well i just got over this guy who only saw me as that lil sister/best friend way. (broke my heart!)
but! my question is im starting to like this new guy...but to AVOID the best friend realationship again...any tips? how should i act to 'make' him like me...u knw?
i just need some pointers
thanks so much
p.s.
he is in my science class
he can text but i think his phone broke
my really good friend is HIS best friendHere we goo! u guys have GREAT advice...and i need some! 10 points...?
Let him know that you're into him as soon as you can. No signs, no hints or subtle flirting, suck it all in and tell him how you feel. That should let him know from the start you want to be more than friends. Whether he feels the same way or not though i cannot guarantee.Here we goo! u guys have GREAT advice...and i need some! 10 points...?
just make sure to leave subtle hints, make sure you say hi every time you see him no matter where and say it with a flirty wave. Find out what his interests are and learn more about them so you can talk about them. If he really likes football try to learn about it or maybe even ask him some time if he could show you what different things mean during a game (hint around to him to ask you to a game so you can learn) Guys love to teach girls things it makes them the stronger person. Never try to be ';one of the guys'; unless that's what you truly want...I personally liked being ';one of the guys'; but its really hard to find a boyfriend that way!!!
Good Luck :-)
I understand, especially if your not a real girly girl they see you as one of the guys fustrating yes. But don't ACT anyway. Be yourself. Let them know your interested but don't act like someone your not. Don't do that giggly girl stuff. PUKE! they will see right thru that. I always said the right person will like me for who I am. Be kinda flirty but not over the top enough to let em know you like them.
FLIRT!! Touch his arm alot, brush aside your hair, don't be ditsy but still be girly. Impress him with stories he's interested in, not just girly crap. But most of all, he'll most likely rather be with you than just want you as a sister like figure.... unless you're unattractive too him, than you're just out of luck. Sry, but high school guys, whether they know it or not are shallow.
Try to speed things along a bit better by making a move sooner. It's not rushing things. If he doesn't like you now, chances are, waiting is just going to put you in the friends zone again and he won't like you later either. So I'd just suggest to make a move.
Develop academic and intellectual communication. Form a study group. Invite him to share informational exchanges for mutual enrichment. Excellence and good grades are very attractive.
okay, just don't act too best-friend like and remember to actually FLIRT don't get all flustered and what not.
The same EXACT thing happened to me.
Okay tip numeral uno: LEAVE YOUR FRIENDS OUT OF IT.....if YOU like him then YOU go up and tell him how you feel or write a note to him.
FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT
Flirt, flirt, flirt...
And smile and always take notice of him and say ';hi'; or something like that...
do the same thing as the friend thing but be flirty that's pretty much it
come on to him. That's the best thing to do
umm... put out? i dunno, but if u do he wont be able to think of u as a little sis.
flirt with him and give contact like touch him
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