want to do....if you want to spend all you time with him then do so......when you don't want to then don't......all them labels confuse relationships ....do what makes you happy .....that is all that matter