Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?

i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.


there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.


as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things


tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
You could bring it up to him, just don't press the subject to hard, or you'll end up getting the opposite affect of what you wanted.


I'd say bring up the subject, and then let him come around on his own time.


For all you know, it could be just a matter of money, for a ring, the wedding, honeymoon, etc.


Kind of sounds like you might be thinking to deeply about it.


No need to rush into it.


Those of us that come from divorced families are very reluctant to get married to, so that could be a factor also.


Just be patient.......good things come to those who wait.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
just ask if your getting married or not. yea it's blunt but it will get the job done. tell him that you don't want to push him but would like to know when he's ready because weeding take time to plan plus your not getting any younger(no offense). but explain what you've explained here and tell him that you love him enough to wait, but that you want to be a real family with him and your son and any other children that may come along.
i'm sure he loves you but i think that having a son may have put pressure on him to propose to you and maybe he wasnt ready, and maybe he's not bringing it up because he's scared of committment, just talk to him if he loves you he'll listen and understand good luck
Marriage is just a piece of paper it is really all about the way the two of you feel about each other when hes ready you'll know no need to rush hes already asked you right? so you know he loves you so just be patient all good things come to those who wait.
if he truely loves you then he should be foward with you, as you with him.





just as you have overcome many obstacles so shall you overcome this be it with or without him


love shouldn't leave over a presistant question if so then how deep and strong was love really???
I think you need to tell him what you just wrote here and then give him time to make a decision and tell you what he wants.
Just ask him if he was serious about his proposal; he may say that he didn't mean it, but then you'll know where you stand.
I'd simply say ';so should I open wedding account at the bank?'; or leave a book with a bunch of rings on it %26amp; circle the one you like. He'll bring it up.
just say


';u know...i would really like to start raising a family with you and my son. what do you think?';