Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?

i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.


there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.


as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things


tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
just talk to him about it......it's not a nagging thing to do


you're basically commited to him and you have a son together...it's time for him to end his selfishness and make a honest woman out of you......just have a heart to heart talk about it....





DO NOT!!! I repeat DO NOT play any stupid games or hard to get like the others suggest.....that's a quick way to end your relationship....I don't think you want that before you've tried your hardest to make your relationship work...and for the sake of your family...Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
Play hard to get for a while





SC
Yeah, play hard to get. Make him work for the nookie. Make him feel like being with you is a privilege, not a right. Take control! Once he feels you cooling off to him, he'll start trying to get you to act all mushy again. Don't fall for it. Don't be a ***** either, but it's okay if he needs to play a little theater to get your attention instead of simply pushing you over and doing what he wants.





Who is he chatting with? Maybe you should get some chat friends of your own? :)


Make him feel that it's not wise to let you hang tooooo long, without coming right out and saying it. Gotta be careful though. Some guys like to have all the freedom but get super jealous (even violent) if you start acting like they do. BUT - if he's like that, perhaps it's better if it doesn't work out.





Not all guys take forever either. I was set on marrying my wife and it happened quick ;-) I wasn't about to let another guy potentially move in on her.