Wednesday, April 28, 2010

I need advice on holding a guys hand?

i want to hold this guys hand but i want a reason to grab it and i know its kinda stupid but whats a reason to grab his handI need advice on holding a guys hand?
be like ';omg your hand are really big'; and put your hand to his to compare and then lock the fingers and you will be holding hands. lol. good luck!








ps:our person has the same hair :) lolI need advice on holding a guys hand?
. Try not to hold hands with someone you like when you are freezing, because cold hands can be a MAJOR turn-off.


鈥se the ';my hands are so cold'; line if you have the problem above. It will give you more of a reason to hold their hand.


鈥f you and the other person have already had some experience holding hands together, it's a good idea to keep repeating the process and letting each other know when you want to have your hand held.


鈥ou can also ask her whether you can hold her hands or not.(it works in real relationships).


鈥ake sure to keep your hands soft. Apply a hand lotion daily, but not right before holding hands because it can often come off as clammy or cold.


鈥ou can also try the finger trick which I found out. Though this only works if you are sitting down like on a couch or in a movie. Put your finger away from the arm rest if the chair has one. Make sure your whole hand is under. If your partners is too just try and movie your hand or finger next to them. Make sure they touch and then soon your partner will get the idea and hold your hand for real.
Go for the Not-Really-Sneaky Sneak Attack. Tell him to Look Over There! When he does, just grab it. When he looks back, don't say anything, just smile sweetly (or mysteriously, or cutely, however you smile the best). He'll think it's silly, and maybe a little dumb, but he'll laugh and he'll be in a good mood - if you do that enough, he'll associate that feel good feeling from laughter with holding your hand, and want to hold it more.
Its corny, but give it a try. If he wears any rings, say ';Wow thats a cool ring';, and then grab his hand and start looking at the ring. Then, just sort of don't let go. Again, its lame, but it works and there is your excuse. If no ring, then start playing around like bumping your hand with his. let the bumps get more and more frequent and longer, basically just playing around with his hand. You have to ease into it, and it has to be the right timing, but thats a different question.....
say ';start talking about how hot/cold you are and then be like no no feel how hot/cold my hands are'; %26lt;-- some guy said that to me n it was really awkward cuz it was like i was holding his hand lol. OR be like ';haha look how big your hands are compared to mine'; %26amp; when you guys put your hands together just grab his hand.
pretend that hes trying to grope u and be like 'keep your hands to your self!!'; and grab his hands then call the police and help them hand cuff him by grabbing his hands





when they take him to the police station for finger printing hold his hand down in the ink





and when hes in jail getting raped in the showers again hold his arms and hands down
Wait are you two going out? Like when you walk side by side you want to hold his hand? Just 'accidently' knock your hand into his a few times and gradually it will feel right, and you will hold eachothers hands....





If your not going out and you just wan to hold his hand be like ';My hands are cold, are yours?'; And bam.
Who says you need a reason? Just do it! Not like immediately or anything. Just like if your walking with him or something then casually slip your hand into his. If he pulls away, just keep walking and talking like you didn't notice and try again another time. If he holds your hand back, then great!
there is really no reason. but try to make a joke and grab hi hand and then


if there is chemistry you would stay with his hand, or just try to be romantic and take his hand and kiss him(the hand) and start humming a song and stay grabbing his hand. take care
Watch a scary movie-that's a good reason to grab his hand. :) Or if you guys are sitting together, just slide your hand into his, make it easy and not awkard. Just make sure your hands are clean, soft and warm (that means no greasy popcorn at the movie)
Your reason is that you like him. Just grab his hand and hold it. It may be kind of awkward trying to grab his hand, but you know that he wants to hold your hand as well. He is probably trying to find out a way to hold your hand too.
if he wants to grab your hand, than he will grab yours so don't try to grab his unless he tries to but if you still want to grab his hand than lets just say u see ur favorite something that no one knows its your favorite than grab his hand than say ';OMg that's my favorite whatever'; I think that should work
gurl, u dnt have to have a reason to hold his hand. me personally i love holding ma homeboys hand. i dont think theres nun wrong with that. or if u like the guy then shoot! dats a reason to do it, bt make sure the guy feel the same way u do, so u wont look stupid.
you dont have to have a reason. if youwant to hold his his hand then show him that you like him and do it.
If your laughing (crakin up) grab his arm and slide down to his hand and most likely he'll probly grab yours
Watch a scary movie together and when a scary part comes up scream a little and grab his hand. If he doesn't mind keep it there, but if he freaks out just laugh and be like oops.
just do it. He'll be impressed that you took the initiative! Don't use gimmicks like ';my hands are cold'; or whatever. They are so transparent and in my opinion tacky.
hmm if your walking around in a mall or somthing pretend to see somthing in a shop that you must look at lol or somthing and grab his hand and lead the way
Maybe tell him you're cold and need to hold his arm? Then you can kinda snuggle up to him.
You don't need a reason. Just grab his hand. Or hold out yours and hope he takes the hint.
Just grab his hand and smile at him. And then if he pulls his hand away don't fight him. Just let him.
just grab his hand and play around with it and then gently slide yours into his and leave it
dont grab his hand grab his b a l l s.
I think you should the man grab your hand. Now that romance to me you see what I mean.
This one girl said '; i hold hands with all my friends';, it worked good on me!
does he do anything stupid that u say annoys u? cuz wen my bf would act like he was air guitaring i would grab his hand to ';stop'; him.
you could say that your hands are hold and ask him if you could hold his hand :)





Good luck
i am a guy- and when girls grab my hands or i grab theirs. there is nothing but a simple smile- so take his hand and smile at him- good luck if u didnt do it already
Just go for it. You don't really need reason. He'll be okay with it unless he doesn't like you.
just ask to hold his hand or just grab it.
Lol. You don't need a reason! Just grab it!

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