Sunday, December 20, 2009

HELP!!! GIRLS and GUYS!!! I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Im a 21 yr old male. A 21 yr old girl and I have been dating for two months. After 2 weeks of dating I asked her what she thought about a relationship and she said she gets very scared and its hard for her to open up because she had a bad relationship in the past. Over the next month and a half she would start getting close to me then back away for several days. After two months she actually asked me to make it ';official'; only to back away again after she said she thought about it. I feel she cannot get close to me or trust me because shes not over her last relationship. Every time I can feel her getting close to me emotionally she pulls away. Will she eventually be able to trust me since its only two months? Should I give her more time or move on????HELP!!! GIRLS and GUYS!!! I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Give her time, offer her love and support without being pushy or suffocating. She will come around.HELP!!! GIRLS and GUYS!!! I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
You should give her more time. I know how she feels and it was the same way with my fiance and I. But now we have been together for two years and I trust him with all my heart. Give it time and prove to her that you will make her happy. Good Luck...and be good to that girl! :)
yes give her more time. she will eventually trust you and open up to you
u need to give her more time. like u even said urself its only been 2 months. just give her some more time and if things do get better i say move on.
Give her more time.
give her more time. she'd like that. (it's happened)
What do you feel like doing? It sounds like she has been very honest with you about her feelings. Do you want to stick around and see what will happen? or would you be happier dating a couple of people until you find the person that you want to spend time with and have a long term relationship with? Only you know what will make you happy and there is no way to say if she'll ever change and give you the trust that you are looking for.

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