Friday, January 8, 2010

I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?

Ok so im in a long distance relationship..... and he told me his ex gf came over last night because she wanted to hang out.... she hung out with his Little sister and him... so is wrong that im a little jealous and should i be concerned about this...


Ok no they arent friend he hasnt talked to her in a while that i no of and it his ex you know so im just like what do i do....


OK so he said she is also coming over fri.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
I'm in a ldr too and if I was in this situation I would be concerned. Of all people to hang out with an ex shouldn't be one of them. Even if you do trust him whole hearted it's still something you don't do. His ex can hang with his sister all she wants but hanging with him is not cool. They aren't even really friends and don't talk so why all of a sudden the change of heart to be ';buds, pals';? He wouldn't like it at all if you hung out with your ex, let alone twice in a week at your own house. This is a big no no and I would tell him to put the shoe on the other foot and try to see things from your eyes. If he fights you about this then say hey I'm going to call (insert ex bf's name here) and see if maybe he would like to hang out this friday. I'm sure he wouldn't like that. You don't have to like him hanging out with her and you have every right to ask him not to. He should respect that because it's just weird, especially if you do not know her.I have a question for you girls... or guys with good advice ?
you should be concerned cuz every good girlfriend should be concerned. but you should also have trust in you boyfriend especially sine it is a long distance relationship.

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