Why does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?

i'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy who loves me dearly. however we have been through the worst and best times. but we made it. right now i'm waitin to see if he is goin to marry me because he proposed sometime back when i gave birth to his son and has not yet givin me a date nor a ring.


there are little things though that i may be reading too much into like him chattin with certain ppl however i dont want to make too much of it. what you think i should do i DONT want to nag i want to remain cool becuasei know he loves me. but u know we women can be impatient.


as a guy what do you recommend i do? should i just leave him let him come around on his own timing. stop naggin or bring u things


tell me as guys what you all would like from a woman in my position. its been 9 month since he proposed and 3 yrs since we have been together. or was it just his sonWhy does it take so long guys!!!!!!!!! need your advice?
1. Don't get pregnant again!





How old are you both? (Most) Guys under 25 or 30 are not really interested in a long term committed relationship.





At some point you are going to have to decide what is important to you. If the situation as it exists today is what you want then do nothing. If you really want him to marry you, you are going to have to decide that you accept the fact that he may very well just leave you. If you decide that then call him to the carpet. Make him set a date for marriage and then make him follow through.





Be very prepared that if you call him out that he is going to bolt.





You can just dump him out of your life. He will likely come back begging and be better for a while. But then it's going to get worse again, and you still won't be married.