Just some advice with the guys please!?

There's this boy. We text all day long and we watch movies and cuddle together. We even stay the night with each other. There is really nothing sexual going on.. we kinda just kiss and fool around. He tells me he likes me and loves my personality and thinks i'm very attractive but that a relationship wouldn't work right now because he doesn't want to get hurt or hurt anyone else. I understand this because we were both just recently cheated on. I just wanna know where this is going.. so if anyone could give me some advice!Just some advice with the guys please!?
Give each other time. Things will eventually get better once each other knows how one another is and that mayB is time to give it a try. Good Luck and God Bless U.Just some advice with the guys please!?
He wants to make sure you really do like him.
just give it time. keep this relationship you have with him going. and just give it time.
It sounds like you both like each other a lot. If I were you, I'd make the first move sexually.
Where is this going? Its going straight to the bedroom. ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh snap..
well if u both just got cheated on, take things slow.
all i can say is don't give your hopes up on this boi
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?


Meaning, as long as he can cuddle/kiss on you all he wants, and hang out with you with no strings attached, he is NOT going to go for a steady relationship with you.


So if you want this to go anywhere besides the ';friends with benefits zone,'; you need to tell him that you two will just be friends, and you won't do anything else without commitment. It won't take long for him to cowboy up and be with you. And if he doesn't, then you'll know for sure that he just wanted to cuddle with you for funsies.
stay with him! i had this with my last girlfriend eventually you guys will trust each other enough to the point where you can have a relationship because all it takes is trust build it up and it will work out in the end





-Zanerz-
He needs time and some space to think on what he wants. He also might want a little break from relationships and just have a booty call.
he is using you...he does not want to be in a relationship because he is playing an open field...don't trust guys, if he would really like u, like he is saying, it should not matter if was cheated on, he should see u as a nice girl and trusted...i would give it lil bit more time, to see how things will go, but if he will still act that way, u shouldn't waist ur time, coz soon or later u will be just next passing by train, or worst if u develop feelings, he will just find someone else, and stay friends with u, and we all know how that hurts, good luck!
He doesn't want a relationship and he just wants to ';fool around';





Looks like he's on the rebound. Since he was recently cheated, he might be looking for something casual. If all you do is kiss and hug its just physical and he's making that clear from the beginning. He might make sexual advances in the future so beware.
Looks like you have a steady relationship, good for you!
GIving it time is a good but dont fall asleep


( what i mean is ';dont over do it';)
He wants to be your f*** buddy that's it
no matter wut he tells u he wants you. its gonna happen trust me
this relationship has potential to grow into something really special for sure. But it could also turn into a **** buddy situation. depends on how much effort the both of you put into it
This boy sounds like a rapist who is trying to lull you into a false sense of security so he can sexually assault you.





I suggest you call the local police immediately and tell them exactly what is going on.





This is not something to joke around about.
if you want a relationship then talk to him! thats the only way your going to get it.