I like this guy, but he has a really high paying career, makes six figures and is only 22. I heard he thinks I'm hot but he hasn't made any moves, yet. I heard he thinks a girl should tell him she likes him. But I'm too shy to do that. Plus, the last time I told a guy I liked him he hurt me big time. I feel stupid because I am in college and don't have a lot of money. He has a couple luxury cars, and I was told he dates cute little blond girls. Well, here's the thing - I'm a brunette and am 5'8';, even though I'm slender, I'm tall, so I'm not little, not blond, and not rich. Do you think he's not making a move on me because I'm not his type? I feel so sad b/c he's so cute and I haven't had a boyfriend in years. How do I become good enough to date someone so awesome? I'm so shy, so seriously shy. People say I'm pretty, so why don't I have a boyfriend? I do jazz dance, yoga, run, hike, and love animals. I'm not demanding. How can I get this guy to ask me out?I'm so inexperienced with guys, please give advice?
Well one thing, Don't dye your hair blonde that's for sure.
Be yourself. Don't change over a guy PLEASE! This happens alot and it's probably not the best way to go. Start talking to him more, make a conversation. When you guys become FRIENDS, go out to dinner or something.I'm so inexperienced with guys, please give advice?
ask him if he wants to go out for a few drinks.
Don't feel like that, don't even think of things like that. There is nothing wrong with you, just because you are not rich doesn't mean he doesn't like you. He probably is waiting for the right time. Or maybe he doesn't think of you the way you think he does. If he expects a girl to say she likes him first. Well, he's got A BIG PROBLEM!!!! Don;t stoop so low because you want his attention. Wait until the right time. The one that truly is meant for you and you for him would come and would not think of you as poor or anything of that sort, he would love you for who you are and not what you are. Just forget about the guy.
Sorry my answer is so long.
One thing you said how do you become good enough to date someone... well don;t change yourself for anyone. They should like you for who you are. Also money, cars, etc isn't everything. I don't have much money either buy my girl her dad makes a lot of money and they live in this nice *** house and just all this crap and I never thought she would want to be with someone like me, but look, we're together and have an amazing relationship. Why don't you ask him to hang out sometime and just flirt and see where things go from there. Just cause you don't have as much money as him and all that doesn't mean he wouldn't be interested in you.
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