Thursday, December 31, 2009

How to let guys down gently? Any advice?

There's this sweet guy at my school and he really likes and always talks to me and checks me out but I already have a bf...





How should I let him down??


My friend told me to kick him in the nuts lol.. but I dont think thats necessary..


How should I do it?How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
YOU DONT!!! NEVER DENY THEM A SINGLE THING!How to let guys down gently? Any advice?
Just tell him you have a bf. That is the least offensive %26amp; it's true so you don't have to lie.


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Just keep ignoring him. He'll get the message someday
introduce him to your boyfriend
your boy frind is fulish to love you.
Listen to the song 100 ways to leave your lover and pick one.
Behave diplomatically, but don't get too close to him.





Over time, when he sees you are not interested in him, but yet remain respectful, he will pull out diplomatically. In fact, he may realise you are such a nice person and he may not want to hurt you further.





But if you ';kick him in the nuts';, he will feel hurt. He may come back with a vengeance.





I should know. I used to like some people. Initially I was quite confused as to whether they like me or not. But later I realised they don't like me but still treat me as a friend.





So to be fair and upright, I just step aside. In fact, today I am happy for them.
Ask if he likes you and not just being perverted and just a friend.If he does like you tell him straight.....we do not like those pity letdowns ...take him aside ask..tell...let it be over with.If you dont he might become a little ';Fatal Attraction'; on you.^_^ hope i helped
Just tell him you have a boyfriend. If he still wants to be your friend than there is no halm in that:?
Tell him you just..don't like him.
Just clarify that u have a bf, but u can always be friends? (if u says he's sweet) ^^
Tell him you have a boyfriend and you don't cheat.
well sweetie, you can try just talking things out and explaining how you have a bf and arent attracted to him that way and pray he takes a hint and changes his approch. i know that those subjects arent easy to talk about, let alone bring them up yourself but if you like him like i think you do and dont want him to get hurt then you owe him that much, so sit him down and try to set him straight and pray he can accept that. in my life ive had a few guys who just wouldnt accept that i wasnt into them like they were into me. that does happen and alot of times theres not much you can do but eventually get mean, but if the guy who has a crush on you has any sense he'll listen to your words and will accept being your friend is lot better than losing you forever. thats the approch i tend to use and that seems to work the best. i hope this helps.
dont show any interests for him


-avoid eye to eye contact with him when u feel he's approaching


-talk about ur bf
if he asks you to do something or hes talking to you in the hall and stuff just say ';i gotta go meet my boyfriend. ttyl';


then avoid him for a while, then just be friends again
talk bout ur bf..





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thats always a turn off
I think you should just mention your boyfriend a lot when talking to him, and act like its nothing at all. And he will get the message, don't avoid him, or ignore him that's really rude, and guys spread word about that stuff
There's no good way to reject someone, but being straight to the point even though its uncomfortable for you will hurt him less in the long run. No one wants to be lied to or led on. Tell him you appreciate his friendship but that you are commited to the relationship you are in so it will never be more than friendship with him.
your friend was right!.... kick him in the mid-section
Just say so.........simple
Just dont say anything to him. But if he makes a move on you then all you have to say im very sorry but i have a boyfriend. Then if you want to say somthing else you could say, can we still be friends??
just tell him about yore bf .?stop being a PT.
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