There is this girl in my class that I'm crazy about, and it's already the end of the class so I will see her only once again. I'm really crazy about her and that slams the brakes in my brain so I just freeze. Please tell me if there is good approach, she is shy. Please I only have one more chance I won't forgive myself.Girls %26amp; Guys give me some advice?
Since she is shy, just talk to her for a bit and let her open up to you. Don't walk up to her and immediately tell her that you're so crazy about her, let her loosen up and lose some of her shyness towards you. Shy girls like to get to know someone first-I would know, i'm shy myself. But since you only have one more time to see her, talk for a bit, and then tell her in a way that flows from the conversation. We tend to dislike abrupt guys, and like guys who acknowledge shyness and try to ease some of it with conversation, smiles, and laughter. Good Luck and it's nice to (sort of) meet a guy who shows his feelings. : )Girls %26amp; Guys give me some advice?
Ok, I got it man. Drop all the one liners you've been struggling with. I'm a shy person too, but the way to overcome this is to just be yourself, don't try and impress her. Just go up to her and ask her if she'd like to go get a cup of coffee with you. Maybe at a nearby Hastings or something. You two can talk about the class that just passed or the new semester coming up. Also after, maybe she'd be willing to go out to eat so that you can enjoy some food together. After, try going to a movie, preferably a comedy so that you can see what she likes to laugh at. This, my friend, is how you win a girls heart, spend time with her. Trust me, you'll be on the path to a great relationship.
I've been there in college man. Make sure you talk to her, like you said, if you don't you will regret it. Just be friendly to her, and simply ask her if she would be interested in doing something sometime like maybe getting a drink at a bar somewhere or dinner. Don't do movies because thats a great way to take a girl out and NOT talk to them and get nowhere.
you should totally go for it. just tell her how you feel. you can never go wrong with raw emotion. just don't tell her she's hot or you want to do her or anything stupid like that b/c its a turn off.
just be confident and sweet and you'll totally get her.
if she shy don't corner her THAT IT THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO now try to get to know her but not in a creepy way that she knows you want something more than a friendship (remember GIRLS ARE VERY SMART THEY CAN PICK UP ON A FORCED CONVERSATION AND WHEN A GUY IS JUST BEING HER FRIEND IN ORDER TO BECOME MORE THAN THAT)
I say go for it if you think its a relationship thats gona last long. I had a guy ask me out about two weeks ago and he was my really good friend. I was really crazy bout him but he just broke up with me. It ended both our us together and our friendship so i regret it. So if you think of her only romantically i say ask her out!
Well, you could just approach her casually and say some thing like ';Oh, I know we don't know each other, but would you like to have coffee'; or whatever just make sure your calm and casual you don't want to scare her or anything.
Good luck.
She's shy? Well don't do anything to big or that might embarrass her. Try writing her a note to meet you somewhere afterschool so you can talk to her. Kinda hint that you like her in the note: that way she might get kinda excited to see you if she likes you too =)
at the end of this last class, approach her and say hello. Introduce yourself, if you haven't already. Ask how she's doing. Then ask if she would like to go get a cup of coffee or ice cream.
alright if you think its complex then your gonna screw up....go up to her and say hi....then ask her a regular question if you guys talk for 5 min shes your type...if she talks to you for 1 min....find someone else cause shes not worth your time
Grow a set of balls and just talk to her.....In the time it took you to ask this question, you could have asked her out, coffee, movie, something.
simply walk up and tell her how you feel. If she feels the same then great, if she isn't interested then at least you know but if you don't tell her then nothing will become of it.
You could just walk up to her and say ';i'm so glad this class is done with'; and boom - the ice is broken.
If you are that obsessed about her just ask her point blank. Maybe she'll like the idea of you liking her.
be sensitive and comforting tell her how you feel practice saying the things you want to say so you don't freeze
Just approach her at a good pace and tell her how you feel!!!!!!!!
Just tell her the truth :)
SO romantic :)
talk to her. just act likes friends
dont try to push it too far. the best way to start is slow and then see how she reacts
ooooooo a tuffy
write her a note or be brave and go talk to her!! you will regret it if you dont so just do it!!
tell ehr youve like here for a long time
take a deep breath and do it!
who cares what she thinks if it goes bad?
i second what tanner said
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