Thursday, December 31, 2009

Advice on shy guys ? please?

to talk to him??


i don't think he is talkative, so what should i do to make our conversation last?Advice on shy guys ? please?
Be the one to ask him questions. Make him know, subtlety, you're comfortable with his quietness. Something along the line of, ';haha, I like the way you talk, I hate loud and obnoxious guys';. Gives him little compliment, or better yet, body contact like a casual friend. Laugh at what he says. If he talks about some more serious stuff (as shy guys are more sentimental), make yourself look like you are interested or can relate to him, so he'll have confidence to talk more.Advice on shy guys ? please?
well im a shy guy myself, and well it usually takes time for me to have a ';real'; conversation with sum1 cuz thats when i feel comfotable.





So I say do it little by little, just say hi at first and then ask small questions until he starts to feel comfortable with u.
just ask him questions, people like to talk about themselves. if you talk too much, guys don't like that either...but don't under-do-it, just act naturally. if he is too quiet, then you are not the girl for him and vice-versa!
Try to find out some things he's interested in and talk to him. I am very shy and it takes some effort to get to us shy folk. If he sees you're interested he'll open up. Good luck!
I'm shy n quiet myself.. I believes that u don't have to be talkative to make him comfortable, sometime people can juz sit together for hours without talking then feel like having the best time ever..
Talk about something he's interested in, make him comftorable.
ask for his phone number, then text or email each other until he feels comfortable enough to talk with you
if he is shy talk to him like in a calm way like hi im alyssa and i want to be your friend and go from there
try to find out what kind of music he likes hobbies and try to be friendly whit him and sweet

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