Friday, April 30, 2010

Guys, I need your advice?

If you like a guy, is it okay to flirt with him every time he gets on Facebook, to let him know I am interested, or should I keep my cool and be more of a challenge? I know some girls who were aggressive flirters and got their man. Everytime I facebook chat him, should I flirt with him, dont guys say they love to be flirted with? Or should I not?Guys, I need your advice?
Yes flirt but tactfully and don't over do it. We like to get flirted with but becoming obsessive makes us wonder if you will flirt with other guys all the time too. Make it feel like he is special and that you only flirt with him. You could also put subtle hints on your facebook that you really like him. Is he your favorite friend if they have that on facebook? If you have been together in person do you have a picture of the two of you that you can put up in your profile? Actions help prove your words.Guys, I need your advice?
flirt with him so his intrigued and thinks your fun. but kind of only do it when your in a convo and the occasional message of how r u going this will make him like you. but don't be clingy or keep sending to many messages if your not in a convo, he'll get repelled. don't act like your a challenge because that will give him the idea that you don't like him and he will end up not liking you or if he already likes you he'll just stay quite wont open up and wont make a move.
Flirt with him, but don't over do it. Keep him wanting more of you ;)








You got it in the bag girl.... don't even stress!
Oh good god get past the constant non-verbal contact already buhjeezus. I think we as a people can do better than Facebook/Myspace/texting all the time. We need to progress. Isn't that the point of being an innovative society?





Well, in any case you should indeed flirt with said guy whenever you get the chance... and make sure he actually picks up on the signs that you are giving him
LOL i used to talk to my bf everytime he was on facebook ;)


Use things he likes to get his attention. For example, my bf owns a motorbike, i hinted that i liked bikes and like being on the back of them. So, then he asked me if i wanted to go for a ride. been together 7 months now. lol Go ahead, FLIRT!! not to much though.. just enough so he see's you are interested. Any nice profile pic's he has, leave a comment ;) good luck
play hot and cold so he is more interested making him confuse and more wanting to know about you
this is a common mistake with women and men. they never cut to the chase. i stayed up all night talking to one girl about some stuff. and i found out 5 days later she wanted to go on a date with me. damn too late, i was seeing somebody. and then i was on there talking to some girl i liked who kept talking with and i took too long to pull the trigger on that. ive know the girl forever so i kind of stung a little bit to let that one go. Cause man she was fine! but if you like somebody just say it. who cares, what do you got to lose? all you have is something to gain. nobody is going to get mad at you cause you tried.





most of the time if you establish you are interested and back off and talk to some other people in the process, the person will usually come around and give you a chance. dont waste peoples time on facebook flirting about stupid stuff. same goes for texting.





the lady who mentioned leave some nice comments on pictures is correct. Men like that.
i love to be flirted with so keep it up.
well i am a guy i am 22 and i think it is fine flirting and yes guys liked to be flirted with
flirt with him but not excessively. once you start flirting, hell get the hint.
Love is a very respectable relationship. If you are interested in a guy, you should be flirt with him. To be flirt with the guy leaves an everlasting impression on the mind of your friend, that you are a flirt and not a serious friend. I think you will understand the whole situation. Good Luck.
depending on the guy is how he will react to ur flirting ... every player loves to to chase at first to not hurt his ego quite kids love it becuz its not the norm he always gets flirted with but it deff wont hurt unless its a random guy and hes weirded out from it but it seems like u guys got a good connection so i dont see why it wouldnt benefit from you
you should let him know that your interested but dont make it seem like oH im all yours when YOU decide you want me. give him his space and dont talk to him every single time you get the chance, they will start feeling like they have you readily, which i dont think girls like to feel. wouldnt u like to feel that you were worked for and won over? im saying this in the most respectful way possibly.
Flirt away :) But I mean don't throw yourself at him. That's not attractive, but make it obvious you like him. Personally, I flirt a lot, but I make it clear that I'm not hung up on him and I make them think they have to work for it.
I would flirt with him, but not every time he鈥檚 on Facebook. If you flirt with him too much or go way overboard on the flirting you could come off as desperate or clingy. So, definitely flirt, just leave him wanting more.
Well, maybe not EVERY time he gets on Facebook, but keep talking to him.





If you flirt with guys that often, they tend to get used to it and like it, but if you stop doing it so frequently, they'll often try to coax it out of you. If he's doing this, consider it him flirting with you and flirt back.





Just don't crowd him too much. Then you'll just seem like some crazy chick bent on screwing him, getting pregnant, and forcing him into a painful, unwanted relationship that he will always regret. He may even become suicidal...so don't do that.
Do what is right if you like him then go ahead but if you want to get to knw him better then keep your cool
Flirt wit him, but not too much so he comes back for more and starts to become more interested in you ...
It's true that guys like to be flirted with, but when it comes to letting him know your interested in him be straight and to the point. I know very few guys that are into playing games, let him know in plain English that you want to get together. If you're honest and straight forward then he will be too.
Flirt with him then he knows that you into him.

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