Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?

i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.


there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.


as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things


tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
It sounds as though your boyfriend/fiance` is stalling. In his mind he is thinking that he has what he wants right now, so why change things? He may even tell you that he doesn't need a piece of paper to say that you two are together and that he loves you.





The thing is, if he truly loves you and wants to spend his life with you in it, then he should be willing to make that commitment to marriage. He probably made the proposal 9 months ago because you brought the marriage question up, so it was his way of temporarily satisfying you. You mention that he hasn't given you a ring yet, so I bet that will be his next move to satisfy you for a little longer.





If marriage is what you truly desire, then talk to him and let him know how you feel. Set a date for the marriage to take place...give him some time to think about what he wants in his life. A word of caution though; be prepared to follow through with your plan of leaving though if he doesn't make a commitment, otherwise things will never change.





He may be taking you for granted, and is figuring that you won't leave, so it might have to take you leaving for him to figure out what a good thing he had. If he really loves you, then he'll want to make the commitment to you...and if he doesn't make an effort to follow through, then you need to ask yourself if you think you deserve more in your relationship.Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
well i think you should just be patient and wait. you wouldnt want him to propose to you because he feels pressured you want him to do it cuz he WANTS to marry you.





can you please help me?


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sounds like he got what he wanted. guys sometimes will say anything to get sex.