So there is this guy lol... Please help girls and guys I need advice bad! haha?

So uh... I have known said person for a year now... lets name him ';Tom';. His real name isn't really tom but just am going to use it to tell the story. Ok so I have known Tom for a year now and i have done nothing but try and try and never give up to get him. I am very strong willed so we hung out this summer and now are really close. We both like each other but at times i think i like him more than he does me. This makes me nervous because i was the one to like him first and it feels like he never really had to ';try'; to get me or ';want'; me. He had a gf when we first started liking each other and he was attracted to me and as any teen boy thinks with his penis lol i had to say it cause its true. We have made out and hung out quite a bit and are really close but i feel like we are fading because i am usually the one that texts him first. And whenever i try to talk to him txting he never sems like he wants to talk to me. We have done 2 week long periods where we wern't friends because i feel he just doesn't care and yet when i ask him he says he does.





I guess the real question is.. Should i keep trying to get him (because we are so close to being together but it is now basketball season and he says that his life revolves around basketball and doesn't want a girlfriend because he thinks we will fight to much. I beleive him but can't wait until the spring because he is a senior and we woulnd't be together very long) WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? Thanks if you can help :]]So there is this guy lol... Please help girls and guys I need advice bad! haha?
Go with the flow. Do what you think is right. I suggest sticking around, but not trying as hard. You don't know what you have until its gone. And that is SO true. If he likes you, the lack of seeing you will make him realize he likes you and he will try to be with you. Its never really a good idea to kind of force a guy into a relationship. So there is nothing you can do but give him some space. Do go to his games and cheer for him. I'm sure that would mean a lot. And if it doesn't work out... guess what... there are plenty of men still out there. You're young and you still have a lot to go through.So there is this guy lol... Please help girls and guys I need advice bad! haha?
See, you already know the answer to your question. I know it's hard, but he's just not 100 percent into you. Distance yourself, and if he comes around he will know what he missed. A year, and still hasn't taken your friendship/relationship to another level. It's time to leave him alone.
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Why should you do all the work? Lol just tell him that you're sick of the one who always ';trys'; and if he wants to be with you he has to put some effort in or it's a no go.
Sounds like he's using you. If you made out with him and he hasn't asked you out then he doesn't respect you and you're going to regret it unless you want some guy just using your body.
cut and run








he wants you as a f-buddy or possibly as plan b





nither of which you want to be, so cut and run
To me he doesn't sound like the best person the have as a boyfriend. It sounds to me like he's not that interested.
yes but realize you're a fool if you do
if you want to go out with him learn his real name