OK girls and guys need some advice?

Ok ill try to make this short. I got married rly young when i was 17. Only reason i got married was because she got pregnant and i just wanted to be a good father. Wound up joining the military. Fast forward 6 yrs later. Now im 23, we have 2 girls. Came back from deployment and found out that she found someone else. Now we have been seperated for 8 months or so and almost have the divorce finalized. I had a tough time at first but i think im handleing everything ok now but i do need some help in one department. Because i got married so young i missed the big part of my dating life and i am having a real tough time meeting new people. I live just outside of dc but i just dont know where to go to meet nice girls. Alot of people tell me bars but im not rly into the whole bar scene. I know it sounds corny and what not but i just wanna find love and be happy (lol just like everyone else) but i just feel overwhelmed and dont know where to start. lol dont even think i remeber how to pick up girls anymore. I wound apreciate any advice that you could give me. ThnksOK girls and guys need some advice?
First of all, let your friends and family know you are on the lookout for a date. Many have single friends and would love to play matchmaker for you. Try to increase your network of friends and aquaintances by accepting invites to gatherings or inviting friends and colleagues over to yours. Meet people in settings where connections can be made and conversation can flowOK girls and guys need some advice?
You can meet girls everywhere. Join a gym, run in the park, go to the library, grocery store, take a yoga class (us girls love to see a guy taking yoga) if you see an attractive girl smile at her, read the signs, go for it! Dating is like riding a bike! It will all start coming back to you once you have a successful couple tries!
Okay, well if you like sporty girls try the park, or maybe the gym. If you like smart girls, try going to the library. It depends on who you like and what kind of people you want to meet. I wouldn't say internet dating sites--ew, I mean, you never know who you'll meet. But you could, if you wanted to. All depends on you. And sorry if my advice isn't that good.
just start doing things that interest you and look for the girls there....lk do you really want to settle down with a girl who bar hops all the time...probably not so dont look at a bar...but say you enjoy volunteering with the elderly... then you will probably find girls that also enjoy the same thing while you are doing it...if you like spending time at the park with you dog...you will probably find a dog lover...ect
Look well its hard to date guys who are in the military. I just dated one I gave him all my time, my love and just for one stupid lil mistake I did he leave me wonder. But I will tell you go out and try maybe get into college n try n date girls there, is way easier. Well hope you find the nice one for you. But whe you do be mature not inmature please!
Looking for love will drive you crazy. Just spend your time enjoying life and learning about yourself. Take some classes in something that interests you, or join a club, take up a hobby or start volunteering in your community. It is always best to meet someone who shares the same interests as yourself.
Maybe take some time to meet friends, and then worry about dating later, or you can be an ****** (applies to both sexes) and ask friends to set you up
You must have some friends that are girls right? Go and hang out with them and their other friends. Be your natural charming self, and maybe mention that you've been in the military. It may take some time, but get to know a nice girl before you date her and it will work better. You'll be more comfortable. Good luck. C:
aww wow thats somewhut depressing but inspiring that you wanna find some love again. i honestly think you should try dating sites on the internet. my aunt used Eharmony and never would of thought but she found her husband on it. and i agree that the bar isnt the best option, plus its just a place to get layed pretty much. or just have ur friends hook u up on dates. good luck!
well, i think that you could ask people to hang out, at ur work. See wat people are really like outside the work place. also maybe friends can introduce you to any of their simgle friends. get to know them. and the picking up girls part... be urself and don't try to hard. plus, the picking up girls thing should come back. Good luck!!!!!!!!!
Don't be in such a rush to jump back into another relationship asap. Enjoy being single, doing things that you like, spending time with your girls. If it's love you are looking for, you usually find it when you are not looking, but still Living life. Good luck.
i think a bar would be a good place to meet girls, even if you dont drink (which is great). it will be good practice, at least.


Sorry about your divorce


Good Luck
Parties.
Church is a good place to meet girls cause then you know they're good girls =]
dating sites
umm some nice girls would prolly be at college haha
Go out and enjoy life and the girls will come easy . keep your head up
go to the gym........ join something u like
if they don't want you that's their problem im sure your handsome
First off, congrats on letting that heifer go out to pasture. Cheating on a spouse it totally unacceptable.


17 to 23. Trust me, you haven't missed much. Take it some a 36 year old; your best dating days are coming.


You want to find love and be happy? Don't worry, you will. Believe me, you will.


Bars and picking up girls. Screw all that! Listen, continue to be the great man that you are and the good quality women that will enrich your life, and love you and make you happy will be beside you in a wonderful healthy loving relationship quicker then you know it.


God bless you, your children, our great country, and the bright and incredible future that awaits you.


It was an honor to answer this question for you.


Good luck.
If you have guy-friends, this makes it a lot easier.





When I'm lonely and don't have companionship, I always like to go out with ';the guys'; - this usually leads to having more confidence to speak to girls, because you want to be the big guy.





It's real nice if one of your friends is dating someone. Ask him to hook you up on a double date. Doesn't even have to be a date. If his girl's friend happens to be with you, take the time to get to know her. Usually, I'll try to have a conversation about the friend and his girlfriend. Odds are, she's probably in the same situation as you - why else would she come along as a third wheel?





Bars are only good if you want one night stands. This is the case 99% of the time. The best times you can meet someone are at casual events, such as the movies with a friend, or the situation I listed above.





All-in-all, I find the easiest way is to rely on your friends. Guys know what ';hot'; is, and unless your friend is a complete jackass, I don't think he would set you up with someone that he knew you wouldn't be attracted to.
dude, don't go to bars. However, maybe since it IS new to you, TRY it at least a couple times. I only say this because at bars, it's SO much easier to strike up conversation or lock eyes with someone there rather than...say, randomly talking to a woman at Walmart, or someone rushing to work.





I recomend trying the bar scene just so you feel more comfortable approaching women, not to actually pick up those women (unless you do actually find a nice girl) :P





Go with friends to outings and stuff, surely they will see some women and approach them with you along. Even try online dating. I met a wonderefull man, no matter how much I don't wanna admit it, online.


You really get to be rediculously honest with each other online if you're really shy in real life....I dnno, those things worked for me I guess..good luck! =}
Um if you're looking for love the bar is probably not the best place. A lot of girls at the bars are just looking for flings or are really slutty and immature. Try the leisure guide (if you have one) and take up a few new hobbies. Here'e a list of places where you might meet a girl:





-the grocery store


-the park


-sporting events


-the mall


-where you work (you could apply at a restaurant or male/female clothing store to get to know people your age)


-the gym





Even if you don't find a girl right away, you will make friends and maybe some of your new friends will know a nice girl that is looking for a guy like you. Good luck!