Great sex takes time. Gawd, how I'd love to just have a few hours along to have fun with my wife sometimes. Away from the rest of the world. That's the problem, real life always pops in and ruins everything. We have to get up early, go to work, do chores and stuff. My advice? I dunno - set aside a couple hours where you lock yourselves up in the room and ignore the rest of the world.Married 10+ years...now the worst sex! Guys- need you advice here.?
Take him to a Doc
arent there counseling for this at the doctors office?
Pl, Consult some good Doctors reg this immediately before it is too late.
Build it up it sounds like its a chore, the more relaxed the better do some foreplay to get you going even if you need to stimulate yourself first.
STUD 100 Desensitizing Spray for Men. 4 to 5 spray the most, if he over spray it, he won't feel his d***. Now, relax and enjoy.
welcome to the ';**** i'm here?'; club try to find ways that he can complete your satisfaction before the sex act is carried out, that way you have both climaxed (although not together) and feel satisfied. this added pressure of not being able to hang can make things end earlier than wanted too so try not to beat him up or let him beat himself up about it as long as everyone is getting to the same place. besides this could open doors to new experiences for the both of you (teasing, dressing, role play) drag it out by not jumping right into the sack and you may find new ways to get where you what to be
Absolutely agree with Kathryn. You can also ';help yourself'; either before or after. You may also want to consider an imitation male member for you to use alone while watching something erotic, fantasizing or remembering previous good lovers you had. You are not unique: most married women have this problem with their husband after some years of marriage. He probably feels the same way about making love to you. Familiarity kills excitement. He would probably be a raring bull with a new woman, the same way as you would be multiorgasmic with a new man.
indulge in lot of fore play with a relaxed mind and don't do it as a compulsive act.do not demoralise him.
Try something out to start your session with. Something like watching a porn with him.
As a man grow older strength decreases - it is medically proved. Though as a few person loose their prime time earlier too due to certain illness, which can be rectified with the help of medicines and under doc's specification. So you do take an sincere advice of a specialist - it may help you both.
More over due to excess or daily sex man get exhausted where as ladies can survive it. Do see this point too. If so then start enjoying sex not more than twice a week.
I know this is a point of concern for you, as you would like to be with the man you married! However, I think it's super out cold and hateful that you would put your own husband on blast for his performance problems/and or lack of interest! I suggest you try to be less self centered and show your husband more support! The world will not end if you don't have sex for a while! You're a woman! You can abstain longer than a man! How dare you be this impatient about something he can't help! Support him and get yourself into counseling because a marriage is supposed to be a partership, not a temporary situation that you're willing to be in until things aren't going perfectly for one selfish little person! And this is the wrong place to vent about something you really don't have a right to vent about! It's his problem, not yours! UGGGGH! How cruel can you be? Don't put him on blast for something he can't help! You're his wife! Try having his back instead of stabbing him in it! Peace Out!
Well .. 01. It's natural, U can advise him to take Penegra-50 at least 60 minutes b4 U 2 hit the bed, in case he is toooo flat then Penegra-100
02. Make him speak to the Doc at the earliest as it is a part of natural process n nothing to feel shy about
03. In case he is a smoker ask him to quit immideately.
04. Anything beyond this refer to answer no.2 :)
watch a bluefilm tegether .sleep away from kids ( or ask him to take leave when kids are away and have fun during day time).
engage in good foreplay. learn to satisfy yourself. play safe in whatever you do.
Ask him to give you an orgasm (either orally or manually) before you have intercourse. That way, you both climax even if he doesn't last very long.
...now the worst sex! Well shame the devil and tell the truth! Very funny, sister... I dont know WHAT to tell you....
the best think is to take a break out of it...Dont do it on a daily basis..i f required for for a long vacation ...teh best thing wud be doing it on a week end or holiday it wud be more fun :))))
Your husband may be physically tired and this happens to many men. If possible, try a week-end at a resort place and not necessarily an expensive one. The idea of being away from home with no chores to attend to could be a help. If you leave the place sexually unsatisfied, have him see a doctor and watch him say '; welcome Viagra ';
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