Sunday, December 27, 2009

Should I bother with him anymore? Guys and Girls advice welcome?

I had two dates with him. The last one was on Tuesday. I texted him yesterday (Thursday), just a casual text asking about a meeting he had and to know how he was.


I am waiting for him to reply. He said Tuesday after our date that he will give me a call so we can hang out on Saturday. Should I have waited for him to get in touch with me instead of me texting him again? Do you think he is playing the 3 days rule?Should I bother with him anymore? Guys and Girls advice welcome?
I wouldn't bother with him.





I don't think that you should have waited for him to contact you - if you wanted to text, then you should have felt free to do so.





But, if he hasn't contacted you back yet then that's a problem. First, I don't believe in the three-day rule because I think that by the time you get around to contacting someone, the excitement has gone - it's more exciting if you contact him sooner.





Second, he mentioned hanging out on Saturday - tomorrow - but has not yet contacted you to make definite plans. This could mean that he's waiting to see if a better offer arises before he makes definite plans. Even if that's not the case, it's rude expecting you to keep the full day free without definite plans.





So, I personally think it sounds like he's not particularly interested - but don't let me put you off if he does ask you out again!Should I bother with him anymore? Guys and Girls advice welcome?
i think he might be with that 3 day rule. i could be wrong but you can try to text him or call him once more but after that it's all on him if he replys he replys if not then screw em
hiya, i don't think he wants another date, that is why he never answer your text.wait till you hear from him.

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