I just started ';officially'; dating my girlfriend a few days ago, the day before we went away on a thanksgiving break (im in college). We had been seeing each other for two months prior to this. For the first three days on this break she hasnt called or texted and only answered my texts with short responses. When I call she gives me short answers and we only talk for a few minutes, if that. Ever since she became my gf she has put no effort in whatsoever. Why would she change like this right after we ';officially'; start a relationship?HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
It seems she is either not ready to acknowledge the relationship or has some worries. It would be very good if you both can have a chat about this.
Also, be impartial and ask yourself
- if you are moving too fast in this relationship?
- are your concerns genuine or are you a bit hyper or overtly sensitive about her responses? She might be surrounded by her family and might not be getting a chance to talk to you properly or send u long messages!!!
- Regarding facebook... do u know if she has to tell her family about her being in a relationship?and will her being in a relationship be ok with them?
Talk to her once she is back from her vacation. Ask her about her true feelings. If she is not sure either give her some time or else put a stop to it unless and until she comes back to you.
All the best!!!HELP!! GIRLS or GUYS I need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
My gf is like that with conversation also lately, I asked and so should you.
Similar circumstance and I hate it , makes me wonder if she has nothing to say now then what does the future hold. Hopefully everything but you never know.
Good luck and I hope you have a better time getting an answer than I did.
You really need to tell her how you feel. If you constantly have to reasure your self that she is into you then you need to address it now. If you guys both went home then maybe she is having fun with her family. She will see you more after this break. You need to be oopen and honest on how you feel now.
Well seems to me that she feels she has you exactly where she wants you but does not want you to feel that way about her. Just give her a bit of the same treatment and see if she changes her attitude.
Talk to her about it, go right to the source.
Doesn't sound like she's committed to you like you want to be to her. If she's this way when yall first start dating it won't get better if anything it will probably get worse. So personally I wouldn't put myself through it especially if I wanted to be in a serious relationship.
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