Why is he denying everything why doesnt he just be up front with me? Guys and girls advice please?

I dated this guy for almost 2 years and there was no commitment because he told me he wasnt ready. So he started talkin to this girl on myspace so i told him if you start talkin to her on the phone you can forget about me. So I found out he was talkin to her on the phone and told him you made your descion so you can forget about me. He was like oh your gonna feel like an idiot in the end when you see im not getting with her. So its been almost 2 months of not spekaing. I saw the ohter day pics of him and this girl making out but he doenst know i saw them. Two nights ago we spoke on line for the first time and i mentioned the girl asking how are things with you and that girl hes like nothing i havent hung out with her. I was like you dont need to lie i know you hang out with her im okay with it. I'll be happy for you if you met a girl you like. He just keeps saying i keep telling you im not dating her im like ok well hooking up with her what ever it is but no need to lie. Me and him are over and why does he keep denying it? Oh and i told him i wouldnt be hurt by it and i really wont because i basically knew it was going to happen.Why is he denying everything why doesnt he just be up front with me? Guys and girls advice please?
Because he is a liar and he is hoping to get into your pants again. Why don't you just tell him you saw the pictures already? Why are you talking to a liar and cheater? You deserve better so move on!Why is he denying everything why doesnt he just be up front with me? Guys and girls advice please?
It sounds like he's just a liar. If you don't really care about this guy, and aren't hurt by his actions, why does it matter if he lies? He doesn't sound like he's worth the bother.
Maybe he likes you and wants to keep you on the back burner while he plays around. Good for you for moving on. xox
people can just be like that


good thing you are not with him anymore!
When someone lies, they have the subconscious desire to keep the lie going (because they don't want to look like a liar). This sometimes involves making new lies and having a tangled web of lies.





He probably just wants you to think that his intentions while he was dating you were pure (even though they weren't, and good for you for picking up on that).





If you want to be friends with him that is fine, just don't even worry about the girl he will probably never tell you and 'take it to the grave'. That is just how some people are :S
If you and him are over then you should stop fussing about his new girlfriend.





You are wasting time about this. He has already moved on but doesn't want to ';hurt'; you so it trying to avoid that by denying everything. That does say something about him - he cares about your feelings. Not that he wants to be with you but that he cares.





Let him go and get on with your life. You will find someone who wants to be with you once you are able to move forward.